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Marriage: A Necessity Or A Tradition by Duduconfirm: 8:36am On Nov 14, 2012 |
How do you view marriage is it a necessity, tradition, all or none of the above |
Re: Marriage: A Necessity Or A Tradition by lecturerdabo(m): 8:44am On Nov 14, 2012 |
Duduconfirm: How do you view marriage is it a necessity, tradition, all or none of the above NONE OF THE ABOVE 1 Like |
Re: Marriage: A Necessity Or A Tradition by Nobody: 9:33am On Nov 14, 2012 |
Duduconfirm: How do you view marriage is it a necessity, tradition, all or none of the above Well, I would say it is a necessity for those wanting to know themselves well through the inner animus and anima that connects to the personified soul (Jung and His Disciple's Theorem not mine). Quoting from a book by John Sanford, The Invisible Partners (How the male and female in each of us affects our relationships) Adolf Guggenbulh-Craig has pointed out, this is particularly likely to occur in most culture, where marriage is perceived in terms of what he calls "well-being" rather than "salvation." To view marriage in terms of well-being means that we marry with the thought that this will lead us to happiness, satisfaction, and a feeling of peace and plenitude. To view marriage in terms of salvation means that we see marriage as one possible path to self-knowledge and individuation. In marriage, two people bump up against each other's area of unconsciousness, which affords them an opportunity to become aware of personal qualities or habits that they see only when their partners in the experience of daily living object to them. |
Re: Marriage: A Necessity Or A Tradition by Mynd44: 9:48am On Nov 14, 2012 |
None of the above jorh |
Re: Marriage: A Necessity Or A Tradition by InkedNerd(f): 6:23pm On Nov 14, 2012 |
Personally, I'd say none of the above. The concept of marriage is one that tends to stem from social construct. Is it a nice felling to know that there is someone who will be with you through thick and thin? Indeed it is nice but you don't need an institutional, social, or religious (yes, I know religion wasn't mentioned) concept to really enable to have a feeling of personal higher existence. 2 Likes |
Re: Marriage: A Necessity Or A Tradition by Idowuogbo(f): 6:25pm On Nov 14, 2012 |
Inked_Nerd: Personally, I'd say none of the above. The concept of marriage is one that tends to stem from social construct. Is it a nice felling to know that there is someone who will be with you through thick and thin? Indeed it is nice but you don't need an institutional, social, or religious (yes, I know religion wasn't mentioned) concept to really enable to have a feeling of personal higher existence.Inkyyyyyyyyy!!!!! * In her Bronx accent* Gawd gal!! Wia u bin? |
Re: Marriage: A Necessity Or A Tradition by Nobody: 6:31pm On Nov 14, 2012 |
Not a necessity. Tradition or not, I dont give a damn. My family already learned to mind their business when it comes to my affair. I've been nipping the buds of all these traditional and cultural expectations. 1 Like |
Re: Marriage: A Necessity Or A Tradition by InkedNerd(f): 11:25pm On Nov 14, 2012 |
Idowuogbo:lol just been busy. Nairaland got kinda wack so I left. I was in class so I decided to kill time so I logged on to see what's new. What'd I miss girl? |
Re: Marriage: A Necessity Or A Tradition by Andrew3(m): 4:23pm On Nov 15, 2012 |
Show this thread to my grand child seeking mom |
Re: Marriage: A Necessity Or A Tradition by Afam4eva(m): 4:27pm On Nov 15, 2012 |
It's a Tradition and not a necessity. It's not by force to get married. |
Re: Marriage: A Necessity Or A Tradition by bory09(m): 4:28pm On Nov 15, 2012 |
Marriage is simply God wish to mankind. I mean marriage before pregnancy not marriage after three children |
Re: Marriage: A Necessity Or A Tradition by Nobody: 4:28pm On Nov 15, 2012 |
Both!! |
