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Is It Weird,for A Girl To Never Have Dated Any Guy At The Age Of 25 by rinora(f): 11:01am On Jul 30, 2012 |
Heys peeps,i just need ur opinion on this one,do u guys think its weird for a girl of 25,to have never been in a relationship ever before in her life,theres this childhood friend of mine,shes a very pretty girl and has a very good heart too,but the thing is,she has never dated any guy before in her life,presently shes doing her NYSC in Abuja,and many guys have always been attracted to her,but the problem about her is,dat shes very very shy,she fidgets when shes around men,normally when shes around us,she talks gists,laffs,plays and does all sorts,but around guys she gets scared to talk,,dat even guys dat initially liked her just get fed and stop talking to her cos they think shes boring cos she doesnt talk,even though we her close friends,know shes far from being boring,then one more thing she went to a girls only secondary school and i think that affected her composure and actions whenever shes around guys.What do you think about her situation,as most of her other friends are getting married every saturday,while shes just still alone,with no guy,people around think her situation is supernatural and dat she needs help,but i dont think its supernatural.... |
Re: Is It Weird,for A Girl To Never Have Dated Any Guy At The Age Of 25 by fubbyy(m): 11:11am On Jul 30, 2012 |
rinora: Does this make her feel bad? Or is she happy that she has never dated b4? Find out from her, I have a great answer 2 give about that |
Re: Is It Weird,for A Girl To Never Have Dated Any Guy At The Age Of 25 by Mynd44: 11:27am On Jul 30, 2012 |
It is not weird, if you are in a conversation and it is boring, why not spice it up? If the girl is comfortable around you ask yourself what you do better than them that makes her lively |
Re: Is It Weird,for A Girl To Never Have Dated Any Guy At The Age Of 25 by rinora(f): 11:45am On Jul 30, 2012 |
fubbyy: Shes not happy about it and feels like she has a problem |
Re: Is It Weird,for A Girl To Never Have Dated Any Guy At The Age Of 25 by maclatunji: 1:14pm On Jul 30, 2012 |
rinora: When she meets someone she really likes, she will be all-over-him. It is that simple. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Weird,for A Girl To Never Have Dated Any Guy At The Age Of 25 by greedie1(f): 1:19pm On Jul 30, 2012 |
Is she shy around guys generally or just d ones dt ask her out? Wt is d cause of d shyness, is it low self esteem or insecurity? Is she a lesbian in denial? I need answers to these questions b4 i write my opinion |
Re: Is It Weird,for A Girl To Never Have Dated Any Guy At The Age Of 25 by Nobody: 1:49pm On Jul 30, 2012 |
She will be FIRE in bed. FIRE!!! One touch is enough. FIRE!!! |
Re: Is It Weird,for A Girl To Never Have Dated Any Guy At The Age Of 25 by Nobody: 2:56pm On Jul 30, 2012 |
@post.... I went to an all girls school too so i dn't want to believe that its d reason behind her timidity bt i think she is a very shy person and probably a religious type too, she should loosen up a bit and socialize esp now that she is serving. She won't be 18 nxt year so she should help herself. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Weird,for A Girl To Never Have Dated Any Guy At The Age Of 25 by kulboy(m): 7:21pm On Jul 30, 2012 |
It is facking weird...my guess is that she's a lesbian... |
Re: Is It Weird,for A Girl To Never Have Dated Any Guy At The Age Of 25 by youngzeal1: 10:08pm On Jul 30, 2012 |
really |
Re: Is It Weird,for A Girl To Never Have Dated Any Guy At The Age Of 25 by Nobody: 11:24pm On Jul 30, 2012 |
rinora:no solution yet Kai! No bobo even ask 4 number Well poster, i'm a man of few words. Give me her number and her life will never remain the same again. Cheers |
Re: Is It Weird,for A Girl To Never Have Dated Any Guy At The Age Of 25 by tellwisdom: 11:30pm On Jul 30, 2012 |
nne3870: @post.... I went to an all girls school too so i dn't want to believe that its d reason behind her timidity bt i think she is a very shy person and probably a religious type too, she should loosen up a bit and socialize esp now that she is serving. She won't be 18 nxt year so she should help herself. You are a les..Dont lie |
Re: Is It Weird,for A Girl To Never Have Dated Any Guy At The Age Of 25 by jhydebaba(m): 11:50pm On Jul 30, 2012 |
Her problem should be psycological. People like that would have been told series of lies when they were young for example: when a boy touches you, you get pregnant not to talk of when he holds you. So, the fear of socializing with boys will be building up over the years and when she finally grows up with that mentality, it will be difficult to change her. My 10naira note: She needs somebody to stand by her always and to convince her that guys are not always like that but if the Devil will add 'insult' to her 'injury' she will meet a player. I swear, she will never move closer to men again in her life. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Weird,for A Girl To Never Have Dated Any Guy At The Age Of 25 by gst101: 12:21am On Jul 31, 2012 |
attending an all girls sec has got nothing to do with it becos her sec school mates even while in sec school, have so many boy friends. I attended an all boys school and am a bit like her. My friends in sec school have so many girlfriends back then so our not having someone is not due to the single sex school we attended. I am free with other ladies but when it comes to the one i feel for, i break down immediately and i dont like it. I am 24 |
Re: Is It Weird,for A Girl To Never Have Dated Any Guy At The Age Of 25 by bobbyjabo: 1:32am On Jul 31, 2012 |
jhydebaba: Her problem should be psycological. People like that would have been told series of lies when they were young for example: when a boy touches you, you get pregnant not to talk of when he holds you. So, the fear of socializing with boys will be building up over the years and when she finally grows up with that mentality, it will be difficult to change her. Lool that part is funny but true |
Re: Is It Weird,for A Girl To Never Have Dated Any Guy At The Age Of 25 by Nobody: 1:48am On Jul 31, 2012 |
Nope. |
Re: Is It Weird,for A Girl To Never Have Dated Any Guy At The Age Of 25 by cowgurl: 2:22am On Jul 31, 2012 |
Reading through your post, 'l say something psychological is definitely up with ur friend cos I can sense her wanting to be in a relationship. It's a different issue if this (not being in a relationship) is what she wants but no, something on the inside is scaring her not to. So as her friend, you've gat som work to do reaching through her and healing her. |
Re: Is It Weird,for A Girl To Never Have Dated Any Guy At The Age Of 25 by ITbomb(m): 9:35am On Jul 31, 2012 |
Not weird. She would be a source of income for prayerhouse when she reach like 32 and no marriage |
Re: Is It Weird,for A Girl To Never Have Dated Any Guy At The Age Of 25 by lepasharon(f): 2:15am On Aug 02, 2012 |
its not weird.. |
Re: Is It Weird,for A Girl To Never Have Dated Any Guy At The Age Of 25 by CyberG: 4:38am On Aug 02, 2012 |
She has mental / psychological problems and needs help. Girls like these show up @ 35 and bombard NL with all kinds of complex stupid stories which they can avoid now by using their brains! I know a few girls who lost the plot and there's no way to have pity for silly people like that. |
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