based on recent study-why

But i thought you said you're attractive and get asked out by good looking men.

I disagree wit dis topic wit every single calcium in ma bone. Except u aint as attractive as u asumed.

tpia1: But i thought you said you're attractive and get asked out by good looking men.

only few

onlia can you post a link, or is this just ur observation?

onila: based on recent study-why

link to study pls? Thanks...i have my guess to the question though.

tpia1: But i thought you said you're attractive and get asked out by good looking men.

Self-contradiction my bruv...

Yet another assertion..

dmcdad:

Self-contradiction my bruv...

More like sis

onila: based on recent study-why

hey check out this poem..
Onila claims she's attractive ..
But Lovely guys don't ask her out..
onila now is frustrated..
suicide ebbs out her life!

KINGwax:
hey check out this poem..
Onila claims she's attractive ..
But Lovely guys don't ask her out..
onila now is frustrated..
suicide ebbs out her life!

:-| ? ? ?

the man in question should stop chasing shadows and face his front.

women dey there, and they're waiting for you.

Mynd_44:
More like sis

I see...

dmcdad:

I see...

That's good

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if you're too handsome then look for something else to occupy your time so you dont turn narcissistic. And also so you dont have issues with haters.

didnt make sense of your write up but its true excessively beautiful girls tend to get taken by rich, not so excessively beautiful men.

love_life:

That study may just prove to be correct! And the answer to your question is EGO. It's usually the case that "attractive" people (i.e. Facially beautiful, drop-dead gorgeous, jaw-dropping looks etc) have big egos along such lines of beauty, and so there's naturally a problem in terms of ego supremacy. The girl believes she's so beautiful (everyone tells her that) and so she would tend to subconsciously behave in a way that men should "worship" her ego and bow to her beauty, which of course is the normal thing that average looks and below guys would queue up to do, except the guy that is also very handsome with eye-popping beauty. Such a man has his own beauty ego and is very confident about his looks and believes it should be the other way round, and girls should "worship" his beauty, and of course they do -girls with ordinary looks of course. And so there you have it, pretty girl usually will not "bow" for pretty guy and pretty guy won't "worship" pretty girl, and so in the end, the usual vase is that they just walk away and avoid eachother and go bask in the praise and infatuations of those who are crazy (literally sometimes) about their stunning looks.

I'll use myself as an example. I'm not boasting here or anything like that but the fact is i'm a very handsome guy -heard that all my life till now. Now I don't chase after women, never did! In fact, I don't know how to do it and it really amazes me when I see some other guys chase women as if they're oxygen and their lives depend on having them. All the relationships i've had so far, though few, I was chased and didn't do the chasing. But the truth is it's a PROBLEM, an ego problem and it can be disheartening sometimes especially when you realize that you're so handsome and "ugly" girls (sorry for my use of this word; no abuse or taunt is intended whatsoever) keep chasing you but then the extremely naturally pretty ones get taken by "ugly" guys -very rich ugly guys of course!

True. I've been in same position before when I was much younger & was pretty pre-occupied with the swag thing. Expensive designer clothes,expensive watches,perfumes,sunshades,etc & I also got d height(almost 6,3". Always having girls ask me out & it still happens now but not as frequent as before. Made my Ego pretty big & I loved forming for fine girls way back. Fine boys think they're too fine & as such(sometimes),do not feel they should bring themselves down. Pretty girls feel too pretty & feel all guys should fall for them. Ugly boys have nothing to lose & sometimes,end up with the fine gals when the fine gals got no one wooing them. Ego is just the thing.

All my handsome cousins are married to (not dating o) sexy, hot pretty ladies.
It is only the ones with ego issues and low self esteem that run away from hot girls.
There are MANY smoking hot ladies out there that make excellent wives. It's only for the men to know where and what button to press to activate this.
Do a more careful study and see

tpia1: if you're too handsome then look for something else to occupy your time so you dont turn narcissistic. And also so you dont have issues with haters.

Yup

onila: based on recent study-why

Just wanna ask as a lady which turns you on handsome and sexy or ugly and not sexy?

Sweetlemon: All my handsome cousins are married to (not dating o) sexy, hot pretty ladies.
It is only the ones with ego issues and low self esteem that run away from hot girls.
There are MANY smoking hot ladies out there that make excellent wives. It's only for the men to know where and what button to press to activate this.
Do a more careful study and see

On point dearie.

love_life:

That study may just prove to be correct! And the answer to your question is EGO. It's usually the case that "attractive" people (i.e. Facially beautiful, drop-dead gorgeous, jaw-dropping looks etc) have big egos along such lines of beauty, and so there's naturally a problem in terms of ego supremacy. The girl believes she's so beautiful (everyone tells her that) and so she would tend to subconsciously behave in a way that men should "worship" her ego and bow to her beauty, which of course is the normal thing that average looks and below guys would queue up to do, except the guy that is also very handsome with eye-popping beauty. Such a man has his own beauty ego and is very confident about his looks and believes it should be the other way round, and girls should "worship" his beauty, and of course they do -girls with ordinary looks of course. And so there you have it, pretty girl usually will not "bow" for pretty guy and pretty guy won't "worship" pretty girl, and so in the end, the usual vase is that they just walk away and avoid eachother and go bask in the praise and infatuations of those who are crazy (literally sometimes) about their stunning looks.

