What do you think?

Yes u can change me!

I'm coming, let me copy and paste my previous comments

190-the-clown:
Yes u can change me!

Why should I? Something wrong with you?

abiL*:
I'm coming, let me copy and paste my previous comments

Ok

A woman can never change a man. Not unless the man truly wants to change. Change comes from within.

A great misconception. Some women fall in love with bad guys because the think they can change the guy. Once they realise that they can't, they start to complain about how they've wasted their time on that stagnant relationship.

A woman can defo influence a man to change, but she can't change a man. She can be the reason why the man suddenly wakes up and decides that he wants to change, but she can't force or push him to change.

He might pretend that he has changed just to please her and pull her along in the lane of deception, but unless the man truly wants to change, a woman can do nothing but pray and hope.

[size=28pt]repeat your question sir[/size]

B4 sex, yeas. After sex no

carefreewannabe:

Why should I? Something wrong with you?

Yes I believe in love maybe u can change me 2believe it doesn't exist

going into a relationship with someone you already know does things you don't agree with is your first mistake and trying to change the man will be an up hill battle you will never win

Overflogged!

190-the-clown:



Yes I believe in love maybe u can change me 2believe it doesn't exist

I believe the same. Love does exist. Nothing wrong with you here
Let's not derail the thread.

Like a poster has previously stated, don't get into a relationship in the hope of changing the person.

There are billions of people on this earth, find someone suitable for you, who's close to perfect and doesn't need changing.

...unless he wears diapers, then you need to be changing his pads for him

omega25red: going into a relationship with someone you already know does things you don't agree with is your first mistake and trying to change the man will be an up hill battle you will never win

That makes sense.

yes by prayer and fasting and hope

carefreewannabe:

I believe the same. Love does exist. Nothing wrong with you here
Let's not derail the thread.

OK what about sex can't u help me change that too

Yeah. Most likely negatively!

Una be fool: Yeah. Most likely negatively!

Idowuogbo: Overflogged!

Na by force you comment ni?

D-Explorer:

Na by force you comment ni?

Yeah!

I believe in prayers but instead of being spiritual, lets apply simple logics. In several perspectives a woman can change a man and i will like to solely remain in the context of marriage since we supposedly have a larger percentile of commitment at that level.

Idowuogbo:
Yeah!

Ara e tin ro lenu jo meta yi o. Are you alright at all?

D-Explorer:

Ara e tin ro lenu jo meta yi o. Are you alright at all?

Am ok!

carefreewannabe: What do you think?

A woman changed me from Jeff to Papa Anderson

xynerise:
A woman changed me from Jeff to Papa Anderson

U get choice?

Idowuogbo:
U get choice?

. Nah! Me likey

U mean I have to re-post?? Dang!

gudmind: yes by prayer and fasting and hope

Sir, pls which ori-oke do u recommend? How many yrs fasting will change him? Perhaps u can shed more light cos a lot of ladies are with u in this belief of urs

Idowuogbo:
Am ok!

Live it for as long as it last.

I guess a woman can change a man. But only when the man is a willing party.

abiL*:
A woman can never change a man. Not unless the man truly wants to change. Change comes from within.

A great misconception. Some women fall in love with bad guys because the think they can change the guy. Once they realise that they can't, they start to complain about how they've wasted their time on that stagnant relationship.

A woman can defo influence a man to change, but she can't change a man. She can be the reason why the man suddenly wakes up and decides that he wants to change, but she can't force or push him to change.

He might pretend that he has changed just to please her and pull her along in the lane of deception, but unless the man truly wants to change, a woman can do nothing but pray and hope.

@bolded,
Abil, if am a positive influence to my man changing his odd ways, would it be wrong to say I changed him?

cowgurl:

@bolded,
Abil, if am a positive influence to my man changing his odd ways, would it be wrong to say I changed him?

It won't be wrong, but you didn't change him. He changed himself. You influence that change.

So you were part of the change in his attitude, but not the reason for it.


You prompt him to change, not made him change.



All we can do is influence people to change for the better whilst praying and hoping that they do. Because you can nag, shout and preach from now until kingdom come, if a man or woman hasn't got it in their mind to change, then a change ain't gonna happen.