davidylan:

I'm sorry but it appears you have your idea of "leadership" horribly twisted.

Please help me understand how doing things with your wife, affirming your love for her once in a while, cooking for her, opening doors for her, helping her around the house or talking with her diminishes you as a man? How does that affect your position as the power in the home?

I believe strongly that many of you are inherently insecure and need to have your woman cowering under you to feel empowered.

Secondly i dont think you truly understand the bible. If i get you, your point is that the bible enjoins a woman to do all that is on that list for a man but a man doing same for his wife is being a sissy? And you claim to get
that from the same bible where Jesus was busy washing the feet of His disciples and asking us to do likewise to our wives? And people wonder why many marriages are nothing but empty shells today. I pity whoever it is you end up with as a wife.

Yes it is true that Sarah called Abraham Lord but i bet you she did it out of deep respect for a husband who led by example. A godly husband who is willing to go
above and beyond to make sure his wife is treated like the queen she is wont need to beg his wife to call him Lord...

ominisam: suck her puci,she will forever luv u

e.dynasty:
If i cook for her and do the role of a boy boy what then will she be doing in my life....poster wake up to reality...women hate men who pamper them more than their dad's did. Its a fact!

Lexoria:

my hubby does some of the things here and others that aint and I appreciate it a lot,infact I do somethings for him that he knows Is impossible for me to do but I go against all odds to do it just to show my appreciation.
Any girl who likes mean and wicked needs spiritual,psycological and mental evaluation.Mean and wicked is why I have issues with most nigerian men...they are mean and wicked,especially the ones on this forum.

ceeceeco: Over pampering a woman is not wise else she's gonna take u 4 a ride...Take note guys.

mmmustapha: Dis writer wanna make guys house boys, u will never satisfy. How can u be doing all dis shit alone, r we slaves

SELFWORTH:

Loving your wife and showing you love her by helping in the kitchen is not boy boy. If you have kids, can you not cook for your children when your wife is away? You may be married to the wrong woman but many nigerian women respond to genuine love in all essence not sex motivated love.

Ogidi-Olu:
Am I the only one that thinks NL's front page topics are just repetitions and are becoming monotonous?

Timijo: She is not just a woman, but your wife i.e. part of you.

Cutex01: I disagree with m0st of ur points, haba!! na wetyn nao, if i d0n do all dis boy boy finish y i n0 go turn mumu 4 her face. All those tyns wey u menti0n n0 b 4 guy- man lyk me

Rooneyboy:

U don't seem to get it bro, be it wife, girlfriend, concubine , anything u feel like calling it , a Naija lady would take u for a BIG RIDE if u pamper her this much.

lukaino: I tried No 7 and regretted it because the few things i did to help out automatically became my duties; if i don't do them, nobody does so i stopped doing 'em.

SELFWORTH:


Then marry a man who won't take you for a ride. Is it by force it has to be a woman?

lukaino: I tried No 7 and regretted it because the few things i did to help out automatically became my duties; if i don't do them, nobody does so i stopped doing 'em.

Rooneyboy:

U don't seem to get it bro, be it wife, girlfriend, concubine , anything u feel like calling it , a Naija lady would take u for a BIG RIDE if u pamper her this much.

seedord247: 11. Give her head. If you can do that.. she'd forget the rest.

Rooneyboy:

my point is ,
DON'T PAMPER THEM.

ceeceeco: Over pampering a woman is not wise else she's gonna take u 4 a ride...Take note guys.

Timijo: She is not just a woman, but your wife i.e. part of you.

born2fuck: Cook for her is impossible because I don't even know how to cook, why will men open door for lady when hands is not paining her, most of these mentioned are gbewudani things, why not include watch her pants and bra, oyinbo don turn unda head to kainkain, if I come marry 3 wives nko?

alj harem: All these for a WOMAN ? What are women doing to satisfy men self. Why do men keep satisfying women all the time

honeric01:

Please show us where in the bible it was stated that we should do all that to our wives.. thanks in advance!

SELFWORTH:

Where in the bible does it says woman should do all the things they do for you.

I guess common sense is not common.