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Re: What's With Men And Their 'Cheating Nature'? by manugbo(m): 12:07am On Nov 03, 2012
Shugamania:
Reallyyyy... I need other guys to support this claim.

what are those desires
Re: What's With Men And Their 'Cheating Nature'? by manugbo(m): 12:12am On Nov 03, 2012
Shugamania:
am not accepting, hence we're jumping off together.

HE WILL BE THE ONE TO JUMP INSIDE THE RIVER WHILE I STAY BEHIND
Re: What's With Men And Their 'Cheating Nature'? by jites(m): 12:18am On Nov 03, 2012
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Re: What's With Men And Their 'Cheating Nature'? by Nobody: 12:23am On Nov 03, 2012
jites: I WANT TO CONTRIBUTE........

When u type in capital letters , I promise you no one reads the bullsh*t. In fact my eyes hurt just from staring @ it!! What rubbish?!
Re: What's With Men And Their 'Cheating Nature'? by manugbo(m): 12:25am On Nov 03, 2012
hotwax: Because you go after bad guys because of your sexual urge at that time. You end up marrying dirty guys because you find them sexy and rough (women love sexually rough guys). dirt is in their nature and they can't stop.
Next time go after decent ones.

Looking for six pack and big dickkkk guys. Do you think they are meant for you alone? They are meant for you and other girls out their.

SINCERELY IT DOESNT MATTER THE SIZE OF UR DICK. A CHEAT IS A CHEAT.

INFACT MOST OF THEM ARE NOT EVEN GUD ON BED , BECAUSE THEY HAVE EXHAUSTED THE EXHAUSTIBLES. NA TRUTH I DEY TELL U

THEY RE NOT EVEN CREATIVE INTERMS THAT. INFACT VIAGRA ALL THE WAY OR 2 SECONDS POWER SUPPLY
Re: What's With Men And Their 'Cheating Nature'? by Originalsly: 2:11am On Nov 03, 2012
"...when you finally find one (a man) that doesn't cheat..." hmmm...chances are he is gay. Love it or hate it...you can't change it.... men on earth are prewired to be promiscuous. Few can manage to suppress that desire to yield to temptation...most will cave in at some point...and some like your sister's bf are simply buck wild...have no control valve. That's our nature. You should redirect your vexation to your fellow women who not only increase the temptation by the way they dress... but make their bodies so easily available. Am sure your sister is still clinging to hmmm...Mr Sampler..I wonder why? Don't blame d men.
Re: What's With Men And Their 'Cheating Nature'? by jites(m): 2:13am On Nov 03, 2012
Shollypopz:

When u type in capital letters , I promise you no one reads the bullsh*t. In fact my eyes hurt just from staring @ it!! What rubbish?!
Oh sorry my bad, no more capital letters then. have a good evening everyone
Re: What's With Men And Their 'Cheating Nature'? by coolzeal(m): 2:56am On Nov 03, 2012
I think because men have high testosterone, bored wife/girlfriend, sexual satisfaction. Though these are just my thought and does not give bearing on reality. Hey! women cheat too and they tend to be very secretive about it unlike men and i just saw a video on youtube about how many guys should a Nigerian girl have or date and to my understanding majority said more than one.
Re: What's With Men And Their 'Cheating Nature'? by Nobody: 9:13am On Nov 03, 2012
Where's dat 18th century immatured teenager called la parissiene?? angry angry
Re: What's With Men And Their 'Cheating Nature'? by Mckybarf(m): 10:03am On Nov 03, 2012
Shugamania: Why do men cheat? Why does our society make it seem like it's okay for a man to cheat?? Why do our mothers tell us to turn a blind eye even when all evidences tell the story, and our friends tell us it's just their nature??

Why, when u finally find one that doesn't cheat, does everyone think he's doing the girl a favour? And why do we, the women act all meek and gentle and let them get away with it in the name of love and endurance?

My cousin's gf caught him in the act and he had the guts to tell her during the ensuing argument that he has every right to cheat cos he needs to get as many different girls as he can and compare them before he finally choses the best one to settle down with. I tried talking to him after his girlfriend left and he said ''if i wan buy garri for market sef, i no go taste different ones before i chose the one wey i go buy?'' I was so pissed... I ranted and raved and he just ignored me.

