Underlying assumptions:
1. This is a date you must honour.
2. Physical attraction exists.
3. There is every possibility that if the date gets a lil bit intimate, you could lose yourself in the pleasure.

So i coined this from the movie 'Act like a woman, think like a man'. If you haven't see it, Megan Good had a date with a really hot guy she didn't wanna have any intimacy with other than the usual kisses..so she decided to wear the 'grandma' bra(which wld be too embarrassing to have d guy see) on each date as her special 'fail safe' in case things started going to far.

Question:
if you found yourself on a hot date with a hot guy or girl as the case may be; and for reasons best known to you, you wanna avoid getting too intimate, what measures would you employ ( physically or mentally) as your special get-back-to-reality jolt, if your selfwill was begining to fail you?

P.S. No matter how extremely 'perfect' you think you are, plz give your replies based on the assumptions. Thank you .

1. Never agree to meet in a private place.
2. Your meetings should be nearer your end than his.
3.Avoid discussing arousing topics

Question:
if you found yourself on a hot date with a hot guy or girl as the case may be; and for reasons best known to you, you wanna avoid getting too intimate, what measures would you employ ( physically or mentally) as your special get-back-to-reality jolt, if your selfwill was begining to fail you?

The best method is AVOID THE DATE. Nigerian girls: Do not go around eating pizzas, cow tail, crocodile belly because you think its AWOOF..
Wetin be "date" self ?? Don't you have a STABLE MAN ??

acidosis™:


The best method is AVOID THE DATE. Nigerian girls: Do not go around eating pizzas, cow tail, crocodile belly because you think its AWOOF..
Wetin be "date" self ?? Don't you have a STABLE MAN ??

sharrap joor u n ur naija girls thing. Don't u understand English anymore? Abi u no get answer to give? Oya go back and read the post again; this time read EVERYTHING esp the assumptions properly and come back with an answer based on what you'll do as a guy in this situation, not as a girl.

acidosis™:

Wetin be "date" self ?? Don't you have a STABLE MAN ??

assumption 4:
you're working towards making this person ur stable guy/girl.

1. Have the date in an open, friendly environment. Don't be alone with him in an intimate setting.

2. Fight the temptation.

Go with a chaperone.

Avoid the date.

Or just eat in broad daylight, make small chitchat and go home.

uj_sizzle:

assumption 4:
you're working towards making this person ur stable guy/girl.

I'll put on a 1980 made suit.. a google like that of Baba-sala and I'll hire a Bintu vehicle (1904 edition). That way she won't spend a minute with me (affection will fade in a sec). You know, 9ja girls love fancy things..

Odunnu: 1. Never agree to meet in a private place.
2. Your meetings should be nearer your end than his.
3.Avoid discussing arousing topics

I would agree with odunnu...

Prevention they say is better than cure...If I don't feel like sleeping with my date, I would avoid us being together in private....or discussing sexua1ity...we would have fun, say some jokes, a warm hum, and that would be all.

acidosis™:


I'll put on a 1980 made suit.. a google like that of Baba-sala and I'll hire a Bintu vehicle (1904 edition). That way she won't spend a minute with me (affection will fade in a sec). You know, 9ja girls love fancy things..

lol what happens to the attraction on your part? Is your bintu n 1900s coat 'sposed to turn u off too?

uj_sizzle:
lol what happens to the attraction on your part? Is your bintu n 1900s coat 'sposed to turn u off too?

She won't be able to stand my appearance no matter how hard I try..

No how you get get intimate if you aren't prepared to be too comfortable on the date.
If you must go on the date then make sure the date is at a public place and under no circumstances should it extend to either party's abode.

You don't fight temptation, you simply avoid it.

You don't go to war if you don't wanna die. Same principle

acidosis™:

She won't be able to stand my appearance no matter how hard I try..

lemme see if i understand this....

You'll try to get her unattracted to you, to kill your attraction to her.
Am i right?

uj_sizzle:
lemme see if i understand this....

You'll try to get her unattracted to you, to kill your attraction to her.
Am i right?

yep you're right

jay bee: No how you get get intimate if you aren't prepared to be too comfortable on the date.
If you must go on the date then make sure the date is at a public place and under no circumstances should it extend to either party's abode.

You don't fight temptation, you simply avoid it.

You don't go to war if you don't wanna die. Same principle

he said it all for the normal guys anyway. I don't see why I should have precautions when there's a word called NO so far you've made up your mind

must every date lead to s.ex anyway.

just say its a booty call, not a date.

jay bee: No how you get get intimate if you aren't prepared to be too comfortable on the date.
If you must go on the date then make sure the date is at a public place and under no circumstances should it extend to either party's abode.

You don't fight temptation, you simply avoid it.

You don't go to war if you don't wanna die. Same principle

Sometimes, you don't plan on being alone with a guy but it happens!
I was on a date with a guy. It was public and stuff.
He had to see me off and suddenly, we were alone. Just when I was leaving him, he asked me to close my eyes (yeah corny, I know). I knew he wanted to plant one on me. And it wasn't a road I wanted to go, no matter how attracted to him I was.

That is an instance where you have to resist the temptation and say 'goodbye'!

tpia1: must every date lead to s.ex anyway.

just say its a booty call, not a date.

it may not necessarily be s.ex n it's certainly not a bootycall.

Smh

190-the-clown:
Smh

You just had to show up even when you had nothing to say.

uj_sizzle:
You just had to show up even when you had nothing to say.

And u expect me 2give an advice dat would be detrimental 2me

@ezzy e
Don't you have friends on facebook? Seems a quicker way than doing this....
Wish you all the best with it though. Hope you get the grant...

190-the-clown:


And u expect me 2give an advice dat would be detrimental 2me

how is this supposed to be detrimental to you? You're simply supposed to say what u'd do if u found urself in a situation like that , unless ofcourse u make it a habit of getting intimate with every girl you have a date with.

Odunnu: 1. Never agree to meet in a private place.
2. Your meetings should be nearer your end than his.
3.Avoid discussing arousing topics

Gbam! UJ! U hia? Don't discuss Spartacus o!

Idowuogbo:
Gbam! UJ! U hia? Don't discuss Spartacus o!

lmao dis gehl sef

Hmmm. I'd bring my parents along on the date, maybe a double date for all 4 us.

candieangel12: Hmmm. I'd bring my parents along on the date, maybe a double date for all 4 us.

Include ur grandma and grandpa na! Shebi na reunion

lola.luv:


Sometimes, you don't plan on being alone with a guy but it happens!
I was on a date with a guy. It was public and stuff.
He had to see me off and suddenly, we were alone. Just when I was leaving him, he asked me to close my eyes (yeah corny, I know). I knew he wanted to plant one on me. And it wasn't a road I wanted to go, no matter how attracted to him I was.

That is an instance where you have to resist the temptation and say 'goodbye'!

u cant be alone suddenly....

Idowuogbo:
Include ur grandma and grandpa na! Shebi na reunion

GBAM! U got it right. That way we no fit hold hand self.

candieangel12:
GBAM! U got it right. That way we no fit hold hand self.

U need rehab I swear! Werey!!!

goofie:

u cant be alone suddenly....

Yes, we were!
I know you want me to elaborate...