I'll use myself as an example. I'm not boasting here or anything like that but the fact is i'm a very handsome guy -heard that all my life till now. Now I don't chase after women, never did! In fact, I don't know how to do it and it really amazes me when I see some other guys chase women as if they're oxygen and their lives depend on having them. All the relationships i've had so far, though few, I was chased and didn't do the chasing. But the truth is it's a PROBLEM, an ego problem and it can be disheartening sometimes especially when you realize that you're so handsome and "ugly" girls (sorry for my use of this word; no abuse or taunt is intended whatsoever) keep chasing you but then the extremely naturally pretty ones get taken by "ugly" guys -very rich ugly guys of course!

hhehhehehehhehe I luv people like this. anyway I luv your write up you have some point but the main point is that the not so good looking guys (depends on your taste) have everything going for them expect the look. They are super confident, amazing swag, very stylish, very intelligent, funny as hell, down right amazing in bed. Biggest di..cks, they are the bad boys with the no nonsense attitude. Pretty girls run after them they don't run after pretty girls. You got it all wrong there my friend, maybe where you live not where I live. I have personally turned down a really really handsome guy for someone that was just ok because they had all the above I just listed.

Men are the one that are more particular about look because lets face it, women are like accessory to men. You want them to be beautiful if you want to show them off. A man may settle for a dumb pretty woman but a woman will rarely settle for a dumb handsome man.

As for us women, we don't care much about what people will say, or what society will think, if hes good to us and have the qualities we want, we are in.

Beside if I am incredibly attracted towards him (even if hes your definition of average or below average) and he make me moist just by the sight of him who needs a hrithik roshan lookalike?

I think you have upset Rokiatu somehow

Reason being- Intimidation. With the stereotypes in place it's really hard for pretty woman.

Went out with a guy mate during the weekend, he saw this pretty girl but he didn't make a move because he said she may brush him off.

Typical stereotype.

Don't judge a book by it's cover.

Pretty girls are usually more down to earth than their opposite counterparts.

But anyway, i don't believe this study. People end up with people around there same attractiveness level. I personally believe 7.5 to 8 is the sweet spot for female beauty.

The way i see it a 10 is not going to feel any better than a 7.5 if you know what i mean

Are Nigerian girls even attractive themselves

rokiatu:

hhehhehehehhehe I luv people like this. anyway I luv your write up you have some point but the main point is that the not so good looking guys (depends on your taste) have everything going for them expect the look. They are super confident, amazing swag, very stylish, very intelligent, funny as hell, down right amazing in bed. Biggest di..cks, they are the bad boys with the no nonsense attitude. Pretty girls run after them they don't run after pretty girls. You got it all wrong there my friend, maybe where you live not where I live. I have personally turned down a really really handsome guy for someone that was just ok because they had all the above I just listed.

Men are the one that are more particular about look because lets face it, women are like accessory to men. You want them to be beautiful if you want to show them off. A man may settle for a dumb pretty woman but a woman will rarely settle for a dumb handsome man.

As for us women, we don't care much about what people will say, or what society will think, if hes good to us and have the qualities we want, we are in.

Beside if I am incredibly attracted towards him (even if hes your definition of average or below average) and he make me moist just by the sight of him who needs a hrithik roshan lookalike?

Perhaps you haven't seen good looking guys who're confident, got swag, funny, intelligent . . . With big dícks too. They are everywhere!

J12:
Perhaps you haven't seen good looking guys who're confident, got swag, funny, intelligent . . . With big dícks too. They are everywhere!

Bros why you dey announce me na?

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KINGwax:
hey check out this poem..
Onila claims she's attractive ..
But Lovely guys don't ask her out..
onila now is frustrated..
suicide ebbs out her life!

chai, i don tire o

Every thing is A$$ backwards on this site... on what planet do good looking men feel like they are too attractive to ask out girls? Aren't tall good looking guys the same ones that ask out a different hot chick everyday?

This is why i feel like most nairalanders never leave their houses, half the stuff yall say just makes no sense.

pleep: Every thing is A$$ backwards on this site... on what planet do good looking men feel like they are too attractive to ask out girls? Aren't tall good looking guys the same ones that ask out a different hot chick everyday?

This is why i feel like most nairalanders never leave their houses, half the stuff yall say just makes no sense.