Jubal01: She told me abt ha bf dat is an SSS

Amya: What you do is to stop being a fool and take up the job offer.

uboma: @ op, i understand ur fears. But did u promise to marry her? If u did, then it will be dicey to go ahead and accept her job offer, when deep inside u have second doubts abt marrying her.

tashanja: Are you qualified for the Job? If yes, then all she did was get you the initial connection, subsequently there after everything will be due your own hard work and you would have earned it.

Take the job while you still can, preferably expressing your reservations before hand, after-all beggars can't be choosers - unless of course deep down you know that you don't have real feelings for her, then you'd be guilty of opportunism and taking advantage of her her.

Nasty-clown:
NO! don't take the job, remain jobless its much more fun

Jubal01:
Am vry qualified. Its a management job, nd am a management graduate. I tink u av a point dia. Bt u c, dia is d naija facto whr even if i leta on 'earn' dia trust, she myt use ha influence 2 scuttle it. It hapns. D bst dnt alwys get d bst.

Ucheosefoh: @op take de job offer jare my ex gf got me admission in my skul without paying kobo but dat did nt stop me 4rm dumping her ass when she start cheating behind my bk. I tink u dnt no how many piple dat want 2 be in ur shoe in dis case may be u just graduate and never stay 4 house like 2 yrs or more still unemployed then nobody go tell 2 grab de offer without looking bk

tashanja:

Is she that influential and vindictive? My friend, if you allow fear and pessimism hold you down, you'd never get anywhere.

Even if you should still hold such reservation; rather than sitting on your arse fretting over what may or may not happen in the distant future, why not start planning to be one step ahead e.g. take the job and use it as a stepping stone while looking for similar or even better one.

Meanwhile, remaining jobless would put you in increasingly lesser position to even holding on to your current let alone securing another relationship - should this one fail. Talking about Nigerian factor, well ask yourself how many typical 9ja babes would stay and remain faithful to a broke arsed bf/hubby.

Grab the opportunity while it still last, as there is no dishonesty or shame in doing so.

Jubal01:
Yes. Vry, vry influential. Its 1 of ha dad's chain of hotels in yola. De want me 2 manage it 4 dem.

Mynd_44: To me, the OP sound lazy and un-serious. The girl has offered to get you a job but you will rather stay home and remain jobless because of the lame excuse that you are confused.
Mscheeeeeeew

Jubal01:
Am vry qualified. Its a management job, nd am a management graduate. I tink u av a point dia. Bt u c, dia is d naija facto whr even if i leta on 'earn' dia trust, she myt use ha influence 2 scuttle it. It hapns. D bst dnt alwys get d bst.

Harry Potter: @op from my conclusion,u r nt only confused but emotionally unstable.since she gve u the job,its nw left for u to gve her conditions so that she wont go wako n start talkin abt wat she had don for u.but jst let her knw that there should be no strings attached,so that u will be on a safe side wen wahala go start.

tashanja: ^^^^Good even so, you should sleep with one eye opened and have a plan B ready to spring into action - should the need arise. I believe you have been given more than enough advice now to make up your mind, good luck (not Jonathan )

Jubal01:
Am vry qualified. Its a management job, nd am a management graduate. I tink u av a point dia. Bt u c, dia is d naija facto whr even if i leta on 'earn' dia trust, she myt use ha influence 2 scuttle it. It hapns. D bst dnt alwys get d bst.

Wi3ter:

Which kind of management graduate writes like this ? Like someone who lost some of his fingers. Management in what ? Bus conductorology ?

Jubal01:
I dnt blame u. I blame dat dirty agbero dat impregnatd ur useles ashawo mum 2 gv birth 2 a bastard lyk u. I run an NGO whr i specialy manage bastards lyk u. Frm al indicatns, ur fuly qualified. I'l lyk 2 knw d slump u live in, so i can go pick u up n gv u a new lease of lyf. Idiot. Fool! U beta tame ur tongue or sumbdy els wil do dat 4u.

uboma:
very harsh of u to post the above. Y resort to insulting his mum? Do u guys have a personal beef?

Jubal01:
@Uboma. Am vry sori i did dis. Bt hw cud av said i had management degree in 'bus conductorology'? Its so barbaric. I dnt av anytn wit anybdy. He jst pissed me off. My apologies.