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Reasons Why Men Are Scared To Marry You by NEROSKY(m): 6:23pm On Oct 24, 2012 |
just saw this on my fb ,felt it will be nice 2 share it wif my follow NLs... @sexkillz,don't act funny agn! You are not married not because there is no man ready for marriage as a good number of men are looking for life partners. The major reason Nigerian men are now scared of marriage is waywardness. Men are now afraid because they don’t know who to trust and also not sure if that beautiful girl they are interested instill has her womb intact. They are also afraid because of the high mountain ladies have suddenly placed themselves on as no woman wants to date a poor man any longer but are all interested in those with good cars and houses. A man recently told me why he does not allow his girlfriends to come to his house. According to him, he doesn’t want a case wherea girl enters his house only for her to refuse leaving because of the beauty of the house and cars she will see. Isn’t it surprising how single ladiesnow out-dress married women with good jobs whose husbands are very rich? You are not married because the single men around you are wondering if they will be able to meet up with your ever- demanding lifestyle. Even when they know they can afford it, what makes them believe you won’t take a walk tomorrow if anything goes wrong? Another reason is that with your good job and salary, they are evenafraid to come near you as they wouldn’t want to be turned down. I have a female colleague, a very pretty girl who lives in her own house and drives a posh car. She also has different businesses to show for it. Recently, I advised herto calm down a bit as friends I introduce her to who ordinarily would have gone for her, all run away after meeting her and come back to me with the same word, “Amara, this one go send me go village.” Another reason you are going to grow old in your father’s house is this: You want a ready-made man instead of a growing man with vision. Are you aware that if you have not obtained favour from God, the man will decrease instead of increasing when you enter his house? Work on your character, the words that come from your mouth, your lifestyle, the way you carry yourself, the way you dress, the places you visitand then spend time trying to findfavour before God because it’s only favour that can make your husband increase the moment youstep into his life. In fact, the moment a man proposes to you, there must be some positive movements in his finance if at all you have obtained favour. It is never your duty to find a man.While he is working trying to raise money to sustain whoever he takes home to his mother, you should get yourself busy obtainingfavour from God for you to be his source of blessing. A man knows when the wife is a source of blessing and that is the only time he cherishes you. In the previous paragraph, I said the man should take you home to his mother. I don’t understand why you get married to a man who believes it’s just between the two of you. Read the Bible; they all took their wives home to their mothers. If a man cannot take youhome to his people, something is wrong. Isn’t it surprising how many of us are married without knowing our husband’s village and his mother’s bedroom? Marriage, in the African culture, is not between the man and woman alone, the two families must be involved. Hey, you have to stop moving from one prayer house to the other in search of miracles that are not coming even after you might have emptied your pocket. Go back to your room; deal with your character and bad nature thatis filled with pride and disrespect for the elderly. Cut down on frivolities and that is not all, deal with your party and aso ebi spirit. You must also deal with that thingthat gets you to aimlessly move from one end of the street to the other all in search of precious souls to destroy. Change that mentality that says you use what you have to get what you want; any man you get with your ass is as filthy, unreliable and irresponsible as you are. Common girl, go deal with yourself first before you start blaming your step mother of being the one keeping you down. Stop blaming your neighbours andfriends of standing on your way toprogress. I just told you the bitter truth which your Alfa, Babalawo, pastor and Imam may never tell you. Stop wasting your time chasing shadows, go and deal with yourself first before complaining. I know of a wonderful lady who sings so well that when she comesto lead in worship, miracles take place. People love her, but this lady is unmarried till date. It is notbecause men don’t go to her for marriage or because she is ugly; her number one obstacle is her character. They say there are manyold single ladies in our churches; I think I know the problem and not that most of them wasted their lives in frivolities only to realise the last minute that they have to run into the church where they can get a brother to marry. I am not trying to judge anyone’s past, but the issue is that even when they join those