I don't blame him sha, i blame the sexist society we live in...in fact i dey vex!

Men, i need clarifications please, is it that you just find it impossible not to cheat or you enjoy hurting your partners?
the burning desire to dominate is something that is inherent in almost all men and honestly, quite many a man think the way to go about that is throught sex. Such people will jump to bed with anything in skirts just to prove to themselves that indeed they are in control and that their 'autonomous existence' has no limitations. Amazingly, our womenfolk and society kind of accept and conforms to this barbaric notion which only depits jungle life and a lack of civilization. It will interest you to know that, through the ages, the penis has become a symbol of male dominance and anywhere it tends to subdue and lay to waste. Its no surprise to me if men are cheating, though i hate it with my soul.
Re: What's With Men And Their 'Cheating Nature'? by lana1878(m): 10:45am On Nov 03, 2012
Its very simple, the guy or rather let me say boy has not really found that lady that wow's him. he's actually in Lust, so definitely he will continue[b][/b] to lust after every skirts he sees. but when he finds and truly falls in love..no one go tell am nah!! other ladies will irritates him
Re: What's With Men And Their 'Cheating Nature'? by 9jagobetta: 11:52am On Nov 03, 2012
The fact is, it is vice-vasal the men are not cheating with the monkeies, the women are involve, if all the women keep the good profile, the men will keep to thier women, if not what goes around comes around and make a vicious circle. Some women and girls are nymphomaniac and they cheat a lot more than men. Sincerely am not being bias... look at the case of some easternals and thier traditional ethics with women with serious consequential taboo which eventualy help thier society, the women are known for decency and the men are not knoown 4 cheating and so one man one woman is comon in thier mariages. But a man whose religion, customs made to believe he can have many wife will surely cheat the first wife, and many more abuses on little girls (madness) in the claim of the search for more mates for the first wife. The fact is something is wrong with the society like the case of sodom and gomorah. May God help us.
Re: What's With Men And Their 'Cheating Nature'? by Nobody: 6:16pm On Nov 03, 2012
Women and dem Men cheat....blah blah blah palava.....if there is no demand there won't be any supply. Do they cheat with goats ni? No b wit woman
Re: What's With Men And Their 'Cheating Nature'? by Nobody: 6:25pm On Nov 03, 2012
israel ben-zion:

Instead of u to say u don't hv swag u r here claiming maturity and security.
so does swag pay the bills? undecided
Re: What's With Men And Their 'Cheating Nature'? by 19naia(m): 8:05pm On Nov 03, 2012
I am a man and have had more women cheat on me than i have cheated on them...Its humans,not just men...I would like any way for my woman to be pleased even if she needs other man to do so.I can just move on and accept her choice while hopeing she can accept mine...Any swingers in the house?

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Re: What's With Men And Their 'Cheating Nature'? by Danabu(m): 9:26pm On Nov 03, 2012
men dont cheat! double dating or keeping of mistresses is innate and they just dance to nature's music.
come to think of it, if men were to have 14 ribs and one is taken out to make a wife fir each man, that leaves us with 13 ribs each I.e 13 women symbolically represented though one wife is approved.
Re: What's With Men And Their 'Cheating Nature'? by Shugamania(f): 12:20am On Nov 04, 2012
smoothsk: Women and dem Men cheat....blah blah blah palava.....if there is no demand there won't be any supply. Do they cheat with goats ni? No b wit woman

