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My Friend, Ex-Boyfriend, And Photos On BB by kandiikane: 11:14am On Aug 10, 2012

My Ex And 'friend'-did I Take The Guy From Her Or Did She Take Him From Me?

This thing has been annoying me for two days now.

The thing is, my 'friend' has been putting up pictures of my ex, forgetting that I am her contact.

She was the same 'friend' who spoilt my relationship in the first place few years ago.

Rewind:
I was quite young then and naïve but I involved myself with this guy and it turned out, my 'friend' a youth at my mother's church was the booty call for my ex.

I did not know this until she came up to me one day and said she's been seeing a guy. Obviously, wanting to hear more about this mystery man, I asked for description and the goat described my ex from head to toe, even his tattoos and shitniz.

Anyway, thing come blow, ex denied it and people got involved, I broke up with him. He begged and begged, I forgave, got back together but after a while I found out the girl was still a booty call.

He made me wait outside once under the rain for 2 hours, ended up going home because he fell 'asleep'. (Found out not too long ago, that the girl had gone to see him that same day, that's why he ignored my calls).

The girl went around saying I took the man from him, she was there first. O_o

I never knew about them and she already had a boyfriend when she was dealing with my ex.

I was his girlfriend and she was only a bootycall.

Anyway, I did not hate the girl or stopped talking to her because I don't have it in.

I knew she had been sleeping with him(she denied it) even after we broke up but I didn't bother because I didn't care. I had moved on.

What's pissing me off now after so many years is the pictures she has been putting up. I asked my ex if they are seeing and he is still lying through his gaptooth.

Should I confront the girl? Not in that matter but as in "are you still phucking my ex" or should I just ignore it because I have moved on and it's been so many years?

Plus, did I take the guy from her, considering everything?
tongue

Re: My Friend, Ex-Boyfriend, And Photos On BB by hornipipe: 11:35am On Aug 10, 2012

She does things that annoy u_and u_still leave her on ur_contact list? ℓ̊ think u_should delete her and_wait for_her to_confront u_asking why u_deleted her. Then u_ can spill it_ All out

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Re: My Friend, Ex-Boyfriend, And Photos On BB by kandiikane: 11:36am On Aug 10, 2012

It's not about the contactlist. It's whether I should question her now or not.

Re: My Friend, Ex-Boyfriend, And Photos On BB by hornipipe: 11:47am On Aug 10, 2012

U_should let her be..what_if you_ask her and_she says yes_shez bn phucking him..whoz gon' get hurt? Still u!..just ignore her....he is_us ex and shoud be a thing of the_ Past..unless u_still got feelings for_ him and_ planning on getting back with him #justsaying tongue

Re: My Friend, Ex-Boyfriend, And Photos On BB by 2goodbobo(m): 11:49am On Aug 10, 2012

For crying out loud, you said you have moved on so why are you still allowing the issue bother you?

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Re: My Friend, Ex-Boyfriend, And Photos On BB by tashanja(m): 11:58am On Aug 10, 2012

Apparently you still care and had not moved on, contrary to what you are saying; otherwise it wouldn't matter now. If you had truly moved on then of what use is it to you at this juncture to know whether she was first or not - besides he's been a free man ever since you broke up, so why can't she or any other girl hook up with him and for what its worth put up his picture.
Stop tormenting yourself and move on, his loss not yours.

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Re: My Friend, Ex-Boyfriend, And Photos On BB by hornipipe: 11:58am On Aug 10, 2012

2goodbobo: For crying out loud, you said you have moved on so why are you still allowing the issue bother you?

Re: My Friend, Ex-Boyfriend, And Photos On BB by kandiikane: 12:04pm On Aug 10, 2012

Tbh, I'm not interested in him. I don't have an ounce of feeling left for him. You have to understand the issues that surrounded my friend, my ex and I. If it was anyone other girl, I won't care but I just feel disrespected.

