My boyfriend use to be a very loving, caring and sweet guy until last week saturday when he travelled and i forgot to call him to know if he had gotten home.
However, i couldn't call him on sunday too coz i had no airtime so i got recharge card on monday and called him through out the day but he didn't pick my call.
Later around 1am, i called him and he picked it though it took a decade before he did.
when he eventually picked he started talking like i was a stranger. He sounded like he didnt care and had no excuse for not picking my calls and replying my pings. i got pissed and ended the conversation since he wasn't ready to show any remorse for his act.
The next day, i called him twice but he didn't pick and never called me back

now i wonder what i did wrong?
what do i do?

wait.

Communication is key. Ask him, talk to him.

Perhaps he is expecting you to say sorry

Give him time. Whilst you're waitng, send him sweet texts. Then call him again latter. The explanation you wanted to give via call, send it via text.

djeezy: Give him time. Whilst you're waitng, send him sweet texts. Then call him again latter. The explanation you wanted to give via call, send it via text.

spoke my mind,,,XACTLY!

DON'T CALL HIM! Don't send him any text message! For your own good!

fluid26: DON'T CALL HIM! Don't send him any text message! For your own good!

Really? Then what?

Gold wura don't u have a spare BF

I suggest you send only text messages and don't call or ping him till he responds.

Or, is it that immediately he arrived at his destination, he was jazzed by 'something'?

M M M: Gold wura don't u have a spare BF

just in case?

MrWaters: just in case?

in case what?

Mynd_44:
in case what?

am asking the use of the spare bf

Go to his house to know what the problem is.

MrWaters: am asking the use of the spare bf

lol

its over. dont make him pretend its not.

take it or leave it, your guy has moved on.

Gold_wura: My boyfriend use to be a very loving, caring and sweet guy until last week saturday when he travelled and i forgot to call him to know if he had gotten home.
However, i couldn't call him on sunday too coz i had no airtime so i got recharge card on monday and called him through out the day but he didn't pick my call.
Later around 1am, i called him and he picked it though it took a decade before he did.
when he eventually picked he started talking like i was a stranger. He sounded like he didnt care and had no excuse for not picking my calls and replying my pings. i got pissed and ended the conversation since he wasn't ready to show any remorse for his act.
The next day, i called him twice but he didn't pick and never called me back

now i wonder what i did wrong?
what do i do?

how long have you guys been together.

If for long!

Then sort this out, with all your strength!

If not,
try sorting it out, with less energy,
then move on!

Lolaabokoku: Go to his house to know what the problem is.

I won't do that if i were u

i thank you all for your suggestions but i'm still confused about this whole ish....
the point is; if i call him, he might take me for granted and i feel i'll loose my respect and the other side of it is that i think he should have called me if he still loves me or if he did loved me like he claimed coz its two weeks now and we havent spoken.
I believe if a guy loves a girl, he should be free to tell the girl whatever it is he doesnt like that she does or might have done so why cant he just be plain with me and tell me what i did wrong instead of acting this way..

OP
Don't be too pushy and don't act desperate. Be laid back about the whole issue and explain what happened. He might only be hurt that you didn't care to know about his welfare. But I still insist you don't act overboard.

lola.luv:
OP
Don't be too pushy and don't act desperate. Be laid back about the whole issue and explain what happened. He might only be hurt that you didn't care to know about his welfare. But I still insist you don't act overboard.

@ OP:
The whole ish and advice is captured above in bold.
I also think both of you are subsequently reacting rather foolishly to one another by putting your prides first before your relationship.
He was obviously hurt and been expecting an apology from you which seemingly had not been forthcoming because you had been skirting around doing it by shifting the blame back to him for ignoring your calls and also responding nonchalantly.
Unfortunately, the longer you maintain this stand-off the more difficult it becomes for either of you to initiate/sustain meaningful damage control to save the relationship.

Gold_wura: i thank you all for your suggestions but i'm still confused about this whole ish....
the point is; if i call him, he might take me for granted and i feel i'll loose my respect and the other side of it is that i think he should have called me if he still loves me or if he did loved me like he claimed coz its two weeks now and we havent spoken.
I believe if a guy loves a girl, he should be free to tell the girl whatever it is he doesnt like that she does or might have done so why cant he just be plain with me and tell me what i did wrong instead of acting this way..

From what I have been reading, it is obvious that you really care about the guy so I will say you call him. That does not mean he will take you for granted, it just shows that you are willing to save the relationship. He will take you for granted only when you get together and you start relaxing your standards with him.
You can actually let your guards down without being cheap babe