skup008: she always react as if she never care to learn how to do them,at times she tell that i shouldn't worry that she will change and learn how to cook very soon,that is when she notice am very serious or not happy about the issue.

k2039: You cant force her to change,it is either you live with that for the rest of your life or you pull out of the relationship.
You can always employ a housemaid to do the chores and cooking.

My 2 Cent.
You cant change her,except she decides to change herself,its either you embrace her and her shortcomings or you pull out of the relationship.
If you expect her to change on your terms,I can assure you,you will be left dissapointed for the rest of your life

skup008: Its less than a year that i met this luvly gal,she very beautiful,caring,very religious and we love each other so much,she is actually the first lady i will ever love with my whole heart as i always dream of keeping her as a wife. But the problem am having with her is that she can't cook,she can't prepare any meal at all and she's also very lazy when it comes to domestic works and any time i raise the issue, she always react as if she never care to learn how to do them,at times she tell that i shouldn't worry that she will change and learn how to cook very soon,that is when she notice am very serious or not happy about the issue.
I now want nairalanders to advise me on what to do that can force her to learn how to cook and do other domestic works...Thanks

Mrs.Chima:


Can YOU cook? How hard is it to boil water for rice??!!!!!

Rocktation: Naija men...just when they say they want independent modernists as wives, they ask for house helps in the same breath.

dazz661: If she really loves Ʊ, she'll be willing to learn how to cook & do all other domestic chores.... 9ce one sexkillz

joeydozzy: at least she can cook Indomie and spaghetti

AmBeautiful: