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Re: What Does 'submission' Of Women In Marriages Mean Exactly? by Nobody: 7:49am On Dec 02, 2012 |
slimyem: All i require to be a submissive wife is that my husband respects me as much as i respect him....and all will be well!! You r wrong lady,....submission in marriage for a woman has no requirement. Just be submissive to him,shikena! Even if he were a womanizer,an alcoholic,a abusive husband,an irresponsible guy etc,....just submit to him 1 Like |
Re: What Does 'submission' Of Women In Marriages Mean Exactly? by dinachi(m): 8:09am On Dec 02, 2012 |
Please marriage is not for any lady who cant submit. If you know you cant submit, please remain single and save us this high rate of divorce. There is no progressive institution that does not have a leader, marriage is not different. It is just that many women because of feminism and lesbianism finds it difficult to accept their husbands authority. They will accept thier bosses authority, they will accept thier parents authority but when it comes to their husband feminism sets in.The foolishness and reprobacy of these end times is responsible for all these! People will intentionally question the scripture because they dont want to obey it. Any chritian woman who does not submit to her husband is living in egotism and arrogance and is puffed up by her achievements or knowledge. Feminism or women liberation are for lost souls and reprobate minds.Submission for a woman is a sign of strenghts not weakness and carries unusual blessings. Abrahams wife in the Bible called him Lord. How many of our self acclaimed so called morden liberated women can do that? Remember that rebelion is as the sin of withccraft, that why we have so many witches this days! My wifes submission to me brings out my best for her. Truly, theres is nothing I cant do for that woman, including laying down my life for her. 2 Likes |
Re: What Does 'submission' Of Women In Marriages Mean Exactly? by Meristem: 8:58am On Dec 02, 2012 |
***i know say na woman go start this thread**** Quadruple mtcheewww! OP submit means exactly it says...SUBMIT! Submission. Submissive. Submissivity. U wan spark a lousy feminist argument, eeediot ***clicks the SUBMIT button on NL page *** 1 Like |
Re: What Does 'submission' Of Women In Marriages Mean Exactly? by Meristem: 9:04am On Dec 02, 2012 |
dinachi: Please marriage is not for any lady who cant submit. If you know you cant submit, please remain single and save us this high rate of divorce. There is no progressive institution that does not have a leader, marriage is not different. It is just that many women because of feminism and lesbianism finds it difficult to accept their husbands authority. They will accept thier bosses authority, they will accept thier parents authority but when it comes to their husband feminism sets in.The foolishness and reprobacy of these end times is responsible for all these! People will intentionally question the scripture because they dont want to obey it. Any chritian woman who does not submit to her husband is living in egotism and arrogance and is puffed up by her achievements or knowledge. Feminism or women liberation are for lost souls and reprobate minds.Submission for a woman is a sign of strenghts not weakness and carries unusual blessings. Abrahams wife in the Bible called him Lord. How many of our self acclaimed so called morden liberated women can do that? Remember that rebelion is as the sin of withccraft, that why we have so many witches this days! My wifes submission to me brings out my best for her. Truly, theres is nothing I cant do for that woman, including laying down my life for her. STRAIGHT OUT OF MY BUCCAL CAVITY!!! Tell them!! Madam feminist, wanna know where rebellion lands you? Ask Lucifer! Come, bros, do you want to contest for president in 2015? I will donate my house as your campaign headquarters! |
Re: What Does 'submission' Of Women In Marriages Mean Exactly? by seunajia: 9:40am On Dec 02, 2012 |
all4naija: Lol... It beats my imagination when submission as a tool by men to do what they like is now seen as being a measure of responsibility on the side of the women by some posters here. Jeez! To be submissive means to give up and accept to be belittled in this present generation. There are working women who earn more than men. The part in bold is most times the reason why this sort of debate pops up. Money is not everything. It is also not authority (or power if you like), simply, it is weak power. Economic success may buy you many things, but it won't buy you love, respect and/or submission. On the other hand, power corrupts and absolute power corrupts absolutely. It is unfortunate that we have men who prefer extremities and misuse authority or the privilege of submission given to them by God through their partners. It is also deplorable that we are debating scrapping leadership positions because some folks without people skills abuse them. Oribibe ko logun orififo! The present society is beyond mere village characters our forefather were used to.For example a man can wish to marry many wives as he wishes(mostly in our African society) and have affairs outside of marriage sometimes without it being pronounced as a bad thing. lol @ village character. Polygamy is an issue for another day. Scratch that! No sane person justifies cheating. The pilot-co-pilot relationship IMHO defines what a marriage should be. Key: The man = Pilot, The Wife = Co-pilot, Marriage = Aircraft, flying, flight etc. Pilots depend on copilots to share flying duties. Always sitting right next to their pilot, copilots, also known as flight officers, assist the captain and play a crucial role in navigating a safe ride. Duties involve a little of everything from pre-flight planning to landing the aircraft. While the main concern is making the pilot's job easier it also means maximizing the pilot's level of situational awareness. No copilot's job is simple. Flying an aircraft is a particularly demanding job and the captain cannot do it alone. The pilot will often instruct the copilot to monitor the flight instruments regularly. This allows the flight crew to proficiently meet all of the demands of flying by multi-tasking as a team. Altitude indicator, altimeter, airspeed indicator and horizontal situation indicator are examples of the flight instruments a copilot will be asked to monitor. The copilot will not only have to monitor but also operate flight instruments and controls. Before a flight takes off, the copilot and pilot will have determined who flies and who takes on the other flight responsibilities. If the copilot is in charge of flying, then knowing the take off and arrival procedures is imperative. The copilot will already know the weight, balance, and if the airplane is loaded properly. Basically, the copilot will memorize the ins and outs of the craft, which is vital to the big picture in commandeering any type of aircraft ... http://www.ehow.com/m/info_8112079_duties-copilot.html This is what I know and want in marriage-- roles, gender roles. Where is Kandiikane? |
