Could you recommend an hair product to soften my baby's hair. She is two years now and it's getting increasingly difficult to comb her hair and I don't want to cut the hair again. You can recommend the one you use and that is available in the Nigerian market. Thank you!

Try spraying water in her hair to make it damp. Then apply any regular cheap hair conditioner, don't wash it out=Softer, more manageable hair.

coconut oil works wonders for me,i sometimes mix a portion of the coconut oil with water
(warm the water if the oil is in a solid form,so as to melt the oil)
Spray on the hair as you comb.
Hope this helps

Shea butter detangler+moisturizer for kids works fine.

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Your hair needs to be moisturized daily. You will need two different types of moisturizers: water based and oil based.

Water based moisturizers penetrate the hair shaft, oil based moisturizer coats the hair shaft (and seals moisture in or out). To use the two effectively, you will need to apply your water based moisturizer first, then the oil based. The reason for this is that oils and other moisturizing products that contain petrolatum, lanolin, and mineral oil do not moisturize your hair effectively. Instead they seal moisture in or out of your hair. They should only be used to seal the hair and add shine. Try applying your oil moisturizer after rinsing the moisture treatment to combat dryness.

Also, to help with dryness, you need a penetrating moisturizer. The only oil that penetrates the hair shaft is coconut oil. Other oils only coat it. You can use virgin coconut oil as a daily moisturizer or a water based moisturizer.

This article is SPOT ON - AA hair is dry, brittle - I highly suggest that you maintain moisture and brushing the hair from the scalp - brush the hair twice a day - starting at the back of the head - parting with a comb small pieces at a time and moisturizing and combing out tangles and when tangle free - brush from the scalp out - braiding - NOT CORNROWS - just plaits or braid outs (if you don't know what a braid out is - google it) - it will allow you to brush twice a day - my focus would be hair growth and training the hair to a certain condition - brush and moisturizing twice a day are vital ingredients to the training of the hair to be soft and manageable. After washing ALWAYS CONDITION and ALWAYS USE 2 CONDITIONERS - one that sits in for a while and then is washed out and afterwards - make sure that you put a leave in conditioner - preferably cream based, not liquid based in the hair.