gmyguy: all em ladies justifying the inability to cook, should remember the fastest way to a man's heart is through his stomach...that is a quote by a wise man...heed it.

Sijo01: Unbelivable!!!........ Do ladies like this still exist?

offshoreking: To be frank with everyone here, i have nothing to do with such lady. as an African lady ur first priority in life is to know hw to cook before another thing. Guy, since u said u love her, if u are a type that like to eat outside u should go ahead with her, but if not, u should send her back to her family to enable her learn hw to cook, on the process of her learning hw to cook u may even find another that can spoil u with food. All this new generation lady self.

kandiikane:

See this? You are still living in the stone age abi? Have you not seen the way the world is today, oh, you think it's still in the stone age like your self? Unless, you want an uneducated woman these your so-called laws of nature won't work with modern, educated women who are also working their azzes off to do things you cannot do out in the work places. Don't even try a rebuttal because the same way you might come from a 9 to 5 tired is the same way a woman would. P.s, not every work person works the cliqued 9 to 5, many work 24/7. That's why many resort to helpers.

If parents taught these men how to cook in the first place, we won't get them thinking the world has ended just because one doesn't know how to make egusi.

*drops mic*

ashmanpolo:


We've tried ϑis catering school thing. §☹яяƔ‎​‎​‎​ I skipped dat

seunajia:

Please tell me you were kidding? Please?
Career woman abi?

kandiikane:
And why would I be kidding? Are you part of the stone age men too.

ashmanpolo: Every man deserves a woman that can convert all these raw materials they buy from the market into a finished healthy food. Fresh, vibrant recipe ideas packed with the good stuffs to have you feeling and looking better than ever.

In the interim, prior to marriage how can you condone a wife-to-be that cannot even toast bread. You give her a million naira to prepare even if it's two cups of rice it still won't work out.
She prepares egusi soup and you def will need spoon to eat dat food

She makes her own idea of a fresh fish pepper soup and you'll see coagulated blood inside the fish floating on top of
What i Should call your grandmother's urine.You return home extra-famished to get a salty, pepperish food dat will send u straight to the toilet

U decide to go lowkey on beans and you'll end up shuttling btw ur room and the rest room. Dat night don't even think of wearing boxers cause u'R just gonna mess it up. Just tie her wrapper.

Now this is a girl you l♡ve so much and don't wanta loose.
Pls what should POSTER do?

kandiikane:

Stop chatting shyt and fooling yourself with that clique.

We all know the fastest way to a man's heart is the thing between the woman's legs.

ashmanpolo: Every man deserves a woman that can convert all these raw materials they buy from the market into a finished healthy food. Fresh, vibrant recipe ideas packed with the good stuffs to have you feeling and looking better than ever.

In the interim, prior to marriage how can you condone a wife-to-be that cannot even toast bread. You give her a million naira to prepare even if it's two cups of rice it still won't work out.
She prepares egusi soup and you def will need spoon to eat dat food

She makes her own idea of a fresh fish pepper soup and you'll see coagulated blood inside the fish floating on top of
What i Should call your grandmother's urine.

You return home extra-famished to get a salty, pepperish food dat will send u straight to the toilet

U decide to go lowkey on beans and you'll end up shuttling btw ur room and the rest room. Dat night don't even think of wearing boxers cause u'R just gonna mess it up. Just tie her wrapper.

Now this is a girl you l♡ve so much and don't wanta loose.
Pls what should POSTER do?

Osheshe:
*smiling softly*

seunajia:

Kandi Kandi Kandi

The traditional role of a woman is managing her home, this also includes cooking delicious meals for the family, No? What's your opinion on this? And please don't come up with the career woman BS

kandiikane:

Lol, who yÓu be sef? Which Id are you hiding?

Traditional my foot! You definitely dey inside stone age. I've done the career woman bs in mý previous post so no need.

Seunnaija, can you not cook delicious meals?

seunajia:

Kandi
Hide ID ke? Lol

Let me put it this way, I'm the best of both worlds. I'd like a babe that won't be perturbed by the charade called feminism and at the same time be independent (Educationist are make good wives eg mama! ) Let's not deceive ourselves, it is not easy for a woman to juggle her "career" and her gender role on the home front.

All this career woman BS is foreign. The end result is usually we ending up as absentee parents and having morally decadent children; junkies, crack heads, derelicts etc.

You wonder why women have so many health issues these days?-- Depression, bipolar and eating disorders etc--its because of the pressure they face!

I dread having a banker as a spouse, I dream of leaving my children to my babe. She has better skills, naturally, to manage them and the home.

I'm becoming verbose Kandi. I hope you get my drift. Be good!

PS: I love cooking and won't mind cooking or helping out with other household chores when time permits. After all, I did all those as a bachelor. Most importantly, I would want to set good examples for the children and to encourage the missus.

If I 'marry' and im at work but my husband is home, why shouldn't he cook? huh

Ileke-IdI:


Best questions ever!!

It's not even about being a good wife or not, it's common sense. So many cavemen in/from Nigeria with cavemen mentality. It's beginning to disgust me.

kandiikane:

I know right!

I remember one time I had an argument over this same issue. Early morning, I only just woke up oo and he said he's going to cook stew. I said ok. I got ready went to meet him in the kitchen to help him and he's like I should actually be the one doing the cooking. Going on about my role as a woman blah di blah!

I mean, like what the hell? What was wrong in him doing it?

We have more men nowadays who are not taking care of their responsibilities as fathers or partners, we get women who work 24/7 to put food on the table and provide for their familÝ

We don't need you to tell us what we need to do. We are our own person and we'll decide whether we want to be in the kitchen or get a maid to cook for the household whilst at work.

Forget that notion about a career woman being foreign. By saying it's foreign shows a backward mentality and you not wanting to progress forward. Even in Africa we are getting more women doing jobs that were supposedly a man's job.

Just because a wife or female partner is not at home cooking you a meal doesn't mean they are incapable of looking after their family. Just because they find a cook to help cook doesn't meal they are incapable of looking after their family. They are capable that's why they can afford a maid to cook. It's silly for someone to actually think such because it's not the lack of culinary skills which makes one a bad parent

I'm single now and I cook for myself when I feel like it. I will cook if I'm with my partner but it's not because it's my 'role' but because I'm hungry and because I feel like it. I don't need him to wake me up and ask me to cook, I will ask him, "what about you? Did they chop your hands?"

If I 'marry' and im at work but my husband is home, why shouldn't he cook? 

What pisses me off is when parents tell their female children they have to learn to cook for their husbands. No, no, no! You have to learn for yourself first, not for anyone. This should include both male and female

Who says she will marry sef? Probably will still be 40 and not married. Parents should be teaching their children how to survive in life instead of teaching them about to make someone else survive

clemmonce: may be she is not destined to cook.

kandiikane:

ARE YOU GAY?
I know right!

I remember one time I had an argument over this same issue. Early morning, I only just woke up oo and he said he's going to cook stew. I said ok. I got ready went to meet him in the kitchen to help him and he's like I should actually be the one doing the cooking. Going on about my role as a woman blah di blah!

I mean, like what the hell? What was wrong in him doing it?

kandiikane: Wait ooo! Before we go on to anyother thing:

I just noticed you saying 9 to 2 is ideal for a woman? Can you seriously see your mentally here? What about you as a father? Is it not your sp£rm which fathered the children? Why is it only the woman's responsibility to bring up the children correctly?

I will be back to break down that your long azz post.