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Re: My Husband Is Threatening To Divorce Me For Petty Reasons by mankind777: 12:40pm On Oct 06, 2012 |
Angelahoney: Men in NL sometimes act as boys. What is the sense in kneeling down and serving him?from ur story and comment so far i can see that u justified ur action as been right and i can see that u are not that submissive, u better go on total submission to ur husband and ask him to forgive all ur wrong doing. as for ur husband all u are seen now is the summary of all ur wrong doing from the beginning of ur marriage with him |
Re: My Husband Is Threatening To Divorce Me For Petty Reasons by hentosky: 12:40pm On Oct 06, 2012 |
Angelahoney:I can see that u are equally a very stubborn and egocentric lady. U want the man 2 come and ask u why when he gave a simple and clear instruction. Why didn't u ask him b4 doing your wish? Sincerely I don't wanna comment on this issue cos the story is so disgusting. She would have gone ahead 2 market herself why is she telling us. By the way I perceive that u are still single. because no reasonable married woman will reason like u |
Re: My Husband Is Threatening To Divorce Me For Petty Reasons by Nobody: 12:41pm On Oct 06, 2012 |
Wow. It must be the weather or something. . .I read the first page of the thread and virtually all the ladies made sense and were reasonable in their replies! There's hope afterall. There's nothing more to be said. Unfortunately, the OP and her kind would never change. . .the marriage would hit the rocks sooner or later. Not even God can change a woman afflicted with congenital stubbornness. It is a hopeless case; wise men recognise these types early enough and flee for their lives. |
Re: My Husband Is Threatening To Divorce Me For Petty Reasons by icepoint(m): 12:44pm On Oct 06, 2012 |
Woman why do u come here crying wolf wen u knw u r bein sturbon and stupid, if u think u r stil marketable then leave him and go marketing lets see if its that easy, abi u no ask those single sisters out there? If u knw wots gud for u, go and cook what he asked you to cook and go on your kneels with a bootle of wine to appeace him. |
Re: My Husband Is Threatening To Divorce Me For Petty Reasons by JANK23H(m): 12:44pm On Oct 06, 2012 |
Angelahoney: Men in NL sometimes act as boys. What is the sense in kneeling down and serving him? It's obvious you don't respect the opinions you get here,i'm not suprised you are in the situation you are in with a comment like that. I don't mean to judge you,but from my reckoning you have little respect for men;and your husband is not an exception.Things you regard as little,such as disobedience,destroys marriages. |
Re: My Husband Is Threatening To Divorce Me For Petty Reasons by Bolarge1(m): 12:44pm On Oct 06, 2012 |
Angelahoney: Hello Nlanders. I have been hearing a lot about this site for a long time. I often visit this site but I've never been a member. Madam b4 ur husband can call u STURBON means and shows that u have been doing alot of thigs without his consent or outside his expectations. He must have been tired or pissed off for correcting you like a baby all the time thats why he is calling for a divorce. Madam just imagine ur house girl if you have one fails to obey your simple instructions how will you fill? Even in the Bible God loves obedient servants. God cannot even bless us if we are not yielding to his commandments. The bible says humble yourself b4 your husband and husband you can now love ur wife. If you fail to practice this simple principle from the word of God then crisis will abound. HUMILITY = OBIDEINCE = COMMITTMENT = DEVOTION = CONTENTMENT. SOLUTIONS Prayerfully go back to him, go on your kneels and embraced his legs and asked for forgiveness. Prepared his favourite meal and eat with him. Look sexy and get ready for action that day. Always abide by his simple instructions and directions. HE IS THE CROWN OF YOUR HEAD. ALL IS WELL.
