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Poll: Is it ok for a man to force his wife to have sex with him?

Yes: 16% (34 votes)
No: 83% (172 votes)
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Re: Marital Rape by SENATORJD(m): 4:33pm On Feb 18, 2008
lol yemivictor
@r-dynamite if as a guy one remains a jackass,hmmmmmmmm, then theres a problem
by d way whats a jackass?lol
Re: Marital Rape by holythug(m): 4:33pm On Feb 18, 2008
duh,am single tongue
Re: Marital Rape by RDynamite(f): 4:34pm On Feb 18, 2008
yemivictor:

Hence, you don't value it!!

Ain't you sick? grin

We're going off topic abeg. We'll start another thread and discuss your sexual frustrations wink grin
Re: Marital Rape by Islander(f): 4:35pm On Feb 18, 2008
@topic
Yes. Rape is rape, no matter the circumstance.
Re: Marital Rape by RDynamite(f): 4:44pm On Feb 18, 2008
holythug:

@ dyna, whatever, plz think before postin

if u do research, u will knw what am talkin about & besides av u heard of jerry springers show take a peep @ least once

den u will knw what i mean

quit quotin people wit what dey say & get a lyfestand out on your own & contribute


I'm too happy to be bothered with ur post. Keep watching JS. grin
Re: Marital Rape by yemivictor: 4:46pm On Feb 18, 2008
R-Dynamite:

Ain't you sick? D

We're going off topic abeg. We'll start another thread and discuss your sexual frustrations wink grin

Nope!

If anything, you're the one venting your sexual frusterations or whatever it is by being abusive!!

As for me, i'm as cool as can be!!! cool
Re: Marital Rape by RDynamite(f): 4:48pm On Feb 18, 2008
SENATOR JD:

lol yemivictor
@r-dynamite if as a guy one remains a jackass,hmmmmmmmm, then theres a problem
by d way whats a jackass?lol

That's why it's not possible for one to starve for too long(me think) wink Just behave well and you'll be fed grin

A jackass is a stupid/foolish person. U one? grin
Re: Marital Rape by RDynamite(f): 4:50pm On Feb 18, 2008
yemivictor:

[color=#006600]Nope!

If anything, you're the one venting your sexual frusterations or whatever it is by being abusive!!

Here we go! Who did I abuse now? wink You guys really need to calm down, seriously grin
Re: Marital Rape by yemivictor: 5:00pm On Feb 18, 2008
R-Dynamite:

Here we go! Who did I abuse now? wink You guys really need to calm down, seriously grin

LOL . . . Hmmm, trying to play smart, abi?

R-Dynamite:

Ain't you sick? grin


Is your dim memory refreshed now? grin

Sorry o! Just trying to give you a taste of your own medicine!

You know, the question format!! grin
Re: Marital Rape by RDynamite(f): 5:13pm On Feb 18, 2008
yemivictor:

LOL . . . Hmmm, trying to play smart, abi?

Don't bore me pls. grin Was just playin with you wink
Re: Marital Rape by yemivictor: 5:18pm On Feb 18, 2008
R-Dynamite:

Don't bore me please. grin Was just playin with you wink

I'm wearing only kid gloves myself! grin grin grin
Re: Marital Rape by RDynamite(f): 5:24pm On Feb 18, 2008
cool
Re: Marital Rape by yemivictor: 5:31pm On Feb 18, 2008
kiss kiss kiss
Re: Marital Rape by tipsy289(m): 5:48am On Feb 19, 2008
Marital Rape, thinking of Ike and Tina Turner.
well i dont blame any woman for not leaving her husband if he rapes her.i can understand that a guy wants sex at a moment and his partner doesnt want but man if u rape ur wife,you should be signing that divorce paper soon.
Re: Marital Rape by SENATORJD(m): 7:51am On Feb 19, 2008
like duh i wasnt asking u to tell the meaning of jackass,
rape is rape and there is nothing about it, u rape a woman be it ur wife , sister, mother whatever d blood tie
rape is rape and should be punished
Re: Marital Rape by RDynamite(f): 12:19pm On Feb 19, 2008
Talk is cheap. Be ready to embrace the jail sentence when it is served wink
Re: Marital Rape by RichyBlacK(m): 12:25pm On Feb 19, 2008
Every unmarried man owes it to himself to properly screen all prospectives, so as to eliminate the unstable, the vengeful, the manipulative, the wicked, the bitter and the angry ones.

