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Re: Husband Smokes Weed by cashcpt(m): 9:26am On Nov 12, 2012
She should divorce him sharply!foolish woman trying to take his recreational joy away. Smh

Enough women out there to replace her and give the poor guy peace of mind to smoke his weed.
Re: Husband Smokes Weed by KINGwax(m): 9:26am On Nov 12, 2012
Okija_juju: and so what?
Re: Husband Smokes Weed by Nobody: 9:27am On Nov 12, 2012
baddiguy: The Nigerian mentality at work again. Whatever is soooo wrong with smoking weed?? It's a herb for 4uks sake! In the US, a multitude of citizens are entitled to "medical marijuana'" because even medical doctors have realized its good effects and prescribe it to patients. A short while ago in Switzerland, a national vote to legalize weed was narrowly defeated by less than 1% between the yeas and nays. I've been in several countries where it is not uncommon to find mother, father and their teenage children treating themselves to a good weed-smoking session in a play park. It's we Nigerians that take everything to the extreme and now someone is threatening to end a marriage because her husband smokes weed that[b] may be doing his body more good than harm![/b] mcheeeeeeeeeeeeeewwwwwwww
Do not be deceived,leisure weed smoking can never do the body more good than harm, (unless you have a medical condition, and that makes it a risk - benefit affair) That is a very ignorant thing to say.
Now for me, I think the issue at hand is not the actual weed smoking but the fact that he concealed it from her in a marriage that is 5 years old. I say he concealed it, because if he didnt take specific steps to do so, she would have known earlier. And that is the main issue at hand here, if he felt the need to conceal that little habit (which he says is no big deal) for 5 years, who knows what else he will conceal, and is concealing from her when he feels the need. That is the issue that needs to be addressed. A partner that deceives and lies in little things will do so in huge and important things. There needs to be honesty and openness in a relationship for that relationship to be real.

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Re: Husband Smokes Weed by ifyalways(f): 9:27am On Nov 12, 2012
Nothing wrong with an adult smoking weed so long as s/he does not misbehave afterwards. cool cool cool

The only problem i see is a couple that are not true,open and honest to themselves. Why hide your indulgences from the closest person to you undecided

@OP,are you worried cos your man smokes weed or you are worried cos you just noticed ?

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Re: Husband Smokes Weed by Odinaka00(m): 9:28am On Nov 12, 2012
She wants Ť☺ quit her marriage jux becuz she jux found out Ŧħåϯ her hubby smokes weed? This is very funny nd stupid, she should have given you another reasoson y she wants Ť☺ quit her marriage than telling you this crap.....oh! Maybe she wants a man who doesn't smoke nor drink alchohols right? Tell her Ť☺ grow up jor, if she s tired of her marriage let her do d normal thing
Maybe she don get one bobo wey fine pass him hubby or wey get money pass him hubby.....nonsense





#private-jet#

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Re: Husband Smokes Weed by Wilfredng: 9:29am On Nov 12, 2012
Kobojunkie: Her husband smokes weed and she only just discovered this? You mean with the stench and all, he was able to mask it for over 5 years?? Or does your friend need to go get her nose checked? How in the world do you stay intimate with a weed smoker for 5 years without knowing Can someone please explain this one? Or was it his first time or sometime? undecided undecided undecided undecided
Wondering too.
Re: Husband Smokes Weed by SELFWORTH: 9:31am On Nov 12, 2012
You can tell by most of the responses here that none of you have lived with an addict (I.e someone who is dependent on something). It can destroy a whole family talk less of a marriage.

Taking it for leisure or anything else is like playing with fire. How many doctors will prescribe weed for treatment of an ailment . If you are stupid enough to agree to that you should be prescribed weeds please first ask the doctor whether he himself will use it if roles were reversed.

Not everything we desire is good for us. My advice is to seek treatment with your husband as a family. There are rough roads in every marriage . This is your cross bear it with him but don't let it drag you down. Unless an addict wants to quit, there is little you can do to help them. They may end up destroying themselves but don't let them destroy u or your family unit.