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Re: My Husband Is Threatening To Divorce Me For Petty Reasons by agabaI23(m): 12:46pm On Oct 06, 2012 |
arramyjay:I think you are the wrong one here. She could cook him another delicacy at another time if she wanted but at this time, the man ordered fish pepper soup and not goat pepper soup. If she was desperate to do something different, she could have convinced the customer. A good way to keep your customers is to deliver what they did not order while fantasizing that they will jump up at it. Yea open a grocery shop and deliver carrot when your customer pays for green beans after all they are all veggies. |
Re: My Husband Is Threatening To Divorce Me For Petty Reasons by hentosky: 12:49pm On Oct 06, 2012 |
arramyjay: He is very immature if he is asking for divorce over catfish pepper soup,do u hv a job? I say ignore him and concentrate on other things,be nice to him whtevr u do.waste no energy on him. Pls how old is ur husband?I don't if u are male or female. But I know from ur post that u are absolutely immature. If u are male, I can bet that u take pleasure in sleeping with people's wives. Anu ohia! 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Is Threatening To Divorce Me For Petty Reasons by oladepo1: 12:51pm On Oct 06, 2012 |
my sister, obedience is better than sacrifice. My advice for you is to lay aside every habit that's slowly killing your home and lastly go to your husband,say something like this 'dear,l sincerely apologize for every of my wrong doings,l want you to know that you're my special gift from God without that l won't be so lucky to get a wonderful husband like you.l love and appreciate you.please, forgive my disobedience. It is well with you |
Re: My Husband Is Threatening To Divorce Me For Petty Reasons by FrontPageLawyer(m): 12:53pm On Oct 06, 2012 |
Angelahoney: Hello Nlanders. I have been hearing a lot about this site for a long time. I often visit this site but I've never been a member. I laugh at your stupidity. You have turned yourself to a commodity. Why not adhere to simple instruction. People wake up every morning and different things run through their mind which includes food. He wanted fish, you gave him goat. Tomorrow if he needs water you'll give him alcohol. Have his relatives talked to him, they should be able to convince him why you prepared the food contrary to his appetite. |
Re: My Husband Is Threatening To Divorce Me For Petty Reasons by Nobody: 12:53pm On Oct 06, 2012 |
Marriage of 5 years. Firstly madam,do u have children cos they strenghten union btw couple. I need to assume that u dnt have cos how else would u wana leave ur marriage just like that. 2. You are sturborn and non submissive. You see the culture of oyinbo people is different 4rm ours. A key ingredient in the success of marriage here is absolute submisn. God said in d bible that husband should love their wife and wife to SUBMIT to their hubby but oyinbo's culture didnt want that. 3. I dnt think u love ur hubby and truly ready 4 marriage when u did. Why else would u wana jump at divorce. Me think u married him cos of money. That explains ur unbearable urge 4 intimacy in a week. What happens if he travel 4 a month. You'l bring another man(one of those men eyeing u making u feel MARKETABLE) into ur matrimonial bed. Finally,even if u divorce and remarry,exept u marry a woman,no sane single man wil want a sturborn and averagely submissive Quarter-to woman 4 a wife. Off course u can get those Alhajis as 10th wife. My dear,apologze on ur kneel and swallow ur pride b4 its 2 late |
Re: My Husband Is Threatening To Divorce Me For Petty Reasons by da091(m): 12:53pm On Oct 06, 2012 |
Good day dear, It really wonderful getting into the union though @ times one tends to go against ones desire because of unity.However,we men really believe on authority failure usually brings about sad mind set, I urge you to just summon courage and accept what happened as your error and beg and please if you have to change his opinion,let him be aware.Surely he should accept your apology. |
Re: My Husband Is Threatening To Divorce Me For Petty Reasons by Nobody: 12:54pm On Oct 06, 2012 |
This what happens to young gals dat watch too many nollywood movies.matured bodies retarded minds,when he divorces you,u will become a philosopher |
Re: My Husband Is Threatening To Divorce Me For Petty Reasons by phunmydahdah(f): 12:58pm On Oct 06, 2012 |
Hi d lady wrote dat: am gonna b lukin at it frm d angle of law u see ur husband can't use dat reason to divorce u cos the court will only grant a divorce wen d marriage has broken down irritrivably and unda dat category y ur husband wants to divorce u is flimsy and am sure d judge won't grant dat divorce. But u too d bible says wives submit to ur husband he said cook dis and u are cookin dat its disrespect why nt take part of d wateva meat and cook a little portion of wat u feel like eating. Everythin will b fine IJN prepare him exactly wat he wanted dat day and appologise to him |
Re: My Husband Is Threatening To Divorce Me For Petty Reasons by proudlyafrican(m): 12:58pm On Oct 06, 2012 |
[b] Kobojunkie:[/b] Kono Junkie when did it become a slavish act for a woman to cook for her husband? I do respect your comments on NL but as it stands right now i am totally disappointed because you have lost it. I know you are not married and i am sot sure you will be married after all getting married is not compulsory,it is not a curse oooooo but the truth. |
Re: My Husband Is Threatening To Divorce Me For Petty Reasons by seechris(m): 12:58pm On Oct 06, 2012 |
What a joke, you are here looking for someone to support your stubbornness, you obviously have bigger issues and the poor man is fed up, you are not a child,you know what to do to save your marriage. |
Re: My Husband Is Threatening To Divorce Me For Petty Reasons by Nobody: 12:59pm On Oct 06, 2012 |
