masterpiecer: this is terrifying, women and secrets, they can keep secrets for a thousand yrs

Mynd_44:
As if men dont keep secrets

A survey conducted by condom manufacturer, Durex, in which 29,000 people in 36 countries were interviewed has ranked Nigerian women as the most unfaithful in the world.

According to the survey, Thailand men are the most unfaithful in the world, with 54 percent of them admitting to cheating on their spouses.

South Korea came in second with 34 percent, while Malaysia ranked number three with 33 percent.

The survey revealed that the top two countries with cheating women are Nigeria, with 62 percent, and Thailand, 59 percent.

39 percent of Malaysian women also confessed to having betrayed their partners. Russian women came fourth at 33 percent while Singaporeans are fifth at 19 percent.

http://dailytimes.com.ng/article/nigerian-women-are-most-unfaithful-durex

maclatunji: May God guide us to the right path in all things.

masterpiecer:

men do keep secrets but women are a 100x more secretive than men

stillwater: ^^^So Mr Coogar, can't you see how the statistics have destroyed the 'testosterone'argument you use to vilify cheating in men?

stillwater: The issue here is cheating, isn't it? And you say men are likely to cheat because of testosterone, right? Meaning if women had testosterone they would cheat too, right? Counter arguments arose and said that this is a matter of irresponsibility at the end of the day. So I want to ask, why do Nigerian women cheat more than their men and the whole world ? I was thinking Men would assume this gallant position going by your postulations .

coogar:

the testosterone level in the naija women is higher than their female counterparts all over the world!

coogar:

the testosterone level in the naija women is higher than their female counterparts all over the world!

slimyem: is this a conclusion or your own postulation and is it just based on these two reports?

stillwater:
Buhahaha!!! Is it also higher in comparison to Naija men too?

dayokanu: Naija women

coogar:

this is not really about promiscuity or sex drive! looking at this critically - it's our archaic culture that has turned housewives into glorified pröstitutes - a woman who married a man and still waiting for the fruit of the womb after 5 yrs with the in-laws are threatening to bring a second wife would get a child by any means. the report said majority of the bastards are first born which suggests that women do this shit to keep their place in their husband's house!

slimyem: who are the men sleeping and cheating with them?
Congolese men?

stillwater:
This explains the first report only. Now to the second report, 62% of Nigerian women sure can't be cheating out of looking for the fruit of the womb only. Let's introduce other factors like money, aristo chics, poverty, sleeping with some MD to get a job, or just plain sexual frustration to the equation. Which means that your argument of testosterone as the leading factor of cheating is faulty. I remember you challenging someone here about having a d.ick just for one day and see how it feels. My point is you don't need a di.ck to cheat!

berem: Hmmm! What a topic. My neighbour comes to mind.2 of her 4 kids are from other men.its very obvious that the kids don't belong to her husband.though one of them is late now.is it possible for a very dark woman and a dark man give birth to a child as fair as Monalisa chinda? Naaa! Something's fishy!

coogar:

so a married woman suddenly developed amnesia and forgot her vows to her husband? no wonder there's a rife in domestic violence and many women come here to tell us their husband just woke up to start beating them - if i find out i have been raising a bastard too, i would be beating my wife everyday of the week till she confesses what she's done to all and sundry



my testosterone theory still stands cos what you have done here is to list the reasons/excuses naija women are cheating! for the naija men, they don't need any excuse to cheat - it's not because they are poor, doing it for employment or whatever reasons! it's just for their own pleasure! for the naija women, they are doing it to get something out of it - using what they have to get what they want! can you tell me what someone's husband would get out of sleeping with ekaette or his employee?

coogar:

so a married woman suddenly developed amnesia and forgot her vows to her husband? no wonder there's a rife in domestic violence and many women come here to tell us their husband just woke up to start beating them - if i find out i have been raising a bastard too, i would be beating my wife everyday of the week till she confesses what she's done to all and sundry

coogar:

it's possible - but the man needs to get a paternity test asap!

stillwater:
At the end you don't need testosterone to cheat, yes or no? Nothwithstanding, men also have their excuses to cheat likey wifey disrespecting him, wifey's not sexy any more, wifey's not cut out for acrobatics in bed, wifey works too much etc.

berem: the dude won't go for a paternity test! He claims to be the father of the child, but, the other child dat died,he said it bluntly that he isn't the father and dat he knows the biological father.but we in the neighbourhood actually knows the biological father of the light skinned child because the child is an exact replica of him.there is no difference between the child and his real dad! If I advice him to go for a paternity test,it would be as if am intruding! But definitely I know the truth will come out one day.

slimyem: i'm going to try swing this around some other likelihood....
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If women are bringing bastards home to their husbands,isn't it also possible that the men themselves have sired children whose paternities have been transferred to other husbands...especially since the men these women are cheating with are not imported men?

tpia@:

For example imagine a woman dating or marrying coogar and insisting he respects women? Then later you'll turn around to say you didnt know he has misogynistic bones in his body, after he has dealt with you " the way ti ose se n'soju"