davidylan:

Maybe it is not in your koran but all the OP laid out is what is expected of a husband in the bible. You should read it rather than lumping it together with that murderous book of yours where women are nothing but slaves and property to be used and dumped.

davidylan:
I'm sorry but it appears you have your idea of "leadership" horribly twisted.
Please help me understand how doing things with your wife, affirming your love for her once in a while, cooking for her, opening doors for her, helping her around the house or talking with her diminishes you as a man? How does that affect your position as the power in the home?
I believe strongly that many of you are inherently insecure and need to have your woman cowering under you to feel empowered.
Secondly i dont think you truly understand the bible. If i get you, your point is that the bible enjoins a woman to do all that is on that list for a man but a man doing same for his wife is being a sissy? And you claim to get that from the same bible where Jesus was busy washing the feet of His disciples and asking us to do likewise to our wives? And people wonder why many marriages are nothing but empty shells today. I pity whoever it is you end up with as a wife.
Yes it is true that Sarah called Abraham Lord but i bet you she did it out of deep respect for a husband who led by example. A godly husband who is willing to go above and beyond to make sure his wife is treated like the queen she is wont need to beg his wife to call him Lord...

alj harem:

May I ask what you do for your husband ? The maximum thing you can do for him and is not really for him for you 2 is have a baby for him aka a family, cook for him while cooking for yourself, clean the house for him because you also don't want to live in a dirty house then give him good se.x during your section with him which you also enjoy.

So what exactly do you do for him that is extraordinary ?

But look at what you agreed with the OP in

1. open doors for her

2. cook for her

3. compliment her

4. touch her without expecting more etc

Who has time for that ? on top woman. Your husband might seem loving to you but really to people like me, he is just serving you as in a master slave relationship. Not that my opinion matters

Ogidi-Olu:
Am I the only one that thinks NL's front page topics are just repetitions and are becoming monotonous?

Lexoria:

my hubby does some of the things here and others that aint and I appreciate it a lot,infact I do somethings for him that he knows Is impossible for me to do but I go against all odds to do it just to show my appreciation.

Adikam: After al that samson do for delilah wetin he take pay'am back?after everytin that adam do for eve what did she pay back with?shey na here i hear say a teacher climb mango tree 2 plu mango for her girl & fell down & die the girl die follo'am?..if i tel u what my ex did to me u wount biliv.women are so wicked dat god is regreting why he creat dem they are ingrate i no dey wil be hapi sein d post on front page bt i pity the man who do al dat note dat de day u stop doing it is de day she wil kno dat your luve is fading & look for anoda guy.nonsence girls wey no get respect guys.poster you even forgot to tel us lick dia yash wen'ever dey com out from toilet mtcheew

tintingz: LMFAO! can you show me where Jesus wash a woman's feet, carry her, hug her, cook for her, go to farm for her, buy things for her etc in that your bible. . .since Jesus is a bachelor all his life time how can i get a marraige/family example from him, how do i know the way i should treat my woman from him. . .the muslims knows better in family guides(respect for women) than the christians do

Timijo:


http://voices.yahoo.com/10-things-man-his-wife-all-time-3924044.html

tintingz: LMFAO! can you show me where Jesus wash a woman's feet, carry her, hug her, cook for her, go to farm for her, buy things for her etc in that your bible. . .since Jesus is a bachelor all his life time how can i get a marraige/family example from him, how do i know the way i should treat my woman from him. . .the muslims knows better in family guides(respect for women) than the christians do

e.dynasty:
If i cook for her and do the role of a boy boy what then will she be doing in my life....poster wake up to reality...women hate men who pamper them more than their dad's did. Its a fact!

Thermythorpe: Guys on NL makes me get scared of male folks the more... ¤Very harsh¤

alj harem: All these for a WOMAN ? What are women doing to satisfy men self. Why do men keep satisfying women all the time

acidtalk: I do everything especially number 5.
But human being will always take advantage of those who are too nice and crave for the mean and wicked.

50calibre:

My dear bother, I beg to differ. Yes the Muslims tend to mistreat women that's a fact but for you to say that the bible intstructs husbands to do everything on that list for their wives is misleading and fallacious.

Yes the bible encourages husbands to love and treat their wives well but that list is full of crap. Men are a symbol of position, leadership and power in the family unit and any man who does those things is not a man. As a matter of fact the things on that list are what women should be doing for their husbands according to the bible

For example- the wife of Abraham called him lord how many women today can call their husbands lord.

ireke:
Te Bible enjoins husbands to love their wives like JESUS loved the CHURCH and gave himself for her, to sanctify (clean) her with the washing of the water by the word (Ephesians 5:25-26). The giving of himself for the church (I believe) encompasses this list and more.
(Christian) Husbands are supposed to act like Jesus, yet few do. of course no one is perfect and no husband can perfectly model the behaviour of Christ. The problem however is that many husbands really have no clue how they are supposed to act or what they are supposed to do. Unfortunately, even many women do not know how they ought to be treated.

Step-G:
Bros u sincerely deserve to be given award and named in guiness book of records as the most foolish and recognised low IQ personality of all time.Get a life for yourself and stop that blasphemy before boko haram spirit n that madness in you goes beyond cure.