This might sound funny to some peeps out there, but this is what she said to me when we were having a random discussion ( a French lady of 23)

I can't marry a man that that I haven't slept with no matter how much I love him, I cant imagine how it would be if I get to know that after our marriage, he has a Micro p.enis, Eerectile dysfunction and Impotency.

It may sound weird to most/some of us, and I was surprised too, but honestly, don't you think she have a point with that statement?

Your opinion are welcomed

Honestly she has a point. But the questions is that, can impotent man even thought of getting married in the first place? Can't erectile dysfunction be care or a small penis be enlarged?

she's trying to look out for herself and her future family. Nice point IMO

That's what she likes. I don't see why I should be moved by it

Ok, noted.

Everybody is free to say what he or she wants. Is subjective.

D sage: Honestly she has a point. But the questions is that, can impotent man even thought of getting married in the first place? Can't erectile dysfunction be care or a small penis be enlarged?

impotency is not a choice, its just a misfortune. impotent people want to marry and live a good life, but circumstances might prevent them. and there is also no medically proven method for p.enis enlargement.

190-the-clown:
This is what all NIGERIAN GIRLS out there should endevour to always do

But NO - instead you see them running after money like fashola

Religiousity won't allow them to do it, and if they get to know later in their marriage, Divorce is a taboo..

Religion is so complicated, chai.

Micro peenis - not the size of the wand but the magic in it...you dont need to be big to keep a woman satisfied...actually non penetrative o..r....ga...sms leave a woman more sated than penetrative.
Secondly - erectile dydfunction is a medical condition that can be treated
What was her third reason again? impotence- you dont need to actually have sex to know if a dude is impotent and depending on the cause/reason, it can also be treated
so seriously i dont think her three concerns stand up to scrutiny per se.

dahonestboss:

Religiousity won't allow them to do it, and if they get to know later in their marriage, Divorce is a taboo..

Religion is so complicated, chai.

Bludeville: Micro peenis - not the size of the wand but the magic in it...you dont need to be big to keep a woman satisfied...actually non penetrative o..r....ga...sms leave a woman more sated than penetrative.
Secondly - erectile dydfunction is a medical condition that can be treated
What was her third reason again? impotence- you dont need to actually have sex to know if a dude is impotent and depending on the cause/reason, it can also be treated
so seriously i dont think her three concerns stand up to scrutiny per se.

different strokes .....

Bludeville: Micro peenis - not the size of the wand but the magic in it...you dont need to be big to keep a woman satisfied...actually non penetrative o..r....ga...sms leave a woman more sated than penetrative.
Secondly - erectile dydfunction is a medical condition that can be treated
What was her third reason again? impotence- you dont need to actually have sex to know if a dude is impotent and depending on the cause/reason, it can also be treated
so seriously i dont think her three concerns stand up to scrutiny per se.

can you marry that kind of a guy ? and hope for medical attention? if its even reliable 100%?

dahonestboss:

impotency is not a choice, its just a misfortune. impotent people want to marry and live a good life, but circumstances might prevent them. and there is also no medically proven method for p.enis enlargement.

Who says p.enis cannot be enlarge?

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I totally agree with the woman. Me myself wont buy a car till I test drive it, so why shud I marry without test driving?

candieangel12: I totally agree with the woman. Me myself wont buy a car till I test drive it, so why shud I marry without test driving?

are you Nigerian?

dahonestboss:

are you Nigerian?

Yes igbo to be exact. But born n bred in the USA. Is there a problem?

D sage:

Who says p.enis cannot be enlarge?

can you tell me a reliable way of enlarging p.enis with no side effect?

Okay,not a bad idea.

candieangel12:

Yes igbo to be exact. But born n bred in the USA. Is there a problem?

just wondering if a Nigerian lady born and brought up in Nigeria will say these.

but you are being testdrive, you are the car and he is the driver lolz

dahonestboss:

just wondering if a Nigerian lady born and brought up in Nigeria will say these.

but you are being testdrive, you are the car and he is the driver lolz

Lol I dont mind being testdrived na so aslong as im enjoyin d ride also

candieangel12:


Lol I dont mind being testdrived na so aslong as im enjoyin d ride also

its mutual

dahonestboss:

its mutual

I agree too

dahonestboss:

its mutual

Thats good then. Maybe if you're lucky ur future wife go dey allow u testdrive am

candieangel12:

Thats good then. Maybe if you're lucky ur future wife go dey allow u testdrive am

to be honest with you, i wonder why Nigerians see sex as a big deal. if she no gree sex marriage, make she de go. sex is part of my personal compatibility test.

I need to check if the place is cool and calm, na opportunity for her to know if i de okay sexually too.

dahonestboss:

to be honest with you, i wonder why Nigerians see sex as a big deal. if she no gree sex marriage, make she de go. sex is part of my personal compstibility test.

I need to check if the place is cool and calm, na opportunity for her to know if i dr okay sexually too.

Exactly, I full on agree. Some Nigerians make sex to be a bad thing whereas its a natural phenemenon. They like pretending and whatnot, I say "embrace your sexuality' lol.For me, I won't marry a man without fukcn, so if he wan marry me, we go 1st test our sexual compatibilty

candieangel12:

Exactly, I full on agree. Some Nigerians make sex to be a bad thing whereas its a natural phenemenon. They like pretending and whatnot, I say "embrace your sexuality' lol.For me, I won't marry a man without fukcn, so if he wan marry me, we go 1st test our sexual compatibilty

no talk am make your papa hear ooo

dahonestboss:

no talk am make your papa hear ooo

LOL my parents already kno that I am sexually active. My mom came by my apartment one day and found some condoms in my room and a pregnancy test. If you see wahala ehh. My momsy sharpily called my father && they both began 2 yell but after they realized what has happened has happened they calmed down. They told me make I play it safe if I decide to continue 2 have se.x. This happened some years ago of course.

candieangel12:

LOL my parents already kno that I am sexually active. My mom came by my apartment one day and found some condoms in my room and a pregnancy test. If you see wahala ehh. My momsy sharpily called my father && they both began 2 yell but after they realized what has happened has happened they calmed down. They told me make I play it safe if I decide to continue 2 have se.x. This happened some years ago of course.

wetin happen? tell us make we learn

dahonestboss:

wetin happen? tell us make we learn

Noting happened na. They were just angry that I decided 2 hve se.x n not wait till marriage. But after they realized that them shoutin wouldnt bring back my virginity, then they stopped vexing && told me 2 practice safe se.x, so I have taken their advice and I am now havin safe se.x lol

Marriage to a guy that can completely satisfy me in the bedroom makes up 50% of my marriage requirement. I broke off two serious relationships just because of that. So I agree with the french girl.