simple! he wants you back to use you. a leopard would never change its spots.

@ POSTER, fink about it gurl, would u wana go thru d heartbreak again like u did wen u guys first broke up, all i can say is, u knw dis guy more dan ne of us here, so ur decision shld b urs, but if i were u, i will fink it twice infact more dan twice.

If I was in your shoe, I would think twice not wanting to through another heartbreak.

Try to give him a chance finding out what are his intentions and future plans with me before giving all my heart with him!!!

Keep my legs shut!!! Be tough letting him work harder to gain my trust and feel to be loved again.

If he turns me trick, kick him out of my life, period!

@poster

DIRECT THE SAME QUESTIONS STRAIGHT AT HIM.

LOOKING HIM IN THE EYE AND WANTING THE TRUTH.

NAIRALANDERS CANNOT ANSWER MORE THAN YOUR EX.

i wonder what happened to the poster anyway?

Well in my own opinion think he just knew what he had and how precious it is to him, I'll say give him another chance but this time draw a mark for him. . .do's and dont's. . .he should be ready to comply if you mean exactly what he says you mean to him.

Well I feel the guy if he means he truly loves you and wants you back

his_grace:

your pu syy must be sweet - he has inserted his di ck in another one and done some pumping but he has come to realise that your pu ssy is the best around town - don't be confused - just keep giving it to him like his life depends on it -he wont look anywhere else - but if Iam you -I will pay back - you want to know how? Just put pepper on the tip of his di ck and he will learn his lessons.

bad boy, how is you??

his_grace:

your pu syy must be sweet - he has inserted his di ck in another one and done some pumping but he has come to realise that your pu ssy is the best around town - don't be confused - just keep giving it to him like his life depends on it -he wont look anywhere else - but if Iam you -I will pay back - you want to know how? Just put pepper on the tip of his di ck and he will learn his lessons.

which kin talk be this

see u cant be sure wat his intentions are, this 1 dat he is doing things that he doesnt do b4 and u pple ve been 2geda for 2yrs. u knw guys can do anytin 2 get a lady so use ur head not ur heart ok. good luck

@poster

I think he wants you back because he wants you to sit on his nail with your big batty all over again!!

@ Poster: USER ALARM RUN AND DO NOT LOOK BACK!!!

How can a 31 year old man not know if he REALLY wants to be in a relationship, I imagine that his fling didn't work out so he's going back to his comfort zone.

Don't waste ur time with such a man.

madamkoko:

@ Poster: USER ALARM RUN AND DO NOT LOOK BACK!!!

How can a 31 year old man not know if he REALLY wants to be in a relationship, I imagine that his fling didn't work out so he's going back to his comfort zone.

Don't waste your time with such a man.

this makes sense ohhhhhh.
i mean the guy is 31yrs.

@ poster

ex ke, ex ni,dearie, just move on with your life and dont even begin to have feelings for the guy.

He could be playing games, when he dumped you did he apologise and explain his mistake, it's not good enough him wanting you back you also have to find out why he left you in the first place and see if you think the reason was respectful, because the reason why he dumped you could show a lot to his character. Watch him, he knows you still have feelings for him and can take him back just like that, please do not let yourself be manipulated. Find out what he did in the time you two were apart, no kids, no wives, no lovers?

u are in the best place to explain y he left u at the first instance. again u luk at the gravity of his offence commited. my only addvice is u should give him a second chance, but do know that every man has what he hates, so be careful of those things u did that made him to run away. forgive all the pains and accept him bk.

@ poster.. bbe.. to me ehn.. d quy just realyzd dat he lost the most wonderful thnq in his life.. mayb at first he wantd to play uu.. bt he realyzd dat u wayyyy worth more than that..#thouqhtz

my 2 cents...run as fast as ur leg can carry u, from wat u said, theres no sign of genuine remorse from his side, dis dude actualy told u he loves u no more, now hes loving u again? girl, i ve been there, its just about the sex now.

This shitt is 5 years old.

kuphid: my 2 cents...run as fast as ur leg can carry u, from wat u said, theres no sign of genuine remorse from his side, dis dude actualy told u he loves u no more, now hes loving u again? girl, i[b] ve been there, its just about the sex now[/b].

I wonder what he did to make you get that impression

Connoisseur:

I wonder what he did to make you get that impression

Lols! Duuuuuuude! Chill 1st,don't get it twisted

kuphid:

Lols! Duuuuuuude! Chill 1st,don't get it twisted

Nd what gives you the impression that it is

Firstly what do u want? Are you looking for marriage, commitment or you just want to have a boyfriend and a cuddle. If you want something serious then don't give in to him easily nosex nosex and pls nosex. Until ur sure he's serious by his words and actions.

Keep a quarter between your legs at all times when around him.

Babe, I don't think you should let him. U're young, enjoy yourself and find you another guy. Lose d jerk fast! For ur info: men know what they want, if he's hanging around without speaking up, ignore him n live ur life.

maybe the one he left you for left him and he needs a new steady source of sex , dont fall for the bull shit op

Relationship wahalla everywhere..
Sex get power o

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Islander:
Guys would "knock" on an ex first whenever they are looking for an easy lay.

Thank you

Accept him back, BUT MAKE SURE U DON'T GIVE HIM UR KPEKUS TO NACK.

Once u start giving him kpekus again, he will easily drop u.

My 2cents.

mandy82:
How can i tell if my ex wants me back or is just using me until he finds someone else?  He broke up with me about 3 months ago citing that he didn't know if he loved me the same anymore or didn't know if he saw a future for us (we dated for 2 years, lived together.  he was 31 and i'm 23), but recently has started hanging around at my place again.  Could it be that he is just afraid to admit that maybe he was wrong?  He apologised for saying horrible things after we broke up and wanted to know if my mother hated him,    When he comes over its like nothing ever happend, he calles me baby and sweetheart and even offered to give me a back massage after a really long day at work (thats NEVER happened before!)

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Look, the truth is this. As painful as your heart feels, he isn't serious. Your body isn't his, he has no right to leave and come back anytime. Am a guy and i know he might be confused, but to have broken up with you? You should have never let him back in, because you will feel the pain now; but it will do both of you good in the future. Sit him down, have a straight talk and tell him you aren't ready for rubbish! If he's not interested in the future and ready to make commitments; he should walk out right now. It's hard, but you've got to let go of good to create room for better to come in. Good luck!!