Ejisz: better nt keep a guy 2 close or he will do u.

jidegirl12: Okay but sometimes don't you feel you need a breathing space? Like sincerely? Like you feel choked? I'm just being sincere like do fun things with your friends without your spouse involved?

BlueDiva:

You want to do fun things with a male friend?
No wonder men are asking for paternity test.

jidegirl12:

Ah ah Diva ... It's just a discussion now dirty minds everywhere!

jidegirl12:

Ah ah Diva ... It's just a discussion now dirty minds everywhere!

jidegirl12: Okay but sometimes don't you feel you need a breathing space? Like sincerely? Like you feel choked? I'm just being sincere like do fun things with your friends without your spouse involved?

Tgirl4real:

There is nufin wrong with dat as long as there is trust and understanding between u and ur partner. Any choking relationship isn't healthy.

Keeping the opp sex as a best friend is not healthy and actually not dat feasible cos once u get married u get preoccupied with so many things that u sometimes forget that ur friends exist.

A best friend is someone u tell practically everything and that is not nice once u are married.

However, to keep sane, it's purely human for u to wanna interact with other people apart from ur spouse. But, there is a limit u can go. I personally wouldn't do movies with just any friend cos it's kinda personal. There are some peeps I'm comfy with cos they are family friends and we have a healthy relationship. Nothing wrong in hanging out with colleagues for a drink or a group movie outing. Just keep it healthy that's all that matters and try and keep ur spouse in d know.

jidegirl12: Okay but sometimes don't you feel you need a breathing space? Like sincerely? Like you feel choked? I'm just being sincere like do fun things with your friends without your spouse involved?

jidegirl12: @cooger come on now .

jidegirl12:

Thanks T , I think you understand my point ... you know but the gender thing is just the no no part I guess

coogar:

there's no true friendship between a man and a woman that are not blood-related!
it's a recipe for disaster - your partner should be your best friend not some random dude who secretly schemes how to get you into his bed.....

jidegirl12: @cooger come on now .

@ baby those are good points , thanks but what if those guys are gay to be precise?

baby_123: Honestly, I don't think anyone should be doing anything their partner is not happy or comfortable with. IF you have a good and respectable partner, why annoy them with things they wouldn't like, and things you won't like if you were in their shoes? How would you feel if your husband was doing this to you. Nothing bad in keeping friends and meeting in public once in a while, but act and be respectable to your partner's feelings. And if the person is such a good friend, surely they must understand. I used to think having male friends was not a bad thing, all my male friends have disappointed me by toasting me. . Guys hardly are close to you without wanting something from you. If they are not family, please respect yourself. Even women these days gan sef. E get as e be my sister. No gender is safe.