PStylish:


Madam,

Women (at least Naija women) do not have the audacity yet to sustain long continuous sexual relationships with their lovers save for some extreme absurd cases in which the husband is incapacitated, fetishly subdued or separated from the family.

PStylish: Hence, most of the time bastards come from flings albeit casual.The lover may not get to see the woman again in a long while. Of course, when the woman gets pregnant, she's gonna stay clear totally so as not to give room for suspicion. And if she's the wicked, heartless type, she won't even mention it to him.

PStylish: Under law,when a married woman is seen pregnant, the general assumption is that her husband impregnated her until she declares otherwise. Even her lover has no ground to contest the true paternity of her baby even if he is suspicious unless the woman comes clean. Otherwise, he'll be risking jail.

PStylish: I think you are mixing up a lover confessing (reporting) his adulterous relationship with a married woman to her husband for any reason whatsoever (forgiveness,repentance,restitution) with him rightly demanding to have his child(ren) on the basis of the information the woman at the centre of it all handed him.

PStylish: Please bear this in mind - not everyone (male lover) is repentant,not everyone (male lover) will stab their lovers (women) in the back or decide to do things that will cause her dire consequences,not everyone (male lover) will kiss and tell.

PStylish: Even if the lover summons the liver to bump into another man's house to lay claims to children, it's still the woman's prerogative to come clean or refute his claims and not everyone can afford a DNA test. Until then, he'll just be making trouble and bringing insults on himself for nothing.

PStylish: In the end, only the woman in question holds the key to stemming the tide of their fellow men siring bastards by speaking out early enough.

PStylish:

Madam you are very stubborn.

PStylish: Whether you like it or not, women will continue to take the knocks for bringing bastards to their legitimate husbands to sire. Nairaland or your opinion cannot change it.
That's how it has been and that's how it will always be.

PStylish: Many women have lost their lives as a result of their husbands anger when he eventually got to know.

Such deaths fall into the category of manslaughter not murder.

PStylish: Also, the secret cannot be kept forever.
God is faithful. Something will always creep up that will throw every hidden secret into the open.

PStylish: From the children in question,both men and the general public, the woman receives knocks from every corner.

It still remains a man's world.

denzel2009:

Stick to your BABE! Don't add my Tpi@ to your legion of conquests.

PStylish:

Sorry to disappoint you,[b]men (some/most men) will continue to cheat and sire children outside [/b]whether known or unknown to their wives while any attempt by the women to retaliate by bringing home a bastard will be stopped fiercely by almighty DNA. Of course, she'll be thrown out thereafter with her bastard like some piece of trash.

PStylish:


@1st bolded

That's why men need to carry out these DNA tests as quick as possible to forestall the break-in-tears scenario.

We really have to adopt it into our married and reproductive lives as a matter of urgency.

Men must make it a point of duty to carry out due diligence (DNA test) on every child born to them whether at home or outside without delay.

@2nd bolded

That is beyond the scope of this topic. There will always be sterile men and women. Sterile men as you mentioned in the bolded above are well in the know as regards true paternity of the children they are siring. Hence, those children can no longer be referred to as bastards since there is a gentleman's agreement between the husband and wife that he acts as their foster father.That's ok.

@3rs bolded

Ahn ahn.Madam Efemena! Must every man's concubine be another man's wife? In fact, more often than not,the woman bearing the 'outside' children is 'single' and usually faithful to her lover.

Even then, I've said all men should carry out due diligence (DNA test) as regards the true paternity of their children. So, if any man foolishly leans back and shirks from this responsibility thereby siring another man's children, then that's his business.

Like I said, if all men carried out DNA tests on their supposed children (home or outside), all cheating women will have no hiding place.

My point remains that women need to shape up and stop trying to compete with men. Commit your cheating husband to God.That's the best you can do.

Men can cheat and go scot free.

Women can cheat but may have to face the dire consequences via DNA revelation

coogar:

may the gods shrivel your cöck!

