You are in your late 20s and early 30s and almost all your
friends are married; including that ugly, short and fat Jane!
Yet you think you are a good wife material, but you are still
single and getting really worried. Well maybe guys are not
looking your way because you are guilty of a number of
these offenses:
1. You are too haughty. You are the “independent”
type that acts as if you don’t give a damn about guys.
Your oversized ego has
beclouded your reason for so
long to make you think you don’t
need men and you can do well
alone all by yourself. Typically,
you will quickly size up the guy
and bring him down with
intimidating looks and sarcastic
responses. Well, I suggest you
marry yourself.
2. You are looking for Mr. Perfect. You want a well-
built, neat, romantic, hardworking, honest, God-
fearing, faithful, dark, tall and handsome gentleman
man from a good background who has a good job,
drive a good car and loves you unconditionally. I’m
afraid that perfect guy you read about in a romantic
novel isn’t real. He only exists in the writer’s
imagination – and yours. Wake up gurl. You’ll never
find a perfect guy – anywhere. Just like you, everyone
else is imperfect. Accept that fact or wait for the guy to
emerge from the book and marry you.
3. You smell desperate. Men have a special ability to
smell desperation in a woman. Unfortunately, we find
that odor very offensive and avoid it like a plague. Now
your parents and friends are asking you frustrating
questions about marriage, and you are so sick of
those questions so you’d do anything to get the next
available guy to marry you. You need a man so badly
and justifiably so. Unfortunately for you, the more
desperate you are, the less attractive men find you.
4. You pay too little attention to your appearance.
You don’t want to look like a bitch. So you always
dress down, doesn’t wear make ups and are unkempt.
You are just pathetic. Even stunningly looking ladies
are still in the husband-haunting market; and you
really think a guy will leave all the attractive women
and come for you because he’s “good guy”? Well, if
your goal is to have him sleep with you, some men
won’t mind. But if it’s to get him to marry you, then,
you are so mistaken. Haven’t you been told that men a
visually stimulated?
5. You pay too much attention to your appearance.
The fact that men are visually stimulated doesn’t mean
they are unreasonable. Some men may make
awkward choice of a sex partner, but when it comes to
a life partner, men are painstakingly selective. If not
you’d be married by now. Every man dreams of
marrying a decent lady, not some bitch who won’t
mind going naked on the street to get cheap attention.
6. You are rather too sexually naïve. Each time he
talks about sex, you act like he has just committed a
crime, because you are a virgin or you don’t want to
appear promiscuous. When you do that you only
make him wonder how boring or frigid you are in bed.
Normal men like sex. And whether you want to agree
to it or not, if he doesn’t have a hint that you can
satisfy him sexually(either practically or by
insinuations), he’s put off (most of the time)
subconsciously. That’s when men say things like
“there’s no chemistry”, “I don’t feel her” or “we don’t
connect”. In other words, your insensitivity to his libido
repels him.
7. You are too boring. If you could choose between
two guys with equal qualities in all ramifications
except that one is boring and another is interesting,
which of them will you rather pick? The interesting one
of course! So why do you think if he has to make a
similar choice, he’ll prefer the boring you to an
interesting lady? You excuse yourself by saying “I’m
the quiet type”. Being an introvert is different from
being boring. Men are logical by nature and therefore
they tend to be more futuristic species. So, he’ll picture
the two of you alone in your home. No one looks
forward to a boring home. Some ladies are
uninteresting and uninterested.
8. You nag. This is by far one of the most annoying
behaviors a lady can exhibit. It is alarming however
how many women nag. All in the bid to get him do
what she wants, when she wants it and how she wants
it, women typically become nags to achieve their ends.
This is rather selfish and insensitive. No matter what
you hope to achieve, nagging will never get you
anywhere. And it will drive men far away from you.
9. You are insecure. It is normal for women to need
constant reassurance. What is not cool however is for
them is to make their guys’ lives impossible because
of deep-rooted lack of self-confidence. Insecurity is an
awful but common issue amongst many women. No
matter what the guy does, it hits their weak point. If he
looks there, he’s checking out another girl. If he’s busy
with work, he doesn’t love you. If forgets an important
date, he doesn’t care. If a lady calls him, he’s cheating.
You suspect his every action and inaction and react
awfully even to well-intended gestures. That way, you
will drive every man in your life away, and fast.
10. You are too stubborn rigid. Being principled is an
admirable thing, but being unreasonably unbending is
unattractive. All in the name of being principled, you
go around with a lousy air of sauciness and you want
a million guys to come asking you out? Your very long
list of do’s and don’ts that must be strictly adhered at
all times in all condition is not a plus but a minus. You
are unbendable, unreachable and unteachable and
you actually pride yourself about it. Well, I got news for
you; you are going around with red beeping alert that
says “keep off guys, I am a robot!”

11. I will not read dis super story

Tell them if they ill hear

M M M: 11. I will not read dis super story

u r a dunb ass,wht super story here. Dis raw fact n u're talking trash

yamunla: You are in your late 20s and early 30s and almost all your
friends are married; including that ugly, short and fat Jane!
Yet you think you are a good wife material, but you are still
single and getting really worried. Well maybe guys are not
looking your way because you are guilty of a number of
these offenses:
1. You are too haughty. You are the “independent”
type that acts as if you don’t give a damn about guys.
Your oversized ego has
beclouded your reason for so
long to make you think you don’t
need men and you can do well
alone all by yourself. Typically,
you will quickly size up the guy
and bring him down with
intimidating looks and sarcastic
responses. Well, I suggest you
marry yourself.
2. You are looking for Mr. Perfect. You want a well-
built, neat, romantic, hardworking, honest, God-
fearing, faithful, dark, tall and handsome gentleman
man from a good background who has a good job,
drive a good car and loves you unconditionally. I’m
afraid that perfect guy you read about in a romantic
novel isn’t real. He only exists in the writer’s
imagination – and yours. Wake up gurl. You’ll never
find a perfect guy – anywhere. Just like you, everyone
else is imperfect. Accept that fact or wait for the guy to
emerge from the book and marry you.
3. You smell desperate. Men have a special ability to
smell desperation in a woman. Unfortunately, we find
that odor very offensive and avoid it like a plague. Now
your parents and friends are asking you frustrating
questions about marriage, and you are so sick of
those questions so you’d do anything to get the next
available guy to marry you. You need a man so badly
and justifiably so. Unfortunately for you, the more
desperate you are, the less attractive men find you.
4. You pay too little attention to your appearance.
You don’t want to look like a bitch. So you always
dress down, doesn’t wear make ups and are unkempt.
You are just pathetic. Even stunningly looking ladies
are still in the husband-haunting market; and you
really think a guy will leave all the attractive women
and come for you because he’s “good guy”? Well, if
your goal is to have him sleep with you, some men
won’t mind. But if it’s to get him to marry you, then,
you are so mistaken. Haven’t you been told that men a
visually stimulated?
5. You pay too much attention to your appearance.
The fact that men are visually stimulated doesn’t mean
they are unreasonable. Some men may make
awkward choice of a sex partner, but when it comes to
a life partner, men are painstakingly selective. If not
you’d be married by now. Every man dreams of
marrying a decent lady, not some bitch who won’t
mind going naked on the street to get cheap attention.
6. You are rather too sexually naïve. Each time he
talks about sex, you act like he has just committed a
crime, because you are a virgin or you don’t want to
appear promiscuous. When you do that you only
make him wonder how boring or frigid you are in bed.
Normal men like sex. And whether you want to agree
to it or not, if he doesn’t have a hint that you can
satisfy him sexually(either practically or by
insinuations), he’s put off (most of the time)
subconsciously. That’s when men say things like
“there’s no chemistry”, “I don’t feel her” or “we don’t
connect”. In other words, your insensitivity to his libido
repels him.
7. You are too boring. If you could choose between
two guys with equal qualities in all ramifications
except that one is boring and another is interesting,
which of them will you rather pick? The interesting one
of course! So why do you think if he has to make a
similar choice, he’ll prefer the boring you to an
interesting lady? You excuse yourself by saying “I’m
the quiet type”. Being an introvert is different from
being boring. Men are logical by nature and therefore
they tend to be more futuristic species. So, he’ll picture
the two of you alone in your home. No one looks
forward to a boring home. Some ladies are
uninteresting and uninterested.
8. You nag. This is by far one of the most annoying
behaviors a lady can exhibit. It is alarming however
how many women nag. All in the bid to get him do
what she wants, when she wants it and how she wants
it, women typically become nags to achieve their ends.
This is rather selfish and insensitive. No matter what
you hope to achieve, nagging will never get you
anywhere. And it will drive men far away from you.
9. You are insecure. It is normal for women to need
constant reassurance. What is not cool however is for
them is to make their guys’ lives impossible because
of deep-rooted lack of self-confidence. Insecurity is an
awful but common issue amongst many women. No
matter what the guy does, it hits their weak point. If he
looks there, he’s checking out another girl. If he’s busy
with work, he doesn’t love you. If forgets an important
date, he doesn’t care. If a lady calls him, he’s cheating.
You suspect his every action and inaction and react
awfully even to well-intended gestures. That way, you
will drive every man in your life away, and fast.
10. You are too stubborn rigid. Being principled is an
admirable thing, but being unreasonably unbending is
unattractive. All in the name of being principled, you
go around with a lousy air of sauciness and you want
a million guys to come asking you out? Your very long
list of do’s and don’ts that must be strictly adhered at
all times in all condition is not a plus but a minus. You
are unbendable, unreachable and unteachable and
you actually pride yourself about it. Well, I got news for
you; you are going around with red beeping alert that
says “keep off guys, I am a robot!”

