For example, before some female are employed in Naija, the man in-charge of recruitment/boss has to shag before given a job, if she refuses, she will be asked to look for job elsewhere. BUT IS THIS SUPPOSE TO BE SO?

jintujinta:

Well, I don't know o. But all the same i have a question that i can not open another thread for.

Do male secretaries also sleep with their female bosses?

Aladunni:

A female secretary that sleeps with her boss:

will do the same as a marketer to get customers for her organisation.

will do the same as a cleaner to be favoured by staff within the company.

will do the same as a student to sail through school.

will do the same as an officer in any organisation to be promoted.

in short she had been and would still be anything to get her desires

have done and will do anything to get to the top.

I have been a secretary/personal assistant with nothing less than 7 years of work experience in 5 different organisations. I had cause to work for male bosses in all these years. The ones that were randy were done away with ASAP without my giving a single thought to what they paid or condition of service they would likely offer if i agreed to the deal.

Be very good at what you do as a secretary or personal assistant, don't lazy around, be firm in your decisions for your boss and you will see that no matter how unreasonable he is, he will rather look outside because your conduct will likely make you a forbidden fruit for him. If he is the crazy type that cannot reason then run

I hope secretaries in the career section are still alive in Nairaland.

MyPeace where art thou

gentledove:



May God have mercy on us.

gentledove:

Why is this perception about female secretaries so much?? i am an administrative manager and i know what it takes to work for a male boss. i worked as an IT with one male boss in a reputable bank (name withheld) and sincerely it was something else. i give the guy tissue paper to clean up, pay the ladies N1,500 then way back in 1999. he gives me N5,000 everyday to pay ladies. i keep the remaining N500 to myself as egunje.

It got to a time he offered me N80,000 to sleep with him. i tore the check and walked out of the bank. thank God say i be IT. what is the conclusion of the whole story now? he has being sacked for womanizing. the MD/CEO caught him sleeping with his daughter on the office table. it was a serious matter. i guess they forgot to lock the door. imagine the shame on a Monday morning at 8.30am. he was sacked and a new Personnel Manager was employed.

it all depends on the individual. for the fact that one person slept with her boss does not mean ladies do that. i think another factor that contributes to this is the fact that they spend close to 10 hours together and you see each other everyday. also, the men should discipline themselves and the lady should stop harrassing men with their improper mode of dressing.

May God have mercy on us.

MyPeace:

@ Aladunni

You said it well. There are issues l don't try arguing. Sleeping with bossess is not peculiar to secretaries alone. Cleaners, marketers, nurses do so too. lts an individual thing and should not be generalised.

babylar:

stop exaggerating, things are not always what they seem

efuah:

Thank you my sister!

Some low self esteem secretaries do! Some materialistic ones also do! Those that believes not that favour, blessing n prosperity lies in the Mighty hands of God also does, thinking the boss can do better "than" God!

I am a boss in my firm too. . . all my subordinates are males except one lady. For the guys, they dare not throw a wink at me, talk of a date giving birth to sex!!

faketan:

if they throw a wink wetin go happen?

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faketan:

if they throw a wink wetin go happen?

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Question

MyPeace:

Answer = Sack letter