Salam.U cn cntar me,am ibrahim suleiman,base in kaduna,08039648229

Nice thread, i will only advice not to give our personal details so as not to fall prey of scamers. There're other way you can send those details

ummitoagirl: Salamu alaykum..

I am a single sister searching for a Life partner. Can someone point me
to places- online or a mosque I can seek for a life partner?.
I am 27, Hijabi, Degree level Education, Ok looking (Mashallah) & a student of knowledge.
furthermore, I have an 18 months old child.

I'm the right person for you

I am very serious. Can you please give me some info about yourself? ie Location, occupation etc

toba: I'm the right person for you

she need a muslim.

ummitoagirl: I am very serious. Can you please give me some info about yourself? ie Location, occupation etc

thats no big deal. but u have to be pretty urself. if u are, send me an email via nairaland account, and I'll respond back. cheers

@Ummitoagirl,toba is a christian

I wish you the best in your search

Why are you all making fun or jest of this sister? One natural habit that men are having is the ability to accept a girl's love, proposal when she offers you herself or should I say if? Now this sister just came in here with a desperate situation that she needs/wants and you all are just saying you are ready when I can swear with the quran that you are not. Sister please my advise for you, before you submit your love to anybody in an online thread, make sure you are absolutely sure that they are serious and ready for you if not I fear for you in the long run a heart break which I need not to tell you the situation of a woman when heart broken. One thing boys, youths, men do is they take a risk of approaching a lady when they no they ainy ready for a relationship or marriage and when the girl accepts them with her open heart and 100% love, then they go to their friends and start seeking for bad advise from them on how to get rid of her. Please sister choose carefully please.

Abujabir24: Why are you all making fun or jest of this sister? One natural habit that men are having is the ability to accept a girl's love, proposal when she offers you herself or should I say if? Now this sister just came in here with a desperate situation that she needs/wants and you all are just saying you are ready when I can swear with the quran that you are not. Sister please my advise for you, before you submit your love to anybody in an online thread, make sure you are absolutely sure that they are serious and ready for you if not I fear for you in the long run a heart break which I need not to tell you the situation of a woman when heart broken. One thing boys, youths, men do is they take a risk of approaching a lady when they no they ainy ready for a relationship or marriage and when the girl accepts them with her open heart and 100% love, then they go to their friends and start seeking for bad advise from them on how to get rid of her. Please sister choose carefully please.

I wonder where the 'all' that are making jest of her are. Except for toba's, there is no comment that appears to be from an unserious person.

And you call her desperate? She doesnt sound desperate to me. In fact, the word desperate sounds derogatory.

Your advice about being sure of their intention is good though.

And I really commend d sister for her courage.

Jazakallah @ Abujabir24 & deols....

Abujabir24: Why are you all making fun or jest of this sister? One natural habit that men are having is the ability to accept a girl's love, proposal when she offers you herself or should I say if? Now this sister just came in here with a desperate situation that she needs/wants and you all are just saying you are ready when I can swear with the quran that you are not. Sister please my advise for you, before you submit your love to anybody in an online thread, make sure you are absolutely sure that they are serious and ready for you if not I fear for you in the long run a heart break which I need not to tell you the situation of a woman when heart broken. One thing boys, youths, men do is they take a risk of approaching a lady when they no they ainy ready for a relationship or marriage and when the girl accepts them with her open heart and 100% love, then they go to their friends and start seeking for bad advise from them on how to get rid of her. Please sister choose carefully please.

WTH are u to make such statement? a god or something? U guys would always make ridiculous remarks. U're not in a position to advice her cos she's not a baby.

Im in a good mood today, hence I'll be gentle

deols: @Ummitoagirl,toba is a christian

I wish you the best in your search

So? who says i cant fall in love with her? Didnt i once said i had feelings for u?

ummitoagirl: Jazakallah @ Abujabir24 & deols....

Send me the message and we can talk

Salam sister,

May Allah give you the best of what you seek... Please ignore the trolls like Toba and eduson55.

toba: WTH are u to make such statement? a god or something? U guys would always make ridiculous remarks. U're not in a position to advice her cos she's not a baby.

Im in a good mood today, hence I'll be gentle

Gentle indeed

toba: So? who says i cant fall in love with her? Didnt i once said i had feelings for u?