i agree with this...

Blue moon:

i agree with this...

And you had to quote the whole post just to write this? Smh!

cindyrella:
And you had to quote the whole post just to write this? Smh!

GBAM!

@op try to cut your story short..... Its too long to comprehend....

I agree

what?
NOT again

so you mean someone actually expended energy in writing that whole story

hmmmmmmmmm
people get work sha
wetin concern you if dem marry or not sef.... Advicer womangbe

I actully read throuh it.

Nice write up.

Ladies take note, this article is worth reading.

Is too lenghty for me, maybe u should summarize am abit.

Thanks very much, some of these things i didn't know before now. Interesting piece.

To hide something from African keep it in a book... Theres a portion of the bible that says somtin like '' wisdom knocks at the door but a fools mind is at the end of the earth''... We often think there are no sense in everything bt its cos most of us have shallow minds, shallow brains & can make sense out of a ''quagmire''.

This in fact is so loaded wit stuffs I havent tot about... If its 1 person this thread wud save den its fulfilled its purpose...

richarts: To hide something from African keep it in a book... Theres a portion of the bible that says somtin like '' wisdom knocks at the door but a fools mind is at the end of the earth''... We often think there are no sense in everything bt its cos most of us have shallow minds, shallow brains & can make sense out of a ''quagmire''.

This in fact is so loaded wit stuffs I havent tot about... If its 1 person this thread wud save den its fulfilled its purpose...

SHUT UP JO!!!
Who comes to NL to look for wisdom??
ODE! 4 ur mind u don make sense abi?? mtcheew

Shollypopz:
SHUT UP JO!!!
Who comes to NL to look for wisdom??
ODE! 4 ur mind u don make sense abi?? mtcheew

U av used ur mouth to judge urself.

richarts:

U av used ur mouth to judge urself.

bla... bla.... bla....Mechi onu!
judge ko, judge ni......na my mouth i tk type?? Olodo!!



[size=5pt]btw, i'm just fooling around[/size]

I love this. Nice piece op

Such AA self righteous pompous write up.feeling cool with urself so u r probably a guy with no idea of the challenges of being a woman. How some don't do any of ur above named bad manners and still have difficulties in getting a good husband. U r just thriving on a woman s weakness and fears when her biological clock is ticking to come and give reasons why she is not married as if u are God and know all d secrets of d world. Subjective and sanctimonious write ups like this are d reasons why men keep expecting to find good wives without thinking of making themselves good husbands cuz any negative situation must be d womans fault.

Thank God am not a lady. Op so you expect me to read all thiz,you must be sleeping on okada!
#Picks his chemistry textbuk instead.

Shollypopz:
SHUT UP JO!!!
Who comes to NL to look for wisdom??
ODE! 4 ur mind u don make sense abi?? mtcheew

Now I know why your man keeps cheating on u

perez019:

Now I know why your man keeps cheating on u

LMAO!! Random much

Shollypopz:
SHUT UP JO!!!
Who comes to NL to look for wisdom??
ODE! 4 ur mind u don make sense abi?? mtcheew

LMAO!!!

Another remix? Always hammering on women....! Nyc one but i v seen such before.

4 and 5 are like damned if you do, damned if you dont.