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Re: Husband Smokes Weed by Shenez: 9:31am On Nov 12, 2012
Your point know weed smoking is good abi? Anything that work in US cant work here know that. There weather is different from ours, imagine Aboki man smoking weed in hot weather condition it's insane
baddiguy: The Nigerian mentality at work again. Whatever is soooo wrong with smoking weed?? It's a herb for 4uks sake! In the US, a multitude of citizens are entitled to "medical marijuana'" because even medical doctors have realized its good effects and prescribe it to patients. A short while ago in Switzerland, a national vote to legalize weed was narrowly defeated by less than 1% between the yeas and nays. I've been in several countries where it is not uncommon to find mother, father and their teenage children treating themselves to a good weed-smoking session in a play park. It's we Nigerians that take everything to the extreme and now someone is threatening to end a marriage because her husband smokes weed that may be doing his body more good than harm! mcheeeeeeeeeeeeeewwwwwwww
Re: Husband Smokes Weed by Nobody: 9:32am On Nov 12, 2012
Husband smokes weed.....so what?

As a good wife, prepare quality pounded yam with egusi soup and cowleg for him when he gets home and give him good s3x, like they say...never leave a man hungry or Hot!

Discovering he smokes weed now will in no way change the man he has been in the past 5yrs except you make a big fuss out of it
Re: Husband Smokes Weed by Wilfredng: 9:32am On Nov 12, 2012
Odinaka00: She wants Ť☺ quit her marriage jux becuz she jux found out Ŧħåϯ her hubby smokes weed? This is very funny nd stupid, she should have given you another reasoson y she wants Ť☺ quit her marriage than telling you this crap.....oh! Maybe she wants a man who doesn't smoke nor drink alchohols right? Tell her Ť☺ grow up jor, if she s tired of her marriage let her do d normal thing
Maybe she don get one bobo wey fine pass him hubby or wey get money pass him hubby.....nonsense

#private-jet#
LOL, don't mind that lady. She lived with a man for five whole years and just discovering he smokes weed.
Let's talk better thing. Abeg fuel still dey your #Jet#? I wan drive-test am for you.
Re: Husband Smokes Weed by bigboy3: 9:34am On Nov 12, 2012
Lol, whats the big deal....I think she's just ignorant like most Nigerians about weed et al. Madam, you don't have to make a scene out of nothing but if dont feel comfortable about it, read it up on the internet and engage your husband in a proper discussion not based on perception or what people will say or the myth about smoking. He's a full grown man and would have been doing it for years......All the best

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Re: Husband Smokes Weed by ABsI1: 9:34am On Nov 12, 2012
The Bible allows for divorce when adultery is committed. Uncommon sense allows seperation when there is physical abuse or threat to life. Indian Hemp smoking or addiction does not fall into any of these categories. Between,hemp smoking is not as bad as adultery,stealing,looting, homosexuality,idolatory,sorcery, debauchery etc and yet many husbands practice such. Madam approach your issue with prayers,fasting,counselling, wisdom and above all love;for love covers a multitude of sins. 1 love and peace

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Re: Husband Smokes Weed by Nobody: 9:35am On Nov 12, 2012
SELFWORTH: You can tell by most of the responses here that none of you have lived with an addict (I.e someone who is dependent on something). It can destroy a whole family talk less of a marriage.

Taking it for leisure or anything else is like playing with fire. How many doctors will prescribe weed for treatment of an ailment . If you are stupid enough to agree to that you should be prescribed drugs please first ask the doctor whether he himself will use it if the role was reversed.

Nothing everything we desire is good for us. My advice is to seek treatment with your husband as a family. There are rough roads in every marriage . This is your cross bear it with him but don't let it drag you down. Unless an addict wants to quit, there is little you can do to help them. They may end up destroying themselves but don't let them destroy u or your family unit.
pls pump your brakes on advertising your ignorance. world class doctors - the kinds you will never find in Nigeria - routinely prescribe marijuana to their patients on a daily basis, and their national governments have no problem with it! But you, in your infinite wisdom will claim to know better than the doctors and governments. pls take a flight out of 9ja only once and your ignorance will be cured

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Re: Husband Smokes Weed by candieangel12(f): 9:35am On Nov 12, 2012
I see no problem in indulging in recreational weed, the problem here lies in the fact that he concealed it during their marriage. But maybe he concealed it because he knew if she found out, she would make a big deal out of it, the way she is doing now.

