spouses be faithful to yrselves. This has alws been the mantra. Despite this we alws hear cases of married men and women sleeping around. We hav also heard cases of spouses accusing each other of infidelity.but this tread is about faithfulness and trust:which comes first. I think trust should come first in marraige.this is becos without trust even when no one is cheating there will be suspicion and hence quarrel in the marraige.but with trust there will be mutual confidence and hence peace,even when there is infidelity(provided no one is caught). In this case u can see trust is the ultimate. Or what do u think?

Faithfulness first and trust will follow automatically. If you trust a spouse but later on find out that he/she is unfaithful, then the marriage begins to crumble.

yes! The problem is a situation where the man is not cheating on the wife but the wife doesnt trust the man.you find out that every step the man makes the woman will suspect. And men dont like this. So at the end of the day there is quarrel evry time not because of infidelity but becos of lack of trust

Understood, but one can not trust his or her spouse until he/she is convinced that the spouse is faithful.