churches, their characters don’t change. It’s really appalling how some ladies talk to men simply because they are in the same church. Some of them fight everyone in their department in church while some live their lives begging from one member to the other. What do have to say about ladies who fight for food during church meetings? Those guys would be foolish to see the stuff you are made of and still go ahead to takeyou home to mama. I always tell ladies that if by the age of 30 no man had asked to know if you are for sale, there is something wrong somewhere; its either spiritual or attitudinal, but the truth is that it is always more attitudinal than spiritual. You have been fasting and prayingand going for all levels of deliverance but it seems nothing is working. What is your character like after all the prayers and religious devotions? It is sad whenI see a single girl walk up to a married woman sitting with her husband and telling the woman toget up because she was there before her. You attend functions with extra bags to pack food and drinks and when it’s time to hit the dancing floor, you do that as ifthere is no tomorrow. What do you expect from life when you are the source of all quarrels in your neighbourhood, church and office? This is the moment of truth and if at all you want to be delivered, your decision to deliver yourself is the first step to your breakthrough. What do you expect from life when you are the source of all quarrels in your neighbourhood, church and office? This is the moment of truth and if at all you want to be delivered, your decision to deliver yourself is the first step to your breakthrough. *The end* |
Re: Reasons Why Men Are Scared To Marry You by okosodo: 8:49pm On Oct 24, 2012 |
You tried |
Re: Reasons Why Men Are Scared To Marry You by mumumugu(m): 9:32pm On Oct 24, 2012 |
okosodo: You tried. Do d men hav gud charater, are they faithful, not wayward? |
Re: Reasons Why Men Are Scared To Marry You by Nobody: 1:39am On Oct 25, 2012 |
he is bored to the max! |
Re: Reasons Why Men Are Scared To Marry You by NEROSKY(m): 1:06am On Oct 26, 2012 |
mondi_cheeks: he is bored to the max!girls dont like d truth n dats y many of u goto redeem camp after 40 years of no marriage! |
Re: Reasons Why Men Are Scared To Marry You by DExplorer1: 1:28am On Oct 26, 2012 |
Was this written in 1970s |
Re: Reasons Why Men Are Scared To Marry You by 190theclown: 2:08am On Oct 26, 2012 |
which kind wahala come be this now |
Re: Reasons Why Men Are Scared To Marry You by Mynd44: 3:27am On Oct 26, 2012 |
I read the first line and realised that this is another load of bullshît |
Re: Reasons Why Men Are Scared To Marry You by Nobody: 4:56am On Oct 26, 2012 |
NEROSKY:And visiting d place has never helped! |
Re: Reasons Why Men Are Scared To Marry You by Nobody: 7:58pm On Oct 26, 2012 |
NEROSKY:Marriage doesn't define who a woman is there is more to life hun...21st century |
Re: Reasons Why Men Are Scared To Marry You by Mynd44: 9:28pm On Oct 26, 2012 |
mondi_cheeks:true |
Re: Reasons Why Men Are Scared To Marry You by 2goodbobo(m): 10:16pm On Oct 26, 2012 |
Mynd_44: I read the first line and realised that this is another load of bullshît What or where is the bullshit in the first line you read? The op just hit the nail on the head jor |
Re: Reasons Why Men Are Scared To Marry You by Mynd44: 10:24pm On Oct 26, 2012 |
2goodbobo:The fact that he went "men are looking for this or that" generalization is just crap |
Re: Reasons Why Men Are Scared To Marry You by 2goodbobo(m): 10:45pm On Oct 26, 2012 |
The fact that he went "men are looking for this or that" generalization is just crap[/quote] He said "some good number of men" and that aint generalisation. Some is not all but part of all. |
Re: Reasons Why Men Are Scared To Marry You by CzarChris(m): 12:40am On Oct 27, 2012 |
Interesting, very interesting. Call me old school, but this brother just hit the nail on the head. I met a very young girl sometime ago, we got chatty she gave me her number, and at the point of me keying my number in her phone both her sim n phonememory where filled up, i had to retoast her, b4 she deleted a number to add mine, a student o not a bizwoman. Well she acted like a hoe nd was treated as one. What of the one that before you walk 15poles with this girl over 18boys will greet her. Well, i read and interpreted the situation and went my way. I took another shopping(as a test o) what she was picking droped my jaw, well she's history. One even had the guts to ask me to pay her "salary", i was like WTF? For what? I might give a small something here and there, buy u stuff. But we ain't married and am not your father. Give your parents some responsibilities and have some dignity. The truth is 97% of guys ain't dunces. You might think you eating him mugu. He only losses money, you, your dignity. To get a chic in Naija, as easy as clicking a finger. But to get a wife? Lord have mercy. 2 Likes |
Re: Reasons Why Men Are Scared To Marry You by NEROSKY(m): 8:20pm On Oct 27, 2012 |
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