I really need to fall outta love.

There is this guy that i have been dating for like 4years but his people will not allow us get married.
and he says he cannot go on with me.

I HAVE ACCEPTED THAT BUT I LOVE HIM DEARLY. WHAT CAN I DO TO STOP THINKING ABOUT HIM.
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sorry huh!

the fact is! i dont think ull EVER stop thinking about him as long as u r still single, not until u get urself involved in another relationship. . . . . .it happens gradually

Good luck!

the fact is! i don't think ull EVER stop thinking about him as long as you're still single, not until u get yourself involved in another relationship. . . . . .it happens gradually

true talk

It will take time but u'll get over him.

Oga o why cant people just let love breath.

But why are ur people saying u can marry?

Girl its gonna be hard cause it just seems u still love him.
U just gotta move away or stop all communication with him, dont go to the places u know he would be, stop all contact with his friends or mutual friends.

Well girl, u see that all this is gonna be hard.
Just keep the faith, it may all work out.

his siblings dont like me
and their pastor said im not good for him.

@Slimmy24

Why is everybody saying that you are not good?? hmmm, may be you need to check your handiwork. Nobody wants his/her family member to marry a hoodrat. BTW, what's up with that name "slimmy" ?

If he's not man enough to stand up for you and let the people that matter to him see that you're the best for him, then, he's not good enough for you.

Forgetting him isn't going to be easy, but you must start by loving yourself, forgiving him, and opening up your heart to love again.

Take away for now, anything that reminds you of him. Don't visit places that will remind you of him and don't look at the four years as wasted life. Look at the good times you had together and move on.
Hang out with your girlfriends, pamper yourself now and again and love again as soon as possible. That will help you forget him faster.

I think it is the man that did not want to marry you and not his people. If it is his people, he knows what to do and they will accept you, not even by force. You loved him 95% while his love was not up to 40%. That is the main problem.

All the same, hook up with another man as fast as u can and it will all be a thing of the past.

I agree with Soundmind

Don't be surprise that he already has someone else he'll be getting married to soon and this is just an excuse to jilt you. Go on with your life girl, sh*t happens.

@poster try all you can to move with your life, be sure you will get a better lover some day soon, kissss

I think i understand ur situation & It's not an easy one.i just can't understand why most parents won'tt leave their children get married 2 who they want 2, But i think ur guy shuld have put in more efforts in convincing his parents why he wants 2 marry u. If it doesn't work out,then i suggest u shuld find a guy & try a new date. It won't be easy but just try.,.

@poster
Akpo!
Why will you stop loving him when he love you?,

Sweet T:

@Slimmy24

Why is everybody saying that you are not good?? hmmm, may be you need to check your handiwork. Nobody wants his/her family member to marry a hoodrat. BTW, what's up with that name "slimmy" ?

IM LEPA!!!!

tHANK YOU ALL. IM TRYING MY BEST.

move on girl, go out have fun in the process you would meet another guy.
slimmy24Are you free this weekend ??