When you already have a lady, and all of a sudden, a youngster like say 15 years begins eyeing you.How do you get this youngster off you without offending her?
I am currently facing this problem and its causing me sleepless nights.please help me before i am charged with defilement!

Don't tell me u r still having problems with those secondary school teenagers u teach.
I thought we addressed ur issue months ago

Lol it's a funny thing. I don't think they can help it, especially teenage guys. I'm friendly to them and that's about it. If they start asking for things like a number or date, just tell them you're not interested, and state why if you have to.

The other week, there was a young student that struck me in convo. Love nwantiti was all over his eyes. It was funny though, and he was actually pretty adorable. I felt old, but I gave him the small wisdom I have and then told him it was nice talking to him and proceeded elsewhere.

It shouldn't cause you sleepless nights and defilement certainly shouldn't be on your mind unless you're considering going for this teenager. Just brush it off. As you said, she's only crushing on you. There's nothing real about it.

[quote author=ogugua88]Lol it's a funny thing. I don't think they can help it, especially teenage guys. I'm friendly to them and that's about it. If they start asking for things like a number or date, just tell them you're not interested, and state why if you have to.

The other week, there was a young student that struck me in convo. Love nwantiti was all over his eyes. It was funny though, and he was actually pretty adorable. I felt old, but I gave him the small wisdom I have and then told him

Your obsession with teenagers is beginning to be worrisome.
Don't you think u need a counsellor?

www.nairaland.com/920277/why-stopped-bleeping-schoolgirls-true

www.nairaland.com/930335/what-top-signs-landlords-teenage

www.nairaland.com/931055/honest-crush-minor-underaged-person

www.nairaland.com/932784/me-soup-o-o-o

^^u sure dig him up pretty good. But seriously, i love those girls too. I only pity them so i stay off them!

Tell her to grow up and stay the hell away from you.

The OP has an history of young girls na

@OP
the fact that this lady is a teenager shouldn't matter at all, because whether she is a teeenager or a gradma, simply telling her that:"I ALREADY HAVE A GF, AND I AM VERY HAPPY WITH HER", should be enough to get this lady off your back.

MRbrownJAY: @OP
the fact that this lady is a teenager shouldn't matter at all, because whether she is a teeenager or a gradma, simply telling her that:"I ALREADY HAVE A GF, AND I AM VERY HAPPY WITH HER", should be enough to get this lady off your back.

Understand with him , it is not the teenage 'lady' being on his back. The problem is him not being able to take his eyes off the tiny t¡ts

ITbomb:
Understand with him , it is not the teenage 'lady' being on his back. The problem is him not being able to take his eyes off the tiny t¡ts

That's right. That's his MO

ITbomb:
Understand with him , it is not the teenage 'lady' being on his back. The problem is him not being able to take his eyes off the tiny t¡ts

then that's another matter completely!

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bin gbagbo:

why d pity face? No be true dey tell u?

If its true u can't do without those tiny tits den u seriously need 2 see a counsellor.

The best way to handle such is too act in the manner you would want any matured male to handle your own daughter years after now or your own neice. I do not think the girl(s) have crush on you, you simply are thirsty for their innocence and naive nature that would not challenge or question your actions or behavior of being irresponsible. If you are having problem cautioning yourself, how then would you cope if you are to take them/her in sporting event? My advise to you is to GROW UP BOY!!!

How should dat give u sleepless nite,except u are not already dancing along her music. A crush frm a 15yr old. Gosh!!

Na devil's work.

Sleepless nights? Jeez! Thats bizarre & startling.. For what! Guy beta talk wetin dey ur mind ooo make we know how we go take help u ooo. Gosh!!!

@bin gbagbo
Wondering if you could share the same bed with ur younger sister or niece.SMH

Just avoid Dem Ąπ∂ block all contacts

Man you can't stop a bird from flying over your head but you don't need birds making nest on your head ie to say emotions are not limited to you as adults in fact the girl is at the stage where hormones run wild which in turn is a sign that the girl is developing well but that you don't want to hurt her feelings by telling her off perhaps you will want to hurt her destiny by bedding her! If possible get a lady counselor to talk to her and Pls whatever you do don't give her the impression that you are susceptible to her games, keep away from her.

CHEERS!!!
Lecturerdabo

Op

I know u like dem cheap, so u will not spend money

9c 1

Paedophile! No doubt,thats what u are 4 this to be causing u sleepless nights.take ur eyes and mind off her direction and u'll be safe

I read it in a book on psychology that paedophillia stems from childhood abuse, psychological defects, a low self esteem and lack of confidence. The urge to approach a lady of parallel age is avoided b'cos "They will figure you out".

M M M: Op

I know u like dem cheap, so u will not spend money

MADMAN!

This thread funny die. btw, wat kind of name is 'bin gbagbo'