We all know that love and continuos forgiveness are part of recipe for marriage,and that there is no way there will not be disagreement in ones marriage, but we need love and forgiveness to make d marriage to continue existing. However, there are some things that seems "too extreme" or "most unacceptables", its like crossing ones boundary totally and which may not be easily be forgotten/forgiven. A colleague said her own is when her spouse raise his hand against her, then d marriage is heading to collapse, another colleague said, its only on d basis of infidelity dt he can not forgive his wife. To me i still dont know yet, but i dont like a situation when there will be disagreement btw a couple, and one will be beating d other, i dont pray it happens to me,but if it happens, i'm yet to know what i'll do about it. Pls, share yours, what is d most unacceptable in ur marriage/relatioship?

There are many things that are unacceptable to me in a relationship, I just made sure to marry a man who wouldn't have such behaviors. There are some things one shouldn't compromise with.

Religious belief top the list. I am and will always be christian!

Miss_Ife: There are many things that are unacceptable to me in a relationship, I just made sure to marry a man who wouldn't have such behaviors. There are some things one shouldn't compromise with.

like what and what should one not compromise with, pls, share and lets learn from one another. Thanks

Putting one piece of meat in my plate.

Separate bedroom with my wife in our home? Never!

I can forgive almost anything. But the one thing I'll never forgive, the one thing that'll break the camel's back is having my man drop his wet towel on our matrimonial bed.

uh..uh.. that is unforgivable o!

Efemena_xy: I can forgive almost anything. But the one thing I'll never forgive, the one thing that'll break the camel's back is having my man drop his wet towel on our matrimonial bed.

uh..uh.. that is unforgivable o!

seriously, u must be very neat then, and ur man must have known dt 4 u b4 u got married,because, majority of men are guilty of dt.


@men, pls dont crucify me o,i'm only saying d truth,anyway.

kunletiwoo: Separate bedroom with my wife in our home? Never!

dt's lovely, i'm proud of men like u!

wonlasewonimi: Putting one piece of meat in my plate.

but, sometimes, it may happen like dt,caused by circumstances, and d woman will not any other choice than to give u d only remaining meat, she herself may not even eat her meal with any meat.

greatgod2012:


seriously, u must be very neat then, and ur man must have known dt 4 u b4 u got married,because, majority of men are guilty of dt.


@men, pls dont crucify me o,i'm only saying d truth,anyway.

Na so now.

Different strokes for different folks. Hubby and kids have long since learnt that, that bed is seriously off limits. No manky socks, clothes, books, toys or (((shivers))) wet towels!

To me, as long as we hav tied d knot, i can tolerate anything.

INSTEAD OF GETIN MARID AND DIVORCING, I WIL REMAIN SINGLE

engrtee: To me, as long as we hav tied d knot, i can tolerate anything.

Including infidelity?

fellis:
Including infidelity?

yes ooo. I wil neva b a divorcee.

engrtee:

yes ooo. I wil neva b a divorcee.

that's the spirit. Wishing u the very best.

nikkyshyne: Religious belief top the list. I am and will always be christian!

Will you divorce your spouse when he/she turns to a muslim or atheist?

The only thing that is unacceptable to me is any form of abuse. That I can't take.


Well, I will run if he becomes a ritualist sha o.

Tgirl4real:

Will you divorce your spouse when he/she turns to a muslim or atheist?

No I will not. I'll only pray for him. It is unacceptable if he wants me to convert. I can't compromise that.

nikkyshyne:
No I will not. I'll only pray for him. It is unacceptable if he wants me to convert. I can't compromise that.

of course, there is nothing prayer cant do, but i would rather pray u dont experience dt, because sincerely,if it happens(God forbid) its areint going to be easy mehn!!!!!!

engrtee: To me, as long as we hav tied d knot, i can tolerate anything.

INSTEAD OF GETIN MARID AND DIVORCING, I WIL REMAIN SINGLE

So if your wife is fucckingg your neighbours nko?

dayokanu:

So if your wife is fucckingg your neighbours nko?

i believe he would not marry a woman who can do such.

It just goes to show that most peeps here type before thinking...

Efemena_xy: It just goes to show that most peeps here type before thinking...

i can sense that too!!!!!!!!

if my hubby turns muslim n wants me to do same, hell NO. cnt even be in d same house wit him n we are of different religion.

Julesbloom: if my hubby turns muslim n wants me to do same, hell NO. cnt even be in d same house wit him n we are of different religion.

so urs is on religion, o.k then.

Any form of deceit and/or any form of abuse!

Take your pick:

- Selfishness (Me, me, me)
- Religious fanatism
- GBWA (Ghetto Black Woman Aggression - rude, classlessness, lack of social & communication skills)
- Frequent arguments
- Over-neediness
- Airheadedness
- L'Orealism (A sense of entitlement based on gender rights)
- Hollywoodism (Thinking what you want me to want in a relationship is what I should want, instead of working out what I want)

Sagamite: Take your pick:

- Selfishness (Me, me, me)
- Religious fanatism
- GBWA (Ghetto Black Woman Aggression - rude, classlessness, lack of social & communication skills)
- Frequent arguments
- Over-neediness
- Airheadedness
- L'Orealism (A sense of entitlement based on gender rights)
- Hollywoodism (Thinking what you want me to want in a relationship is what I should want, instead of working out what I want)

which one of these do u think is almost unforgivable, ie ur most unacceptable in ur relationship?

A cheating motherf.u-c.ker. Bullshit!

Having unprotected sex with some random ladies.Cant ever forgive such if i find out.

^^ Does it really matter whether it's unprotected or not?

Shouldn't the act in itself, whether protected or not be unforgivable?

Efemena_xy: ^^ Does it really matter whether it's unprotected or not?

Shouldn't the act in itself, whether protected or not be unforgivable?

i wonder o!!!!
But come to thjnk of it, some pple can stomach some things and be revengeful.