190:mind you cat fish goes down well with Okro soup *wink* if u knw wat I mean. Lol |
Re: My Husband Is Threatening To Divorce Me For Petty Reasons by sessydoo(m): 1:00pm On Oct 06, 2012 |
Cheiiii una get sharp mouth for NL oo. Woman where art thou?? Una don drive this woman commot for NL. I no see her break-light in all d comments again, as no one gree support her. Madam abeg no mind them jare, u fit divorce ur hubby, come marry me buh u go be wife numb 3 ooo, lol Jokes appart @OP, they hav said it all. Respect ur hubby's opinion and settle scores wt him and make urself a virtuos woman that u re! then ur marriage will be heaven on earth..Cheers |
Re: My Husband Is Threatening To Divorce Me For Petty Reasons by arramyjay: 1:01pm On Oct 06, 2012 |
hentosky: I don't if u are male or female. But I know from ur post that u are absolutely immature. If u are male, I can bet that u take pleasure in sleeping with people's wives. Anu ohia! And the guy asking for divorce over pepper soup isn't.bodo. |
Re: My Husband Is Threatening To Divorce Me For Petty Reasons by agabaI23(m): 1:02pm On Oct 06, 2012 |
arramyjay:Ask your friend to tell us how happy that marriage has been till the fish and pepper soup issue. You are just supporting her because she is a fellow woman who must be supported against men. It is obvious that the present issue is that of the last straw that broke the camels back. @OP, How often do you challenge your husband or regard him as a small boy and not a real man? |
Re: My Husband Is Threatening To Divorce Me For Petty Reasons by Yahoo1(m): 1:03pm On Oct 06, 2012 |
arramyjay:just look at your name...it sounds deluded,just like you! I can see you have just concluded from the OPs post that the hubby just wants to divorce her because of that non.sense she wrote! Gosh! The bible says obidience is better than sacrifice! And she was wrong morally and on all grounds.! U are a dis_grace to your generations 4 that mindset! Olodo |
Re: My Husband Is Threatening To Divorce Me For Petty Reasons by arramyjay: 1:03pm On Oct 06, 2012 |
agabaI23: I think you are the wrong one here. She could cook him another delicacy at another time if she wanted but at this time, the man ordered fish pepper soup and not goat pepper soup. If she was desperate to do something different, she could have convinced the customer. And he is doing d right thing by divorcing her over peper soup! |
Re: My Husband Is Threatening To Divorce Me For Petty Reasons by weaseloo: 1:03pm On Oct 06, 2012 |
@ OP Now that the women (and men) have spoken up, what do you think? Are their claims that you are indeed stubborn true? No comments from you since. |
Re: My Husband Is Threatening To Divorce Me For Petty Reasons by arramyjay: 1:05pm On Oct 06, 2012 |
Yahoo1: just look at your name...it sounds deluded,just like you! I can see you have just concluded from the OPs post that the hubby just wants to divorce her because of that non.sense she wrote! Gosh! The bible says obidience is better than sacrifice! And she was wrong morally and on all grounds.! U are a dis_grace to your generations 4 that mindset! Olodo Grow up then come back to chat. Ignoring u. |
Re: My Husband Is Threatening To Divorce Me For Petty Reasons by kunletech: 1:06pm On Oct 06, 2012 |
I ill tell u dis, base on my esperienced. 1. Obedient is better than sacrifies, some men can do anything for woman that obey them, because that make them man of whom they like to be. If u disobey them, is like you are telling them, they are less man. 2. Respet ! respet !! respet!!! Respet your Husband, let him be the driver and you be the conductor, and the children to be the pasengers. Automaticaly, things ill work well 3. And lastly, call him and tell him you are sorry. Ask him what you are doing that is hotting him, and you also tell him yours, then both of you should promise to make adjust. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Is Threatening To Divorce Me For Petty Reasons by fortyfeet(m): 1:06pm On Oct 06, 2012 |
arramyjay:No, disobedient. |
Re: My Husband Is Threatening To Divorce Me For Petty Reasons by oyestephen(m): 1:07pm On Oct 06, 2012 |
There is a yoruba proverbs which saya " ounje ti baale ile ko kin je, iyawo ile ko gbodo see" sorry if I didn't fully get it, but it means, what the man(head of the house, and performs his duties well) doesn't want, the wife shouldn't do it. African men desire utmost respect and submission from their wives, and even those who allow women rights development still place a little restrictions. If he performs his duties as a MAN, ma you may be the one to buy and cook it, but you have to buy and cook what he wants you. |
Re: My Husband Is Threatening To Divorce Me For Petty Reasons by Yahoo1(m): 1:07pm On Oct 06, 2012 |
hentosky: I don't if u are male or female. But I know from ur post that u are absolutely immature. If u are male, I can bet that u take pleasure in sleeping with people's wives. Anu ohia!no mind that mo.ron jare! Na 'its' (u cant refer to someone with such mindset as a him/her) mama wey buy phone give am,na her fault |
Re: My Husband Is Threatening To Divorce Me For Petty Reasons by agabaI23(m): 1:08pm On Oct 06, 2012 |
arramyjay:He is not divorcing her over pepper soup, he threatened to divorce her over her protracted stubbornness, disrespect and disregard of his authority part of which was manifested in the pps issue 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Is Threatening To Divorce Me For Petty Reasons by Obassy(f): 1:09pm On Oct 06, 2012 |
arramyjay:U are not a good advicer |
Re: My Husband Is Threatening To Divorce Me For Petty Reasons by Yahoo1(m): 1:09pm On Oct 06, 2012 |
arramyjay:....we obviously know who needs growing up,with your level of IQ,Ummmm,wich is minus zero! 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Is Threatening To Divorce Me For Petty Reasons by fortyfeet(m): 1:10pm On Oct 06, 2012 |
WAM?:Great one. |
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