What do you mean, please be serious

May Allah enrich you with a pious partner that would take care of you and live forever in joy and happiness Ameeen!

Funny thread.

tbaba1234: Salam sister,

May Allah give you the best of what you seek... Please ignore the trolls like Toba and eduson55.

SMH.

olawalebabs:
Gentle indeed

What do you mean, please be serious

I mean what i just said. I'm i not a human being?

there's nothing wrong in a (moderate, or doesnt even matter) muslim lady marrying a christian man, per se.

what i wouldnt encourage is the opposite scenario.

tpia@:
Funny thread.

This is a good thread. Islam is all about sincerity and it is just what is being done. Just be very careful cos some will want to exploit this good intended thread. my advise is make a thorough screening for anyone showing interest. there must be a true test of comitment both for ISlam and such relationship. God is our guide

toba: I mean what i just said. I'm i not a human being?

Why not, i know you have a crush with a lady here and now "Amirah".

@ deols

why do you post pictures of white or biracial babies in your profile?

just curious.

are they children of converts?

tpia@:
@ deols

why do you post pictures of white or biracial babies in your profile?

just curious.

are they children of converts?

you are derailing the thread madam! what do they say happens to the curious cat o??

and btw, long time no see.

deols:

you are derailing the thread madam! what do they say happens to the curious cat o??

and btw, long time no see.

smdh. af ta accusing her? laff kno go kil me dye

toba: smdh. af ta accusing her? laff kno go kil me dye

I notice you corrected d gbagaun in ur signature. Evidence dat Nigeria's gonna be better.




Ds thread aint gonna die soon.I'l c to dat

deols:

I notice you corrected d gbagaun in ur signature. Evidence dat Nigeria's gonna be better.

What are u talking about? BTW where do u get all the photographs u attach here as ur profile pics? are those little girls Sudanese?

This toba self, why are you charming on Muslims ladies?

@op, barka Jumuah, May your path be easy InshAllahu.

here are some islamic dating websites that may be helpful. however, note that most of them require you to pay certain fee before you can use effectively. it is advised to be cautious while dating online.

http://salaamlove.com/

http://www.muslima.com/

http://www.qiran.com/

http://www.bestmuslim.com/

also you may want to check a Nigerian site: http://www.naijamuslims.org/.

another practical option would be to contact the Imam at a mosque where Friday prayers are held in your area, if you are not averse to that.
you may also contact the Imam of the central mosque of a tertiary institution in your state. e.g Unilag(formerly?) central mosque.

in all cases pls don,t forget your istikhara.

I will send you a mail later.

ma salam.

snubish: @op, barka Jumuah, May your path be easy InshAllahu.

here are some islamic dating websites that may be helpful. however, note that most of them require you to pay certain fee before you can use effectively. it is advised to be cautious while dating online.

http://salaamlove.com/

http://www.muslima.com/

http://www.qiran.com/

http://www.bestmuslim.com/

also you may want to check a Nigerian site: http://www.naijamuslims.org/.

another practical option would be to contact the Imam at a mosque where Friday prayers are held in your area, if you are not averse to that.
you may also contact the Imam of the central mosque of a tertiary institution in your state. e.g Unilag(formerly?) central mosque.

in all cases pls don,t forget your istikhara.

I will send you a mail later.

ma salam.

Be careful, http://www.naijamuslims.org has been occupied by scammers.

OP, my dear sister, I believe you're a woman of strong conviction to have opened this thread. I also believe that Nairaland is a great place to look for a spouse because we have some of Nigeria's finest people here and even many classy non-Nigerians. However, I will advice you to adopt what I will call the "X-2" policy. Where "X" is defined as your emotion/feeling towards a new person you meet especially online.

For example, if your emotion at the moment is to allow someone have your contact for Instant Messaging, reduce that by 2 steps, limit it to just reading/interacting with person here. If your feeling is to see the person physically reduce it by 2 steps to just Instant messaging.

I make this suggestion because, I think one needs a protective buffer that should help prevent us from making a hasty decision we might regret later. It also allows you to learn about the other party especially when things are not going their way.

Prayers are important and Istikhara comes highly recommended. May Allah grant you your hearts desire and bless you (and us) with a blissful marriage.

Ma Salam