ayo jango: Why commit urself to someone you hardly see or run into @ will that's just punishment.
Communication,companionship and d persons presence enhances a relationship.

What makes yu think a partner won't b screwin smone else even while talkin to yu on phone

Abujafood: 7. He picks up fights with you easily and more often than before.... Means he's becoming bored and irritated with you

8. Doesn't pick or returns your calls and gives only frivolous reasons for behaving that way ...... Same as above but in addition is not totally sure of what to do (leave or stay)

9. Doesn't play heartily like before ....... (you are less appealing to him now than ever before)

More to come as I recall!

ibrash600: I hate distance relationship, it never work for me, i have tried it twice but same noni

seedord247: why would you be in a long distance relationship in the first place?

bid4rich: It depends on the person and how you meet each other. Im in a distance relationship and it has been so so so good. We talk at least 20, 30 minutes everyday at a stretch. Thank God for trust and mutual understanding anyway. Thats the way to go

solidbroda: Why "HE"? Why not "She"? Are you meaning to tell everyone that men are the only one who cause long distant relationships to fail?. Women are more likely to stray in long distant relationship. Reason is, their little brain can't seem to understand what is right from what is wrong. Like a thread that made up a front page one time "why do women bleep wherever they go?"

tomakint:

Obiyor God Bless you 1 billion times, exactly my stance on this 'very sensitive and volatile issue'. I don't want the message "it's working for me" to be encouraged here! For the young ones here, who might be too naive to fall for the bait (trust me it's a bait) they may not forgive those preaching the message of 'its working for me'! The world lives on pretense, to those involved in distance relationship why not ask your distant partner some sensitive questions about how he or she is coping, then add 1+ 2 together, you will see it's not the best of relationship ways.

GboyegaD: Mine is working and God has been good to us. I think it depends on the parties involved.

Hemanwel: On ExtraCool??

Joe50:

that's good... But wait. You mean no guy is f*ucking her over there huh.

Guy be wise, distance relationship na wahala, you might be communicating as well, but she's not a stone, some one over there must f*ck her.

packman: [size=20pt]God Knows Dis thread was meant 4 me i have bin suffering in silence GOSH 4 once i feel grateful 2 niaraland [/size]

packman: [size=20pt]God Knows Dis thread was meant 4 me i have bin suffering in silence GOSH 4 once i feel grateful 2 niaraland [/size]

bid4rich:

does it then mean that it will never work in all stance? Think! While it may work for some few, it may not work for some other people. It all based on how you started it and the kind of emotion you have towards each other. But that doesnt mean that it will not work in all cases

RIchibabe: Am into a distance relationship, and its affecting me a lot, i can't call it quit now because we have come in a long way, 3years now, i have never dated any other guy apart from him, i fell lonely sometimes, we only talk on phone, n we see 2wise in a year, am so tired.

jalay: thats what they wanted.. fadein and fadeout..
honestly speaking relationships get bored when the opposite is no longer attractive as "usual". you only have to sit down and talk on the issues limiting the relationship..

RIchibabe: Am into a distance relationship, and its affecting me a lot, i can't call it quit now because we have come in a long way, 3years now, i have never dated any other guy apart from him, i fell lonely sometimes, we only talk on phone, n we see 2wise in a year, am so tired.

ichidodo: I THINK U DESERVE BETTER, BEEN IN A 5Year LONGDIS MESELF. IF AINT WORKIN THEN DROP IT. URE MENTAL WEL-BEING MATTERS A LOT.

Jaywon242: I think it depends on d pple involved. Their commitment,love and trust dat exist in d relationship. I and my gurl were in d same state b4 now until she went for NYSC. She'll be thru by February nxt year. From where she is to where I am is abt 5 hrs journey and she comes visiting once in a month. I ve been to where she's serving only twice. We talk everyday and we ve been talking evrydae since we met. D relationship is abt 18 months old now. It's been good so far and we r getting married nxt year after her service. She's been very open and trustworthy. She gave me her facebook p/word nd she doesnt hide her fone. She hasnt given me any reason to doubt her. Pple arnd her even attests to her faithfulness and even her frnds say it. Dey even say u too love dis Jaywon sef. I think I'm lucky to have her. It's nt always like dis for everybody. And I ve been very faithful to her too. Her mom calls me almost every week and her dad also does. And I ve seen some couples who stay in d same environment and yet dey still Bleep around. I dnt like long distance relationship dat's very far sha, like UK/USA to Nija.

Shadoky: Distance relationship is a very big threat to the heart which can lead to suicide when d unexpected happened. Am just recovely 4rm d heart brake, tank god 4 saving my life.