i rlly need help. only married guys find me attractive. de single wants only ant 2 have fun.
i need advise pls

Need to see what u look like in order to provide good analysis on what or what not the problem may be

What makes you think the married guys find you attractive and are serious with you. in fact its the married guys who want to have more fun with you. because ask most of them they are not willing to dump their wives for you.

ThoniaSlim:

What makes you think the married guys find you attractive and are serious with you. in fact its the married guys who want to have more fun with you. because ask most of them they are not willing to dump their wives for you.

thoniaslim is correct,

y shld a married man be interested in a single lady? have u asked ur self this.

Well it all boils down to what you really want ooo !

You'll have to tell us more about yourself, the kind of company you keep, the kind of places you go to and how you carry yourself as well as how old you are before we know what to tell you.

ThoniaSlim:

What makes you think the married guys find you attractive and are serious with you. in fact its the married guys who want to have more fun with you. because ask most of them they are not willing to dump their wives for you.

GBAM!!



@ poster

If I were to ask you what it is you want from a man and what you expect from your ideal man what would you say?

The way I see it . . . . .

How do you communicate to the single guys that take some sort of interest in you?

Do you have any single friends? do you have or know (aquaintaces) any single guys?

This boils than to your knowledge of the inner life of the single man. It is very different from the married man and once you begin to understand that then you begin to 'flow' with them and that leads inevitably to something more than mere attraction.

I do hope this helps you. 

yimiton:

You'll have to tell us more about yourself, the kind of company you keep, the kind of places you go to and how you carry yourself as well as how old you are before we know what to tell you.

Need i add anything ok Yes, i add, Stop Aristorism

yimiton:

You'll have to tell us more about yourself, the kind of company you keep, the kind of places you go to and how you carry yourself as well as how old you are before we know what to tell you.

yea i want to say thank u all for ur comments

i'm not the kind of a gal that listens to talks, so when i mean intersest i dnt mean " baby u look good, ur'll sweet and all that .

to ur questions
i'm 26yrs, not ugly atall, i'm witty, have a lot of single friend both sexes, i go were singles go to,atleat i'm old enof to know when i'm been chased.

ThoniaSlim:

What makes you think the married guys find you attractive and are serious with you. in fact its the married guys who want to have more fun with you. because ask most of them they are not willing to dump their wives for you.

ma dear i need u to remeber that not all relationships ends in marriage ok. and i'm not happy with te fault that as a young chic full of life and hopes to get married someday get chased 70% of the times by young married men,i have try not talking to marriede men, or been friendly with them but i thin it not making it easy at all.

pls it getting me crazy now dnt judge me all i need is ur advises ok

jay bee:

Need to see what u look like in order to provide good analysis on what or what not the problem may be

jay bee u could send u mail id for wat i look llke ok

@ poster : Have you tried deliverance

men madamkoko stole de words from my mouth, go for deliverance

na wa o

which kan curse be that?

What are you always doing around them??.Go to where you`ll find more single folks

Baby the bottom line is get a man who is single, Am single tho

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Need to see what u look like in order to provide good analy

thats it o, we need to see how u luk lyk if ur the fat type plz slim down, so that they wont think ur already marry
best advise go for deliverance serious one

@ purplecode
I thot u were about to get hooked up with the this girl reunited with after 4years, I was already praying for ur successful marriage. nawa ooo men!!!!!!!!

dont hang around married men. it is like you pouring honey all over your body and not expect bees to follow you.

Take this from a man. Married men in unhappy relationship seek embrace and company of another female to counterbalance the friction and stress at home. It might not be he wants you for sex. If he has a nagging wife and he sees a soothing effect in your presence he might approach you for that need, ( i am not implying that he will not demand sex but it was not the initial factor for him). Another one might not be getting enough sex at home and sees you as an ideal bed mate, he doesnt want attachment just want to visit and hit it and go home.

Check the electricity that you are radiating when in presence of married men, are you seducing?

As long as you keep rolling around married men, believe me, no single guy will appeal to you
Maried men can be great companies
The type of friendship they give you, only few single guys will do that .
They cant hurt you bcoz u know there is a limit to ur relationship and no emotions attached
The more u keep finding urself in their gathering, you'll keep comparing them to singles and coz u dont listen to singles or u dont give them attention, u feel u dont aappeal to them
First of all disengage urseelf from their association and give the single ones listening hears, u'll see that its bcoz u av bn in a wrong gathering

quick! go for a deliverance!!!

@poster

Are u a mermaid.?

@ Alert
am still single, the fact am trying to get a reunion does not change my position of been single

I think it's because the married man are bolder and ooze more confidence when they approach her. Afterall they have nothing to loose. If she says yes then fine. If no then they go back home and be with their wives.

The single guys on the other hand might be a bit cagey (afraid of rejection) in expressing their intentions. So they play it safe. If she says no to them, they have not really risked much ego. That is what I think the situation is, They might also feel a bit intimidated financially.