My friend has dis girl he has been going out with for sometime now, they both have a child well the thing is over the year they have had quarrels but the thing is, after like 20 fights the guy is always the one going to beg the girl weather he is right or not if any small thing threatens the relationship she is ready to just pack it up rather than to work at it, well of recent they had a problem, well about church the guy said that that he would love for all of them (family) to attend the same church but the girl says that she wants to attend cele (which is where she worships) during the week and the guy said it would not send a good message to the kids, she said she would only do that which makes her happy, and the guy said she should choose between the cele church and him, she chose the church, what do you think he should do. do you think she really loves him, should he go and beg her.

That woman has problesm. Issues and more.

She's not ready for marriage. If after every fight, she's ready to leave, well then, that's not a woman committed to her home. She could care-less what ever happens.
Talking abt the church, some people love there church so much that they can't even go to other church's revival or weekday service or sumtin of that nature. I wont say, just because she loves her church, it means that she doesn't want the marriage. The husband should try consider going to her church, afterall he's the one always restoring peace in the home.

BUT, if the dude is tired of all these are trash, he should talk to her about it. If she doesnt wanna hear, well the rest is left to him.

Can two people walk together except they agree ?
Until you really face your differences (about the church) and sort it out once and for all and stop shoving it aside when you hit the walls with it, my friend, you are only going round a circle, cause you'll be back to the point where you shoved the issue to. Passionate issues like this has got to be agreed on. Either you agree to disagree or you disagree to agree. Goodluck !

And rem to tell her, it's two that can play the game. (It affects both of you, so she shouldn't always leave the issue of reconciliation to you.)

I think the issue should be solve amincably with each other,the matrimonial issue has nothing to do with the church if peace and love is allow to reign supreme.
im urging the man being the pioneer and the head to apply maximun amount of patiency so that peace and love will be the overall boss of the family.