My advice: Stay married, work on your marriage's trust/communication issues, and join him and indulge in a blunt occasionally too smiley

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Re: Husband Smokes Weed by ollystic: 9:37am On Nov 12, 2012
She's Married to a Guy that Smokes Occasionally , and I guess that why she's just getting to Know it . I don't See the Reason Why She Should Quit the Marriage If truly She Loves the Guy only if there are other Reasons Why She Wants to Quit . Right Now She Should Rather Concentrate On Using Her Gender Power to make the Guy Stop and Also Pray to God to Touch Him for a total Change .. A bird at Hand is Worth than a Thousand in the Bush , What if She Quits and get Married to an Armed Robber Who Also Pretends he Works a Permanent Night Shift in an Organisation ?? Will she Discover and Quit the marriage as well ?? And She Keeps Going On and On Like that , The Truth is there is No Perfect man Or marriage , You Only Learn to Accommodate Each other And Correct What needs to be Corrected . Let her be Prayerful , May God Help Her .

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Re: Husband Smokes Weed by Nobody: 9:38am On Nov 12, 2012
Shenez: Your point know weed smoking is good abi? Anything that work in US cant work here know that. There weather is different from ours, imagine Aboki man smoking weed in hot weather condition it's insane
it's good to seek and find knowledge. just google search what marijuana is, and what medical marijuana does for people, and you will realise that weather does not even factor into the matter. what ignorance!
Re: Husband Smokes Weed by denitro(m): 9:39am On Nov 12, 2012
hahahaha

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Re: Husband Smokes Weed by naijathings(m): 9:41am On Nov 12, 2012
she has been kissing and hugging and furcking and going out and doing every other thing with this same man and
she don't know he smokes weed? she is not worthy to be called his wife in the first place.
what type of wife would stay married to a weed-man for 5 years and not know that he has been smoking weed?
your friend is telling lies jor. she is just looking for an excuse to leave the marriage.
give a dog a bad name and hang it.. thats what this looks like.
Re: Husband Smokes Weed by Odinaka00(m): 9:42am On Nov 12, 2012
Wilfred_ng:
LOL, don't mind that lady. She lived with a man for five whole years and just discovering he smokes weed.
Let's talk better thing. Abeg fuel still dey your #Jet#? I wan drive-test am for you.


Guy my jet nor dey use fuel, na G-8 I get o, ask some men of........
Re: Husband Smokes Weed by samfibby(m): 9:43am On Nov 12, 2012
If you dont smoke marijuana but admire those that do and would love to indulge in the habit, please say I
Re: Husband Smokes Weed by Nobody: 9:44am On Nov 12, 2012
Your husband is better off smoking weed than you think. Tell him to smoke @ home instead with friends and you will enjoy your husband to the fullest. Weed cannot make him a criminal, a wife beater or rogue. He can only reason better with weeds. 95% of criminals doesn't smoke weed.

Don't let smoking of weed break your home. Find out what makes him smoke weed and let him do it at home. Afterall God created it. Simple

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Re: Husband Smokes Weed by padmoreete2(m): 9:45am On Nov 12, 2012
He or she without sin shud cAst the first stone. Keep ur marriage!
Re: Husband Smokes Weed by SELFWORTH: 9:45am On Nov 12, 2012
A lot of WEAK men are just followers and cannot stand on their own without associating with "friends" who will drag them down. Bad association is also a problem here. Pray that God scatters his circle of "friends" and remove all those people who do not add any value to his life.

I know someone who refused the advice of his wife to seek medical treatment and listened to his so called friends that the pain will go away (don't mind those women jare! ) and went out socialising instead. He was found dead in bed just 3 days later. All his so called friends came to his funeral and haven't been seen since.

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Re: Husband Smokes Weed by Kobojunkie: 9:46am On Nov 12, 2012
candieangel12: I see no problem in indulging in recreational weed, the problem here lies in the fact that he concealed it during their marriage. But maybe he concealed it because he knew if she found out, she would make a big deal out of it, the way she is doing now.

My advice: Stay married, work on your marriage's trust/communication issues, and join him and indulge in a blunt occasionally too smiley

um, to those of you applauding this, just so you know, any thing that gets SMOKE into your lungs is bad for your health and that includes weed. Yes, when you smoke weed, you get carbon into your lungs that potentially kill you.
Smoking is not suddenly good because it is weed that is being smoked. There are consequences and side-effects to even this drug. Let us please do our homework before we blindly elevate that which we should not.

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Re: Husband Smokes Weed by Nobody: 9:46am On Nov 12, 2012
Kobojunkie: Her husband smokes weed and she only just discovered this? You mean with the stench and all, he was able to mask it for over 5 years?? Or does your friend need to go get her nose checked? How in the world do you stay intimate with a weed smoker for 5 years without knowing Can someone please explain this one? Or was it his first time or sometime? undecided undecided undecided undecided

Shows how little you know about marijuana. The smell isn't as bad as cigarettes or alcohol. You can smoke weed, spray a little cologne and it will be as nothing happened.

