Youngzedd: First of all, your profile is showing male (m).

Well, coming back to your question, I will advise you to calm down for now for ur own benefit and that of the unborn baby, deliver the baby first, afterwhich do DNA test to the baby and that of ya lover without your husband been aware.

From the result you have gotten b/w the baby and the guy you will now know who the father of ur baby is.

But if the DNA of the baby matches to the guys DNA that means you need to open up to your husband, if your husband reason the way I do, He will definately claim the baby although it depends on individual.Pls I just copied this story from somewhere. Am male and I only brought dis here to share with I guys.

But if reverse become the case you know the kind of husband you have that He will throw you out of the house, you have no other option than to plead to the guy to forget about it that you will do anything for him to end the matter, if you have cash then settle him for the job weldone.

Chudoify: How can a married woman be sleeping with another man simply because she wants a baby?And after making love with the guy she will still sleep with her husband.infact i don't think i can live with any woman.it is dangerous.Forget their so called love.useless people.

Mization: People should not judge me but help me understand what I’ve gotten myself into and how to come out of these complications. Pls I can’t disclose my name for obvious reasons.

Let me just go straight to the point. I’m a good wife to my husband and he loves me too. We are both sex freaks, sometimes we even make love in the kitchen while am cooking since we live alone. That’s how sweet our marriage was. But not any more.

Over four years into our union no “evidence” and pressures from my family and his were getting unbearable so I took to a colleague’s advice. I started dating a young guy but this guy always insist on using condom on me, claiming he can only have direct sex with a woman that is ready to get pregnant for him.

I told him I was ready and we started doing skin-to-skin for about three (3) months before my husband finally called me one weekend. Meanwhile, I didn’t know my colleague has told this my boyfriend some things about my personal life, especially my husband’s “inability” to impregnate me.

Back to my husband: he called me and said he was ready for us to go see a doctor so we could know what is wrong as I had earlier suggested. I was happy because it would help us get medical help if something was actually wrong with either of us.

But I got much more than I bargained for when the doctor came back with the results of the tests that were carried out on us. He said my husband and I are perfectly ok and even congratulated my husband. Congratulation for what? I asked the doctor.

He said my husband has done it, I was already six weeks pregnant! I was filled with joy and my husband too. We celebrated the good news with several rounds of passionate sex when we got home that day. I’m now five months heavy.

I’ve stopped seeing my boyfriend and also resigned from work. Somehow my colleague told this guy I was pregnant and he came looking for me in our house. He said I ran away with his pregnancy, bla bla bla, saying I should do the honourable thing and give him his baby after the baby is delivered. Since that day, I’ve not been myself.

He now calls me almost every afternoon to ask how my baby is doing and other rubbish. My husband is beginning to suspect that something is bothering me but I’ve been taking care of his side. However, my BIG problem is this guy. I don’t think he’s the owner of my pregnancy.

After all, the doctor said nothing is wrong with my husband and I believe my husband actually got me pregnant but I can’t tell him about this guy, it will destroy our marriage.

I need people’s advise on how to handle this guy once and for all. Please help me!!!!

fluid26: chei! Ashewos don invade nairaland! Smp!

fluid26: chei! Ashewos don invade nairaland! Smp!