Re: My Friend, Ex-Boyfriend, And Photos On BB by slimyem: 12:20pm On Aug 10, 2012

you think your friend was the booty call...meanwhile you were the real booty call.
Which man would leave his real girlfriend in the rain for two hours because he was with a booty-call??
Believe what you want to believe babe but i just told you the koko.
...and by the way,swallow that i have moved on nonsense..
You haven't!
If you want to keep hurting yourself,go ahead and ask her if she's still blowing the sausage..na u sabi..
I have spoken! cheesy

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Re: My Friend, Ex-Boyfriend, And Photos On BB by kandiikane: 12:25pm On Aug 10, 2012

It's nice to know you were there. cool

Re: My Friend, Ex-Boyfriend, And Photos On BB by debosky(m): 12:33pm On Aug 10, 2012

kandii dear wink

Just move on - take it as part of learning and growing up. People will chat rubbish from now till eternity - are you going to try to challenge what everyone says?

You're over the guy, he's in your past. Whether you confront her or not, people will think what they want to.

I don't know why you're asking your ex if he's screwing her - why do you care? Do you usually ask him who he's sleeping-with on a regular basis? huh

If she's happy having a BF who was sleeping-with other girls when sleeping-with her, then good luck to her. You should be the better person and just leave them both to their devices.

Please move on - people will always talk. Even if you confront her, people will still think what they want to. The key is to make sure your own head is clear and move on with you life.

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Re: My Friend, Ex-Boyfriend, And Photos On BB by kandiikane: 12:39pm On Aug 10, 2012

Debo, I have read and taken it in.

Re: My Friend, Ex-Boyfriend, And Photos On BB by freecocoa(f): 1:19pm On Aug 10, 2012

slimyem: you think your friend was the booty call...meanwhile you were the real booty call.
Which man would leave his real girlfriend in the rain for two hours because he was with a booty-call??
Believe what you want to believe babe but i just told you the koko.
...and by the way,swallow that i have moved on nonsense..
You haven't!
If you want to keep hurting yourself,go ahead and ask her if she's still blowing the sausage..na u sabi..
I have spoken!

Slimyem please i don't want to believe I'm falling in love with you angry

.

You sure can be smart when your brain is not on reboot,just imagine story.

Jesus christ! and i thought girls don wise up these days cheesy

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Re: My Friend, Ex-Boyfriend, And Photos On BB by ArQueBusieR(m): 2:04pm On Aug 10, 2012

I'd say you got what you deserved. The signs were there. Heck! The signs are always there!! And you ignored them. Ok, I get it, "you were naive". But from what I just read, you still are. He left you in the rain for two good hours. Remember how you felt that day. Do you want to go through that again? Move on lady, forget about your ex and your "friend". And get busy.

Re: My Friend, Ex-Boyfriend, And Photos On BB by Goldieluks: 2:13pm On Aug 10, 2012

slimyem: you think your friend was the booty call...meanwhile you were the real booty call.
Which man would leave his real girlfriend in the rain for two hours because he was with a booty-call??
Believe what you want to believe babe but i just told you the koko.
...and by the way,swallow that i have moved on nonsense..
You haven't!
If you want to keep hurting yourself,go ahead and ask her if she's still blowing the sausage..na u sabi..
I have spoken!

You can say that again.

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Re: My Friend, Ex-Boyfriend, And Photos On BB by kandiikane: 2:15pm On Aug 10, 2012

Re: My Friend, Ex-Boyfriend, And Photos On BB by Goldieluks: 2:18pm On Aug 10, 2012

Only a confuse loser would go back to find out from an ex, if he's still bleeping her "friend". wth! Move on ( since 100 years ago ) already!

Re: My Friend, Ex-Boyfriend, And Photos On BB by freecocoa(f): 2:21pm On Aug 10, 2012

Goldieluks: Only a confuse loser would go back to find out from an ex, if he's still bleeping her "friend". wth! Move on ( since 100 years ago ) already!

Why are you talking as if you don't know that many girls are usually stup1d in love and keep telling themselves "I've moved on" when they still care,its a very common trait with girls. cheesy

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Re: My Friend, Ex-Boyfriend, And Photos On BB by Idowuogbo(f): 2:25pm On Aug 10, 2012

Goldieluks: Only a confuse loser would go back to find out from an ex, if he's still bleeping her "friend". wth! Move on ( since 100 years ago ) already!

sharrap!!!!
u were once lost and foolish na! thank God for amazing grace....phew!!! tongue

Re: My Friend, Ex-Boyfriend, And Photos On BB by Goldieluks: 2:27pm On Aug 10, 2012

freecocoa: Why are you talking as if you don't know that many girls are usually stup1d in love and keep telling themselves "I've moved on" when they still care,its a very common trait with girls.