Efemena_xy:

Believe me, I take no offence to the insults you freely throw about. It's to be expected - especially when a mentally challenged animal like you runs short of words to express himself. Bros, you really do need to brush up and expand on your limited vocabulary. Not easy for a school drop out like you, but hey, you've got to start from somewhere.

Now as per the bolded, na your mama you just describe. Kinda explains how your unwanted soul came into existence.

Now edit that crap of yours to standard English. You be the definition of Nigeria's problems. You need prayers. Then herbalist go tidy am for you, remain small.

Bloody a$$wipe.

tpia@:
in some people's heads, hearing about ONE or a couple rumor incidences of such, now means every single child in nigeria is a bastard.

maybe in their own families perhaps!!!!

naturalwaves: ^^^@Efemena_xy. Listen kid, this is a semi formal / informal setting okay? So, the use of short codes and even numbers are very much allowed particularly when one is on a mobile device. Talking about vocabulary, do not go there because, I will school you. You even started with 'Then herbalist' after a full stop for a sentence that was meant to be a joiner. What an Eediot! Don't you think that you are a BIG FOOL for using words like 'KAI, C'MON' etc in expressing your views and then castigating me for writing in short forms? Your stewpidity was indeed very much brought to the fore by your post. What were you thinking? I am sorry you did not see what you were looking for (GBAGAUNS) in my post when you saw that you had nothing meaningful to say to it, hence, you decided to attack my short codes. Don't worry, I know your type so, it is not a problem.
It is so obvious from your post that you are a promiscuous person but I think that you are lucky and you know why? Because, God did not put a meter on that dirty punny of yours. Otherwise, a man would be able to read how far a girl has gone and a husband would also be able to note the last reading on the meter after copulation and then check the meter before another one. Guess what? Scientists are taking note and looking for such invention. With that kind of approach(the meter method), the rearing of bastards and the intent and probability of rearing one by people like you would instantly be a forgone issue. I forgive you for unnecessarity making me to type in full text. Now, go back to work and do what you know how to do best SPREADY SPREADY, CHUKU, CHUKU BABY.

Un-naturalwaves or whatever it is you call yourself, dem suppose tie u for back of trailer make ur body dey roll for ground while in motion. Which kind rubbish be dis one? And u dey happy with yourself

All dese product of leaking condom (you) jst dey make noise anyhow.

Indeed waste of Bandwidth.

Common Street Bastard like you. Mtcheew!

debosky:

It's the bastards themselves that feel this way - they think everyone else must be bastards simply because they are.

Efemena_xy:

*** Yawns ***

You're really starting to bore me to tears. Now you've got my full attention, I suggest you make the best use of it. Mtcheew!

I've been expecting you to man up and hit me with all you've got. Or is this your best shot? The best you could come up with after 5 days??!! Ever heard of paragraphs / spacing? Anyway, your write up still leaves a lot to be desired. I know you've obviously taxed your single braincell to come up with this piece of junk, but it's so, so below par. You really are a school drop out, aren't you?

Nevertheless, for you and you only, I'll come down to your level. Gutter English is what you understand, so hear goes...

Un-naturalwaves or whatever it is you call yourself, dem suppose tie u for back of trailer make ur body dey roll for ground while in motion. Which kind rubbish be dis one? And u dey happy with yourself

All dese product of leaking condom (you) jst dey make noise anyhow.

Indeed waste of Bandwidth.

Common Street Bastard like you. Mtcheew!

Efemena_xy: ^^ Takes one to know one baby.

A bastard you were,
A bastard you are,
A bastard you'll always be.

Now go kill yourself - and do it very slowly please.

naturalwaves:
Another post from a wh.ore. Into the bin.

Efemena_xy: ^^ What now?

Efemena_xy:

Where your bastard a$$ was dumped as a newborn.

Cat got your tongue now?

Mynd_44:
As if men dont keep secrets

masterpiecer:

men do keep secrets but women are a 100x more secretive than men