Again, the man in question only smokes occasionally and when with his friends. Before he gets back home to his wife, the smell would have long gone.


OP, I think his weed smoking poses no threat to her marriage as long as its occasional. Moderation is key. If she's open minded enough, she should enjoy a blunt with him once in a while. That would do wonders for their marriage as the sex will be great.

Again, moderation is key. Keep an open mind. The laws against weed smoking in Nigeria are dead-a.s.s laws.
Re: Husband Smokes Weed by Okijajuju1(m): 9:47am On Nov 12, 2012
jenny78: A friend came crying yesterday,she just discovered that the man she has been married to for five years smokes weed.When she confronted him, he said he only smokes it when he hangs out with his friends and said its no big deal since he does it once in a while.

My friend is very concerned because her hubby blows hot and cold most times and she is worried that this nasty habit of his may be the cause.
She has advised him to seek medical help but he said she is making mountain out of molehill.

She now wants to quit the marriage because she has not been happy and her latest discovery has convinced her more that the marriage is not worth it.

Do you think ,she has made the right decision?


Your friend is a Babylonian LovePeddler.. angry

If her husband somkes weed, its prolly because he needs to let off steam from the stress she gives him.. Weed does nothing but make a smoker happy, hungry and sleepy.. Some women have irresponsible men, some have chronic womanizers, some have wife-beaters.. She has a good man who smokes weed and she wants to leave...

Tell her to f`uck off and save the poor man some stress.. angry
Re: Husband Smokes Weed by Nobody: 9:48am On Nov 12, 2012
P.U.S.H:
Your husband is better off smoking weed than you think. Tell him to smoke @ home instead with friends and you will enjoy your husband to the fullest. Weed cannot make him a criminal, a wife beater or rogue. He can only reason better with weeds. 95% of criminals doesn't smoke weed.

Don't let smoking of weed break your home. Find out what makes him smoke weed and let him do it at home. Afterall God created it. Simple
Thank you very much. You have made quite some sense in your post. However, I must disagree with your statistic. I think that, on the contrary, 95% of criminals - most especially in Nigeria - smoke weed. This is the reason for the antagonism and ignorant hostility toward weed smokers. Because most criminals and agberos smoke weed, the Nigerian generalization is that anyone who smokes weed must be either a criminal/agbero, or on his way to becoming a criminal/agbero. Foul libel! Monstrous untruth! A great misconception.
Re: Husband Smokes Weed by Kobojunkie: 9:49am On Nov 12, 2012
TouchDown:

Shows how little you know about marijuana. The smell isn't as bad as cigarettes or alcohol. You can smoke weed, spray a little cologne and it will be as nothing happened.

For the statement above, I would take a bat to your head. How dare you come on here to tell this dumbfuckery of a lie? Marijuana that can smell as bad as skunk. . . this dingbat here DAREs to tell us is not as bad as . . . . undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided

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Re: Husband Smokes Weed by Odinaka00(m): 9:49am On Nov 12, 2012
@op, pls nairaland site is nt a site 4 kids or dumb peepz....ther re many wise people in here k? Hw can ♈☺uЯ friend (you) intend quiting her 5yrs marriage after discovering that her hubby smokes weed? Pls tell us another story
Or rather next topic pls







#privet-jet#
Re: Husband Smokes Weed by Revolva(m): 9:52am On Nov 12, 2012
She should shut up what's bad in smoking weed abi if the hubby wan poke am don't she know weed gives morale and stamina - hyppocrite lady
Re: Husband Smokes Weed by Okijajuju1(m): 9:52am On Nov 12, 2012
Kobojunkie:

For the statement above, I would take a bat to your head. How dare you come on here to tell this dumbfuckery of a lie? Marijuana that smells as bad as skunk, this dingbat here DAREs to tell us is not as bad as . . . . undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided

You may wanna take that bat to your own head..

Weed definitely dosent smell like a skunk.. If your weed smells like a skunk, your dealer prolly just sold you a pile of horse shiit not weed..


Pass me the rizla..

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Re: Husband Smokes Weed by rbatty: 9:52am On Nov 12, 2012
azpekuliar:

Surely, she just smoked a quick wrap before posting that.



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