Re: Marriage: A Necessity Or A Tradition by Nobody: 4:29pm On Nov 15, 2012 |
Its a license to have free legal puccy to fvck,so its a Necessity to me.all the use of postinor 2 for her will stop. |
Re: Marriage: A Necessity Or A Tradition by Nobody: 4:30pm On Nov 15, 2012 |
None of the Above. BUT you don't just wanna come to Planet Earth, drink a couple of beers and Die, Just like that, do you? IMO, it's a decision. |
Re: Marriage: A Necessity Or A Tradition by Nobody: 4:31pm On Nov 15, 2012 |
ledafaze: Replace the word marriage with the word relationship and you'll see that it doesn't take marriage for the uncociousness to be revealed. |
Re: Marriage: A Necessity Or A Tradition by Ayoobscom(m): 4:32pm On Nov 15, 2012 |
God's commandments for man's procreation and reputation automatically it becomes a necessary tradition |
Re: Marriage: A Necessity Or A Tradition by engrtee(f): 4:33pm On Nov 15, 2012 |
BY FORCE |
Re: Marriage: A Necessity Or A Tradition by duni04(m): 4:33pm On Nov 15, 2012 |
unnecessary and thankfully fading tradition 1 Like |
Re: Marriage: A Necessity Or A Tradition by Nobody: 4:34pm On Nov 15, 2012 |
Ayoobscom: God's commandments for man's procreation and reputation automatically it becomes a necessary tradition If you leave religious aspects out of it, you'll see that it is NOT a necessary tradition |
Re: Marriage: A Necessity Or A Tradition by babyluvmeu: 4:39pm On Nov 15, 2012 |
ALL OF THE ABOVE. IS THERE ANY WOMAN THAT WISH TO REMAIN IN HER MOTHER'S KITCHEN 4EVER? EVEN IN THE (BIBLE) IT IS WRITTEN, THAT A MAN WILL LIVE HIS FATHER'S HOUSE AND JOIN TO HIS WIFE AND THEY SHALL BECOME I FLESH. 1 WHO FINDS A WIFE FINDS A GOOD THING, AND HAS OBTAIN FAVOUR FROM THE LORD.................. 1 Like |
Re: Marriage: A Necessity Or A Tradition by Anubiri(m): 4:40pm On Nov 15, 2012 |
Marriage is a personal issue...as it stands nw am tired of women I wana be a Rev. Father |
Re: Marriage: A Necessity Or A Tradition by Nobody: 4:42pm On Nov 15, 2012 |
Marriage was a product of human consciousness at the time it was created to enhance morality.. However, whether it's a necessity, or a tradition depends on an individual's thought process, the society he/she lives in, and his/her belief system.. |
Re: Marriage: A Necessity Or A Tradition by badlaw(f): 4:43pm On Nov 15, 2012 |
not a most and not important for life to be complete.accept for those who need it |
Re: Marriage: A Necessity Or A Tradition by yemizus: 4:46pm On Nov 15, 2012 |
Marriage is neither necessity nor tradition but the coming together of two people in love who plan to share their lives together in sickness,health, richness and poverty and to forsake All others |
Re: Marriage: A Necessity Or A Tradition by Nobody: 4:47pm On Nov 15, 2012 |
yemizus: Marriage is neither necessity nor tradition but the coming together of two people in love who plan to share their lives together in sickness,health, richness and poverty and to forsake All others can be done without a marriage ceremony ... 1 Like |
Re: Marriage: A Necessity Or A Tradition by buoye1(m): 4:51pm On Nov 15, 2012 |
A commandment frm above |
Re: Marriage: A Necessity Or A Tradition by a1solution: 4:56pm On Nov 15, 2012 |
For me its not a necesity bt but people believed it to be so. |
Re: Marriage: A Necessity Or A Tradition by Dopefiend(m): 5:07pm On Nov 15, 2012 |
Societal pressure 1 Like |
Re: Marriage: A Necessity Or A Tradition by Mynd44: 5:10pm On Nov 15, 2012 |
Religious folks will love to jump at this and say it is compulsory but some people are not just fit to be partners as they will just make that person miserable. 1 Like |
Re: Marriage: A Necessity Or A Tradition by Iaz93: 5:18pm On Nov 15, 2012 |
Mynd_44: Religious folks will love to jump at this and say it is compulsory but some people are not just fit to be partners as they will just make that person miserable.GBAM!!! This is it! 1 Like |
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