@ OP, you said things. and you only mentioned "washing clothes" for the first 95%. what are the other things.

u seem angry, where you washing clothes for a wrong dude, or your friend.

as for me, its simple. if she aint a wife b4 marriage, she aint gonna be one after marriage. simple. some guys appreciate wife materials. dont generalize, just cos one did that to u, dont mean all think like that.

i wont want my gf to wash my clothes anyways.if she offers, i would say no, but will know she is a wife and treat her with honor. simple.

Can mondi_cheeks and sagamite stop making noise

In my opinion, if u aren't a lazy woman with the proper upbringing, doing chores shouldn't pose a problem. What's the big deal in washing clothes or cooking for the person you claim to love?
I thought dating was about testing whether you and your partner are compatible or not? If you act like a girlfriend then you probably might remain a girlfriend and vice versa.

My opinion though

Do whatever makes you happy but just don't let him/her take you for granted, urgh, there's nothing worse

Choicegirl: In my opinion, if u aren't a lazy woman with the proper upbringing, doing chores shouldn't pose a problem. What's the big deal in washing clothes or cooking for the person you claim to love?
I thought dating was about testing whether you and your partner are compatible or not? If you act like a girlfriend then you probably might remain a girlfriend and vice versa.

My opinion though

you re really a choice girl jare. i pronounce you my sister at large on NL

P4VS20:

you re really a choice girl jare. i pronounce you my sister at large on NL

Lol

P4VS20:

the earlier u know mondi, the better, she's just working u off. am sure she's laughing her head off everytime she pushes your button n you blow-off. if u stop replying she will stop. try that.

the other powerpuff girl has appeared

mondi_cheeks: the other powerpuff girl has appeared

zzzzzz!

slimming: wisdom is profitable to direct.

thumb up man short and precise. If a gal is well schooled from home, all this will be nothing to her. Jes dat y'all ladies are pack of lazy hands seeking equities with men. B4 ur bf start dating you did he not do his laundry? If u did help him, thank u and if u didnt then Bleep the heck off ma'dea

Op! Just tell him 2 buy a washing machine since u saving ur energy for marraige. Hope u won't need a sex machine soon nyways

@O.P. Gud one, but i tink u r quite bias n 'unknwledgeable' abt wat i relatnshp s al abt. Wen i was readin ds, i was xpectin just like odas wisdm nugets dat wl help people v a beta relatnshp bt al i c was anger, resentment n complainin. I 100% agre wt ur point bt d way n maner u wrote it was 2 personal

lol....

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Well you have poured out you philosophy about this but i sincerely think your blunt advice may crash many relationship in the name of " The EGO of a woman( made for the purpose of helping a responsible man )"
Its not too proper for a guy to expect his girlfriend to become a washing machine in the name of getting married to him or been a good wife
but you talked about been a Bachelor, yes he should do things himself but the girl should not expect a bachelor to spend his money on weeveon and buying all manner of stuff in the name of been a responsible guy.....by your ideology the guy should wait until marriage before taking responsibility

Many young people get this wrong; DATING AND COURTING
Until you are mature dont court

@op, no doubt u r still very young! U will nt be more than 23 years old. I sabi una well well. Always very stubborn n rude. 7 years from now, u will open anoda thread wit d topic ''things to do to attract good husband'' u silly t.w.a.t! I pity dose wey go follow ur rotten advice!

i love this