divinelove: Greetings ladies n gents,
Hw u all doing, thanks for dropping by on this thread but b sure to leave ur contributions.
These days there r very few marriage materials left in d dating pool. Is mr right/mrs. Right going into extinction? So i ask those married, engaged or searching, wat r d strategies u used to hook up with d right one or wat r u doin to locate d right one.
Did it just happen on its own without much efforts frm u or r u hoping it ll.
Some ppl got hooked up thro

wedding n other social gatherings
universities
asking friends n families
going up n down d street aka strolling
churches n youth fellowship
clubbing
social networking sites
public transport
market n shopping center
gym

ok over to u all, list other areas one can meet a potential partner or u met urs.

vivian chinaza: Nothing! No strategy, conscious effort whatsoever! I just live my life, go to places when its necessary. When the time comes, things will work themselves out. That's my belief!

divinelove: Tnx for dropping by n leaving ur tots

@ vivian chinaza
d problem with leaving everything to chance is dt one keep getting d wrong ppl. I think we need to position ourself in d right places to meet d right person. One needs alot of goodluck to meet d right person by chance esp if one has specific qualifies he/she is lookin for. Dts y i am talkin abt conscious efforts

acidosis™:

oh you mean, you're with mr wrong now?

vivian chinaza:

Imo, the wrong people are everywhere! The same people you meet in the clubs, you will meet in the church, u will meet at the pool, or gym, bank, and corporate gatherings. Meeting them there doesn't make them the right one.

The moment I knew I was ready to commit myself entirely to someone or I knew I was ready for marriage I started preparing myself for it, I started developing myself for it, and that's the only strategy I have got. You know living and building my life, equipping myself with what it takes to be a good friend, wife and mother someday. And yes, at the process of doing that I have met people.

Honestly, I have never been to anywhere when its not necessary........I have never been to anywhere just because I wanna position myself or whatsoever. I'm always at home when I have got nothing to do outside.

The guy I just said yes to few hours ago, I met him at a friend's office but I went there for a different thing altogether. I don't know if he is the right person, I guess right now all I need is grace and good luck.

I have learned that certain things in life has no arithmetic formular and one of those things is finding love.

190-the-clown:
huh, what was the topic about again

divinelove:

Hmmmm well talking as a lady i can understand where u r coming frm. The bible which shld be our reference book states that he who has found a wife has found a good thing. Nw to find sth presupposes a search or seeking for it. Here d man is d one who has got work to do in this regards. Gentlemen on NL how r u conducting ur search for her.

LastApostle:
Can I BEAM my HIGH intensity search light towards your direction?

vivian chinaza: Nothing! No strategy, conscious effort whatsoever! I just live my life, go to places when its necessary. When the time comes, things will work themselves out. That's my belief!

amyg:
Vivian,d advice shld b frm d married ones nah.u nd I never marry so e never work.

vivian chinaza:

Imo, the wrong people are everywhere! The same people you meet in the clubs, you will meet in the church, u will meet at the pool, or gym, bank, and corporate gatherings. Meeting them there doesn't make them the right one.

The moment I knew I was ready to commit myself entirely to someone or I knew I was ready for marriage I started preparing myself for it, I started developing myself for it, and that's the only strategy I have got. You know living and building my life, equipping myself with what it takes to be a good friend, wife and mother someday. And yes, at the process of doing that I have met people.

Honestly, I have never been to anywhere when its not necessary........I have never been to anywhere just because I wanna position myself or whatsoever. I'm always at home when I have got nothing to do outside.

The guy I just said yes to few hours ago, I met him at a friend's office but I went there for a different thing altogether. I don't know if he is the right person, I guess right now all I need is grace and good luck.

I have learned that certain things in life have no arithmetic formular and one of those things is finding love.

amyg:
Vivian,d advice shld b frm d married ones nah.u nd I never marry so e never work.

D-Explorer:

Will you wear my ring?

vivian chinaza:

crazy girl!

amyg:
Hw many carat?

D-Explorer:

18K pure white gold diamond ring Pls., be my lady!

amyg:
On ur knees man,I also want d proposal on CNN.I v always dreamt of dt
Gold/diamond?

D-Explorer:

Your wish is my action. Anything for my beautiful amgy. 7pm tomorrow, do we have a date?

ItsModella: D-Explo, so na here you dey? come meet us for club jare.

crazygod: 2go.