Especially those girls who don't have a real man in their lives, they always tend to find it difficult to move on. Not ruling out the fact that it can be difficult sometimes, but some girls are plain silly so that they are not able to see the light in front of them.

Re: My Friend, Ex-Boyfriend, And Photos On BB by kandiikane: 2:28pm On Aug 10, 2012

Lool! Na wa oo. They have all come to gang up. Continue. tongue

Re: My Friend, Ex-Boyfriend, And Photos On BB by honeric01(m): 2:28pm On Aug 10, 2012

freecocoa: Why are you talking as if you don't know that many girls are usually stup1d in love and keep telling themselves "I've moved on" when they still care,its a very common trait with girls.

you included hehehe

Re: My Friend, Ex-Boyfriend, And Photos On BB by Goldieluks: 2:30pm On Aug 10, 2012

Idowuogbo:
sharrap!!!!
u were once lost and foolish na! thank God for amazing grace....phew!!!

Who doesn't have an 'ex'?? All we are saying is some people find it difficult to move on, Duh! huh

Re: My Friend, Ex-Boyfriend, And Photos On BB by Idowuogbo(f): 2:33pm On Aug 10, 2012

@op
hen hen! so u dense like dis? u are asking ur ex if he is fawcking d ex after standing outside in the rain for 2hrs? U are sure d first foolish half gambari and saro babe i don clash wiv o!it cant b my own ghetto looking kandi sha.

Re: My Friend, Ex-Boyfriend, And Photos On BB by kandiikane: 2:35pm On Aug 10, 2012

Let's wait when someone you know is caught nyashing your man then we'll hear a different tune. tongue

Re: My Friend, Ex-Boyfriend, And Photos On BB by slimyem: 2:36pm On Aug 10, 2012

kandiikane: Lool! Na wa oo. They have all come to gang up. Continue.

see as you gentle because say na your thread... cheesy

if na another thread now...you go don dey flex muscles anyhow...
Shioooor! cheesy

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Re: My Friend, Ex-Boyfriend, And Photos On BB by freecocoa(f): 2:36pm On Aug 10, 2012

honeric01:

you included hehehe

Not denying the fact at all,but I'm all grown up now,i won't be caught dead caring about a useless ex who was a cheat,not now not ever again cheesy

Re: My Friend, Ex-Boyfriend, And Photos On BB by kandiikane: 2:37pm On Aug 10, 2012

Idowuogbo: @op
hen hen! so u dense like dis? u are asking ur ex if he is fawcking d ex after standing outside in the rain for 2hrs? U are sure d first foolish half gambari and saro babe i don clash wiv o!it cant b my own ghetto looking kandi sha.

Na, which ex ke, the girl was a LovePeddler jare. She had a man whilst nyashing the guy. I was the authentic babe na. Lol. tongue

Nor be your kandi mehn, na di other wan. cheesy

Re: My Friend, Ex-Boyfriend, And Photos On BB by slimyem: 2:39pm On Aug 10, 2012

kandiikane:

Na, which ex ke, the girl was a LovePeddler jare. She had a man whilst nyashing the guy. I was the authentic babe na. Lol.

Nor be your kandi mehn, na di other wan.

....at least she's still with the guy...she's still posting his pictures...makes her THE AUTHENTIC BABE..
Get over it! cheesy

Re: My Friend, Ex-Boyfriend, And Photos On BB by kandiikane: 2:42pm On Aug 10, 2012

Posting photo could mean the opposite, when the guy still dey dere dey sniff my nyash but I'm over it jare.

No long thing. tongue

Re: My Friend, Ex-Boyfriend, And Photos On BB by freecocoa(f): 2:43pm On Aug 10, 2012

kandiikane: Let's wait when someone you know is caught nyashing your man then we'll hear a different tune.

No don't get it twisted baby.

Its a different thing when your friend screwed your boo than your boo is screwing your friend with you standing in the rain for 2 hours waiting and while you are broken up with the boo,he keeps sleeping with your friend,still you are asking who's the other woman?

C'mon girlfriend change the brand of claro you smoke,it ain't strong enough

Re: My Friend, Ex-Boyfriend, And Photos On BB by Emmy9ite(m): 2:45pm On Aug 10, 2012

Op don't confront her,you said u have moved on,why are u still looking at the back..i have a proposal dear,i am single,can we mingle??

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