I agree with moneybags. His views are very true. One note though, he did a very good job in choosing his wife. Those niceties, unfortunately, do not work for those ones that have been emotionally damaged. I know what I'm saying because I've experienced it. A guy should keenly observe the woman he intends to marry.
Re: Marital Rape by RDynamite(f): 12:32pm On Feb 19, 2008
If only you know how women screen men before they say "I DO" cheesy (Not all women tho')
Re: Marital Rape by Nobody: 4:42pm On Feb 19, 2008
Why shd a woman say no to her husband? Its not right. But doesnt give the man an excuse to rape her. Its shd be a willing excercisse, makes it sweeter, know wat am sayin!!
Re: Marital Rape by moneybags: 4:58pm On Feb 19, 2008
RichyBlacK:

. . . Those niceties, unfortunately, do not work for those ones that have been emotionally damaged. I know what I'm saying because I've experienced it. A guy should keenly observe the woman he intends to marry.

Good to finally see someone who's understanding my view point here. However, I wouldn't call the things a husband does to meet his wife's needs "niceties". They're not niceties, they're a part of his responsibility -- that's what he signed up for when he took her to the altar and said "I DO". He's not doing her a favor by meeting those needs, it's his responsibility and should be taken seriously. Same applies to the woman as well.
Re: Marital Rape by moneybags: 5:01pm On Feb 19, 2008
Ujujoan:

Why should a woman say no to her husband? Its not right. But doesnt give the man an excuse to rape her. Its should be a willing excercisse, makes it sweeter, know what am sayin!!

I don't understand why a woman would say NO to her husband and therefore cannot speak to that. But the question here is: If she says no, what should be his reaction? I think that's what this thread is about??
Re: Marital Rape by RDynamite(f): 5:19pm On Feb 19, 2008
moneybags:

If she says no, what should be his reaction? I think that's what this thread is about??

He should quietly sleep next to her.
Re: Marital Rape by 4Him(m): 5:21pm On Feb 19, 2008
R-Dynamite:

He should quietly sleep next to her.

shocked shocked how does one "quietly sleep" when a fire is still raging?
Re: Marital Rape by yemivictor: 5:29pm On Feb 19, 2008
4Him:

shocked shocked how does one "quietly sleep" when a fire is still raging?

Let him jack-off to quench the fire! grin

Or better still, she (wifey) could do the jacking-off for him sef!! grin grin

After all, half a loaf is better than puff puff!!! grin grin grin
Re: Marital Rape by RDynamite(f): 5:31pm On Feb 19, 2008
LMAO! I was sure that will hit u guys. Deal with it! grin
Re: Marital Rape by 4Him(m): 5:43pm On Feb 19, 2008
yemivictor:

Let him jack-off to quench the fire! grin

Or better still, she (wifey) could do the jacking-off for him sef!! grin grin

After all, half a loaf is better than puff puff!!! grin grin grin


that is no solution at all. What is the point licking ur lips when the milk is right there beside you?

R-Dynamite:

LMAO! I was sure that will hit u guys. Deal with it! grin

I am sure you were just joking when you told us to lie there quietly. grin Impossicant.
Re: Marital Rape by RDynamite(f): 5:51pm On Feb 19, 2008
4Him:

I am sure you were just joking when you told us to lie there quietly. grin Impossicant.

But seriously, what should the man do? grin

4Him:

What is the point licking your lips when the milk is right there beside you?

shocked shocked runs to Mami's arms
Re: Marital Rape by 4Him(m): 5:57pm On Feb 19, 2008
R-Dynamite:

But seriously, what should the man do? grin

if he has to beg he shld do so . . . if he has to touch some buttons to get her in the mood then by all means. There are always ways to get a reluctant horse to drink.

R-Dynamite:

shocked shocked runs to Mami's arms

grin she'll be only too glad to hand you over to go give up ur milk.
Re: Marital Rape by RDynamite(f): 6:06pm On Feb 19, 2008
4Him:

if he has to beg he shld do so . . . if he has to touch some buttons to get her in the mood then by all means.

So, you saying that those who rape their wives don't do all these things?

4Him:

There are always ways to get a reluctant horse to drink.

Silly wally tongue
Re: Marital Rape by 4Him(m): 6:29pm On Feb 19, 2008
R-Dynamite:

So, you saying that those who rape their wives don't do all these things?

i cant technically call it rape. Women love to exagerate . . . soon husbands will be accused of robbing wives at gun point.
Unless she's tired, or sick or on her period a husband shld know his wife well enough to know what he can do to get her excited enough for sex without "raping" her.

women like to say no when all they want is for u to try harder.
Re: Marital Rape by RDynamite(f): 6:47pm On Feb 19, 2008
4Him, seems you'll make a good husband. wink
Re: Marital Rape by 4Him(m): 7:01pm On Feb 19, 2008
R-Dynamite:

4Him, seems you'll make a good husband. wink

Even i know. I humbly take a bow.  tongue
Thanks though . . . u'd make a great wife too. kiss

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