Okay.. Enough with this demand and supply analogy already, if U dont demand something it wont be supplied to you so it's just not working! And let's just say the girl did supply when u werent demanding, you could have easily said no...dat's my argument. Self control.
Stop thinking if the girls dont accept the men's offer they wont cheat, why do the men have to offer in the first place? And if it's the girls that are offering, resist. It's a matter of what you're willing to do and how strong that will really is....goes a lot to show how strong you are as a man.
Re: What's With Men And Their 'Cheating Nature'? by Shugamania(f): 12:23am On Nov 04, 2012
Dan abu: men dont cheat! double dating or keeping of mistresses is innate and they just dance to nature's music.
come to think of it, if men were to have 14 ribs and one is taken out to make a wife fir each man, that leaves us with 13 ribs each I.e 13 women symbolically represented though one wife is approved.
Lmao...this should be in the jokes section.
Re: What's With Men And Their 'Cheating Nature'? by Shugamania(f): 12:29am On Nov 04, 2012
mondi_cheeks:
so does swag pay the bills? undecided
i wonder ooo. And cheating sef don become part of swag, maybe his girlfriend should start having swag too.
Re: What's With Men And Their 'Cheating Nature'? by toluleke(m): 12:50am On Nov 04, 2012
some stupid girls wod come online and post rubbish and d dumb ass moderators wod push it 2 d frontpage.r we here 2discuss family issues or ow has dat affect d price of beans n my area.if you like cheat if you like no cheat na ur own genital organ
Re: What's With Men And Their 'Cheating Nature'? by CalienteMi: 12:51am On Nov 04, 2012
If men cheats and women accept it..they will continue to cheat freely.
Re: What's With Men And Their 'Cheating Nature'? by Shugamania(f): 1:06am On Nov 04, 2012
toluleke: some stupid girls wod come online and post rubbish and d dumb ass moderators wod push it 2 d frontpage.r we here 2discuss family issues or ow has dat affect d price of beans n my area.if you like cheat if you like no cheat na ur own genital organ
Okay, i know intelligence cant be bought so i'll try to explain this to you slowly.. In case you couldnt read properly, this is the romance section. U wanna discuss beans, visit the food section.. It's quite simple. Find your way out of the thread asap and stop spouting your silly, myopic opinion where it isnt wanted. No one forced you to open the thread.

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Re: What's With Men And Their 'Cheating Nature'? by Treasure21: 2:21am On Nov 04, 2012
st.okolie:
i'm not in support of infidelity but we should also ask. who do men cheat with?
Men dont cheat with men (except gays sha.) like bribe both the giver and receiver are equally guity.
No. Not exactly. You can't also label the women guilty for what the cheaters are doing and the fact that they're cheating with them. (the woman) Do you think all these women know that the guy is taken/married. When some married men cheat they prey on other women posing as single men looking for another woman to be with. While the woman is just looking for a guy to date or be in a relationship with, most of the time theyre not aware that the guy they're with is taken or married or even has 3-5 other girls on his list. They're just another victim. Don't you watch "Cheaters" But then in other cases, some women do know and are just men/husband snatchers. But in most cases the women is not always guilty as well for a cheaters wrong doings
Re: What's With Men And Their 'Cheating Nature'? by Obinoscopy(m): 6:20pm On Nov 04, 2012
I'm innocent grin
Re: What's With Men And Their 'Cheating Nature'? by Shugamania(f): 9:13pm On Nov 04, 2012
Obinoscopy: I'm innocent grin

hmmm...coming from a scoper, innocent indeed.
Re: What's With Men And Their 'Cheating Nature'? by Gabrielsylar(m): 9:51pm On Nov 04, 2012
It is womens love for money that escalated dis spree from men.....
Re: What's With Men And Their 'Cheating Nature'? by Obinoscopy(m): 9:55pm On Nov 04, 2012
Shugamania:

hmmm...coming from a scoper, innocent indeed.

Sugar dear, I don't cheat, I only scope wink
Re: What's With Men And Their 'Cheating Nature'? by Shugamania(f): 10:26pm On Nov 04, 2012
Hmmmm.. Na so e dey start.
Re: What's With Men And Their 'Cheating Nature'? by ciphoenix: 11:19pm On Nov 04, 2012
claremont:
Actually, he has a point here grin.
which is?
Re: What's With Men And Their 'Cheating Nature'? by ciphoenix: 11:28pm On Nov 04, 2012
oubi: Yeh
wow@your sig
Re: What's With Men And Their 'Cheating Nature'? by ciphoenix: 11:33pm On Nov 04, 2012
IMO, men who cheat are actually still being children who "cheat" on their toys with other toys. It takes discipline and maturity to stay faithful. #teamFaithful smiley

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Re: What's With Men And Their 'Cheating Nature'? by Shugamania(f): 7:02am On Nov 05, 2012
ciphoenix: IMO, men who cheat are actually still being children who "cheat" on their toys with other toys. It takes discipline and maturity to stay faithful. #teamFaithful smiley
Bravo....thank u!

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