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| Is This Love Or Juju In Action? by fitzmayowa: 1:28am On Sep 27, 2012 |
[b][/b]I don't why ladies stick to abusive men. Imagine a friend of mine would not leave her abusive husband, all because of "LOVE" with there marriage just clocking 5years, the guy in question has been abusive ever since they started dating. After another round of beating hear what she has to say. " I love him so much that i cant do without him, i dont think i can love another man the way i love him". This got me thinking could this be love or juju at work? |
| Re: Is This Love Or Juju In Action? by Mynd44: 1:39am On Sep 27, 2012 |
It is a little thing called masochism |
| Re: Is This Love Or Juju In Action? by DExplorer1: 1:55am On Sep 27, 2012 |
You see, it's a complex one still been in love in an abusive relationship. Most cases aren't 'juju' and whotnot, it's just the natural love. Some ladies hang on when most especially, he wasn't like that when they started. Some imagine the shame it will bring to them as a person. Some thinks all men are just the same, besides, they say the devil you know is better than. . ., some believe he can still change. Some for monetary benefits while some for the strong relationship between both families. Dude, it's could be complex! I really don't judge these people too fast. If you know half of their story, you just might be tempted to tell them to remain in the relationship. In all, such rela., could be dangerous! 1 Like |
| Re: Is This Love Or Juju In Action? by k2039: 2:11am On Sep 27, 2012 |
[size=18pt]It seems to be a common belief among many abused women that they can "fix" their man through the power of love. Predictably, it fails. I call it stupidity[/size] [img]http://2.bp..com/-yC2ZY5G05e0/TyWv8CQUylI/AAAAAAAAA5g/hpYQ4ijavPs/s1600/Domestic-violence-007.jpg[/img] 2 Likes |
| Re: Is This Love Or Juju In Action? by ATMC(f): 2:25am On Sep 27, 2012 |
Well, to add to all others had said...maybe d guy is a good lover and satisfies her sexually(a lot of women r not easily satisfied, so when they r with dt person dt satisfies them, they find it difficult to let go when he's abusive). Another reason is karma |
| Re: Is This Love Or Juju In Action? by Ranoscky(m): 2:39am On Sep 27, 2012 |
Which kain dirty love go make u remain with somebody wey dey beat u everytime? Nonsense! |
| Re: Is This Love Or Juju In Action? by Nobody: 2:52am On Sep 27, 2012 |
Ranoscky: Which kain dirty love go make u remain with somebody wey dey beat u everytime?Its Indeed Love. The Love of MONEY 2 Likes |
| Re: Is This Love Or Juju In Action? by ATMC(f): 2:54am On Sep 27, 2012 |
Harbioollah:hehehehe, for real u 've been there! |
| Re: Is This Love Or Juju In Action? by Nobody: 4:18am On Sep 27, 2012 |
Harbioollah: |
| Re: Is This Love Or Juju In Action? by cindyrella(f): 4:46am On Sep 27, 2012 |
Harbioollah:  |
| Re: Is This Love Or Juju In Action? by cindyrella(f): 4:47am On Sep 27, 2012 |
k2039: [size=18pt]It seems to be a common belief among many abused women that they can "fix" their man through the power of love. Predictably, it fails.Well said! |
| Re: Is This Love Or Juju In Action? by Mynd44: 6:28am On Sep 27, 2012 |
Ranoscky: Which kain dirty love go make u remain with somebody wey dey beat u everytime?Its the love of pain |
| Re: Is This Love Or Juju In Action? by obowunmi(m): 7:47am On Sep 27, 2012 |
For her, its normal. Her father must have abused her mom. Now turned their daughter to enjoy sadism. 1 Like |
| Re: Is This Love Or Juju In Action? by 190theclown: 8:20am On Sep 27, 2012 |
If she's Nigerian then its absolutely only 2 use belt on her once in a while 2 remain in control Abeg na joke I dey oh b4 seun decides 2pull d plug on himself not me  But on a serious note. Some women know 2 push a man, make a nun swear Can't count hw many tymes freecocoa or atmc has pushed me Notin wud stop me from not belting them sumday |
| Re: Is This Love Or Juju In Action? by Mynd44: 8:24am On Sep 27, 2012 |
^^ slap yourself |
| Re: Is This Love Or Juju In Action? by ATMC(f): 8:43am On Sep 27, 2012 |
190-the-clown:see ur head like moguli's |
| Re: Is This Love Or Juju In Action? by Riskyman(m): 10:26am On Sep 27, 2012 |
190-the-clown: The day wey you go try "Freecocoa" ehh... I no go tell you wetin go happen to you, just try am. |
| Re: Is This Love Or Juju In Action? by Nobody: 11:03am On Sep 27, 2012 |
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| Re: Is This Love Or Juju In Action? by Nobody: 11:13am On Sep 27, 2012 |
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| Re: Is This Love Or Juju In Action? by Nobody: 11:18am On Sep 27, 2012 |
My exact point too... Ranoscky: Which kain dirty love go make u remain with somebody wey dey beat u everytime? |
| Re: Is This Love Or Juju In Action? by Nobody: 11:19am On Sep 27, 2012 |
Haha oh dear...  Harbioollah: |
| Re: Is This Love Or Juju In Action? by Nobody: 11:29am On Sep 27, 2012 |
sanb: Hahaha oh my days indeed you're a clown and a drama queen. can't stop laughing...You wan kill am? Belt him back ke? He is still reeling and unable to recover from the heartbreak a Nigerian woman dealt him, and you are talking of belting him back. . . That is death. |
| Re: Is This Love Or Juju In Action? by Nobody: 12:15pm On Sep 27, 2012 |
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| Re: Is This Love Or Juju In Action? by AzaMontana(f): 12:25pm On Sep 27, 2012 |
sometimes it might happen that she has not been realy that lucky in love. Maybe the past relationships never worked out and the current one is the only one that seems to last so might be scared of ending it maybe being scared of being lonely or thinking that it histroy will repeat its self as she will be struggling to get the one again. fear |
| Re: Is This Love Or Juju In Action? by ATMC(f): 4:15pm On Sep 27, 2012 |
sexkillz: You wan kill am? Belt him back ke? He is still reeling and unable to recover from the heartbreak a Nigerian woman dealt him, and you are talking of belting him back. . . That is death.lol @heartbreak...which heart? Has he a heart? |
| Re: Is This Love Or Juju In Action? by Ranoscky(m): 6:50pm On Sep 27, 2012 |
Harbioollah:Lol... Correct guy, u know what's up! U really beat me to it. |
| Re: Is This Love Or Juju In Action? by Mynd44: 7:21pm On Sep 27, 2012 |
ATMC: lol @heartbreak...which heart? Has he a heart?Yes he did until he fell in love with a girl much more smarter than him |
| Re: Is This Love Or Juju In Action? by ATMC(f): 7:49pm On Sep 27, 2012 |
Mynd_44:r u saying dt guy is smart   |
| Re: Is This Love Or Juju In Action? by Mynd44: 10:36pm On Sep 27, 2012 |
ATMC: r u saying dt guy is smartIf I said the truth, I will be insulting him |
| Re: Is This Love Or Juju In Action? by 190theclown: 11:45pm On Sep 27, 2012 |
Atm card |
| Re: Is This Love Or Juju In Action? by ATMC(f): 1:04am On Sep 28, 2012 |
190-the-clown: |
| Re: Is This Love Or Juju In Action? by ATMC(f): 1:06am On Sep 28, 2012 |
Mynd_44:...so u dey fear him...smh |
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