DailyyNewss: Why Most Nigerian Ladies May End Up Single For Life

It is no doubt that Nigerian men love their Nigerian women so much, but recently, the Nigerian male folks of the 21st century are becoming disappointed with their women for so many reasons, and they are really crying everywhere, and wishing and hoping for a change that refuses to come just as change refused to come into Nigeria’s electricity power supply; though we are still praying and preaching for this change to come soon, and we believe it will soonest.

Everywhere you go- social network sites, blogs, chatrooms, corporate offices, churches, homes, gym centers, parks, clubs, classrooms, etc, Nigerian men of all ages are crying of the recent decay in attitude, manner, culture, moral uprightness, etc amongst the Nigerian females of the 21st century. This alone is an obvious sign that there’s fire on the mountain, and yet the females refused to run.

I hear Nigerian ladies complain that there are no marriageable men again in Nigeria of today as compared to the past, but unfortunately, there are more marriageable men in Nigeria of today than in the past. In fact, there are millions of well to do single guys wishing, and desiring to marry, but there are no or few worthy single ladies to lay hands on for this life time commitment called marriage.


There are thousands if not millions of guys with an average income of 150k (150thousand naira) a month in Nigeria of today, who are of marriageable age too, but majority of these guys are not even thinking of marriage in the nearest future, why?.....continued.....


It is so disheartening that most rich single guys in Nigeria hardly think of getting married, while the few that do finally take the bold step of getting married, are majorly those coerced into marriage by their parents, family and probably society pressure....continued...



In a summary, below are some of the reasons why most Nigerian ladies may end up single for life if they fail to adjust urgently.




4. Excessive makeup turns most decent and serious-minded men off- if you have observed, you will discover that most men dislike excessive makeup, and more don’t even like it at all; reason they often times discourage their true loved ones to do away with it cos it speaks ill of a lady even though so many men will applaud and complement you for looking like an Egyptian mummy. A slight makeup is okay; but if you are out for marriage, try always to look simple and natural, it will attract better men, decent and serious-minded, except you are still living in your high school life and not thinking towards marriage.

5. Cut Down Your Participation in social network sites- if possible, close your facebook and twitter accounts because they may be doing you more harm than good, but you wouldn’t know until you hit 35yrs plus and still single and searching. If you cannot maintain a sizeable number of vital friends and family members as friends on your facebook, twitter, etc accounts, then you need to close the account and focus with your offline life. No man would want to marry a lady who jumps from one social network site to another because it is a clear sign of an unfaithful lady or about to be unfaithful lady, yes, that’s how men view it. Who are you to have a thousand friends on facebook, same on twitter, maybe on wassap, 2go, twoo, BBM, badoo, eskimi, etc?


6. Stop Giving Your Number Out To Every Dick & Harry! No man would want to propose marriage to a lady whose phone is always talking and laughing with unserious calls. You may not be a playgirl, but he would judge you as one, and will likely flee at the slightest chance or disagreement.

7. You Don’t Bring Any Value Into The Life Of Men You Date or Are Dating- because your best friend married without contributing anything to the man that finally married her, doesn’t mean it will work for you that way. Think, work towards equipping yourself so that you can be a value and also add value to his life to convince him that you are worth committing to. Adding value to his life isn’t by giving him money, or material gifts, nope….good counsels, being his best friend, helping him attain his goals in life, lending him moral, mental and spiritual support, and by not just being a liability that only bring requests and problems to be solved.

8. Your Friends Run Your Life- how do you expect to find a husband when you still allow your clique of friends to be dictating which man you meet is worthy of your love and which is not? When will you wake up and face the fact that those your best friends even though they cherish you, wouldn’t want you to marry before them or to marry the best man?

9. You Move Around In Group- often times, you miss the advance of a good decent man when you move in group, be wise. Again, men don’t always fancy ladies that move around in group because most ladies can only be reasonable when you separate them from their group of friends.

10. You Give Everything Out During Dating- As a single lady who has not been taken to the altar, you need to reserve some things for your husband to be, especially your body, respect it and preserve it at all cost.....continued.....



11. You Package Yourself Wrongly- in your attempt to look sexy, adorable and maybe appealing to guys, you have derailed from appealing to appalling. In fact you look more whorish than modest; more distractive than attractive, and more disgusting than adorable. Your dressing style determines who gets attracted to you most times. If you dress high school, only high school-thinking guys will be attracted to you, and if you dress excessively sexy and provocative, only randy men will come to you for urgent satisfaction of their immediate sex urge, so don’t be fooled by media hyping of certain kinds of dressing, they are meant for kinds of ladies. Remember, not all clothes that look sexy are good for a seriously searching for a soul mate single lady.



12. Your Role Models Are Totally Strange And Bad! If you want to be a great woman tomorrow, start now to emulate great women- study their foot parts, their lifestyle, their ways and try to inculcate their lifestyle into yours. Stop looking up to music stars and fake celebrity ladies, etc as your only role model in life. What happened to looking up to women like- Ngozi Okonjoiweala, Oby Ezekwesili, Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie, Sen. Dabiri, Sang Suu Kyi, Hilary Clinton, Michele Obama, etc? Stop glueing your eyes on fashion TV, Fashion One, Big Brother TV Show, E! etc, and start now....continued....


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Good luck in your search for true love and do have a lovely sunday

You Don’t Bring Any Value Into The Life Of Men You Date or Are Dating- because your best friend married without contributing anything to the man that finally married her, doesn’t mean it will work for you that way. Think, work towards equipping yourself so that you can be a value and also add value to his life to convince him that you are worth committing to. Adding value to his life isn’t by giving him money, or material gifts, nope….good counsels, being his best friend, helping him attain his goals in life, lending him moral, mental and spiritual support, and by not just being a liability that only bring requests and problems to be solved.

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adewasco2k: I think I almost totally agree with the poster! Personally, recently I haven't seen a lot of girls with marriageable attitude....most girls have lost it, they can't differentiate between a guy who wants se.x and a serious guy...they get easy confuse especially when the dude is financially comfortable....if they met such a guy they start going to church praying he settle down with them! Funny enough I met a very perfect girl, but i was not serious, hooked her up with my friend and can't believe they are getting married already..lol...happy for them tho (tho I still wish....)

claremont: I think I'm beginning to fancy this Miss Correction lady!

MissCorrection:

Easily

MissCorrection:

gree-die:

ohmy.... I thought you were a robot? So you have feelings and enjoy compliments and flattery? Wonders...

gree-die:

ohmy.... I thought you were a robot? So you have feelings and enjoy compliments and flattery? Wonders...

12. Your Role Models Are Totally Strange And Bad!

tpia1: the number of single guys on nl is more than the number of single ladies, i think.

why is that?

is it because there's a corresponding ratio of more males than females here?

single meaning not in a relationship and no girlfriend talkless fiancee or wife.

rightlagos: 100 likes for dis wonderful athread. Sadly, many may not want 2 agree wit d bitter truth. D African values keep falling while our youth esp girls keep aping western lifestyle. Many girls are more interested in discussing weird/hot topics than discussing gud family/marital life.

rightlagos: 100 likes for dis wonderful athread. Sadly, many may not want 2 agree wit d bitter truth. D African values keep falling while our youth esp girls keep aping western lifestyle. Many girls are more interested in discussing weird/hot topics than discussing gud family/marital life.

candieangel12: All these NL guys that are always ranting Naija girls did this and Naija girls didnt do this. Nawa ooo, free us joor. Most of una are woman wrapper, coming here to claim rubbish. After complaining, you all will still date and marry Naija girls.