Re: What Does 'submission' Of Women In Marriages Mean Exactly? by slimyem: 9:56am On Dec 02, 2012 |
Frankie9ice:This is a joke...right? 1 Like |
Re: What Does 'submission' Of Women In Marriages Mean Exactly? by Nobody: 10:26am On Dec 02, 2012 |
Would love to believe this coogar, but obviously I'm sure this is not the one I know very well. The coogar I know fores his opinion on everybody even when they are unfounded or go against the grain or norm Then he insults everybody with every name possible. How can he be married? Unless his wife was bethroted to him from birth. |
Re: What Does 'submission' Of Women In Marriages Mean Exactly? by Donald7610: 11:01am On Dec 02, 2012 |
coogar: It better to do it in African way bcuz western world encourages divorce Compare divorce rate in african and oyinbo marriage |
Re: What Does 'submission' Of Women In Marriages Mean Exactly? by solomon111(m): 11:04am On Dec 02, 2012 |
Why are people always argueing over this issue? Women that do not believe in biblical submission should look for the few men who share such sentiments and get married to them,or better still stay single. Marriage is not for everybody,it comes with prices and sacrifices. |
Re: What Does 'submission' Of Women In Marriages Mean Exactly? by bukatyne(f): 2:13pm On Dec 02, 2012 |
Nashville:and where was it stated in the Bible that a husband and wife re not equal? a subordinate doesn't submit. submission is a choice n not a duty. |
Re: What Does 'submission' Of Women In Marriages Mean Exactly? by bukatyne(f): 2:30pm On Dec 02, 2012 |
50calibre:speak for yourself d quality of life u want to live. if u want a glorified slave, go to d slave market and let us have peace. some wise men know wat it means to be leaders in their homes and enjoy d benefits. i don't know if you re a co-creator wit God that u know men n women re not equal. if u re a christian, please read your bible and pray for understandin from God. if u're not, don't expect your wife to submit cos it's a biblical concept. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: What Does 'submission' Of Women In Marriages Mean Exactly? by dinachi(m): 4:17pm On Dec 02, 2012 |
@all the wanabe feminists, why will you submit to your boss, but not your husband? Why will you submit to your parents but not your husband? Only foolish women argue about submission. Every wise woman understands that submission dosent degrade but it elevates. You stoop to conquer! Any woman who argues about submision to the husband is suffering from the demon of pride, and remember it is pride that kept satan where he is today.Marriage is a CHOICE! If you are too proud and dont want to submit , then dont marry. Remain single and leave married folks out of your satanic wisdom. Dont join the new age movement in destroying one of the greatest institutions that God made. Finally,God resists the proud but gives grace to the humble! Submission is a sign of humility.If you are not humble as a woman , then marriage is not for you.If you want to make all your choices without any input, fine and good, just dont marry! You cannot eat your cake and have it. You want to be married, then learn submission , you dont want to submit then dont marry! 1 Like |
Re: What Does 'submission' Of Women In Marriages Mean Exactly? by Nobody: 4:21pm On Dec 02, 2012 |
Mowire:please help me tell them! |
Re: What Does 'submission' Of Women In Marriages Mean Exactly? by AdeniyiA(m): 5:31pm On Dec 02, 2012 |
some ladies have read wide yet they have shallow knowledge of the concept 'submission', should i call that western brainwash. what some of our ladies learn from western education is gender equality- which can never be,any earthly principle against laid down divine principle is bound to fail. did Adam not tell Eve of d forbidden fruit,yet she disobeyed as a result of wanting to be independent. during decision making,make ur points known wt humility,if ur husband agrees,gud,if nt,same noni |
Re: What Does 'submission' Of Women In Marriages Mean Exactly? by trolling(m): 6:26pm On Dec 02, 2012 |
dinachi: Please marriage is not for any lady who cant submit. If you know you cant submit, please remain single and save us this high rate of divorce. There is no progressive institution that does not have a leader, marriage is not different. It is just that many women because of feminism and lesbianism finds it difficult to accept their husbands authority. They will accept thier bosses authority, they will accept thier parents authority but when it comes to their husband feminism sets in.The foolishness and reprobacy of these end times is responsible for all these! People will intentionally question the scripture because they dont want to obey it. Any chritian woman who does not submit to her husband is living in egotism and arrogance and is puffed up by her achievements or knowledge. Feminism or women liberation are for lost souls and reprobate minds.Submission for a woman is a sign of strenghts not weakness and carries unusual blessings. Abrahams wife in the Bible called him Lord. How many of our self acclaimed so called morden liberated women can do that? Remember that rebelion is as the sin of withccraft, that why we have so many witches this days! My wifes submission to me brings out my best for her. Truly, theres is nothing I cant do for that woman, including laying down my life for her....well said |
Re: What Does 'submission' Of Women In Marriages Mean Exactly? by trolling(m): 6:34pm On Dec 02, 2012 |
fellis: @all4naija, great job man.....who is this person, wise sayings from u...u r recognized 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: What Does 'submission' Of Women In Marriages Mean Exactly? by ferhyntorlah(f): 1:40pm On Dec 03, 2012 |
Hi-Dee: Hi-Dee, thank you. I thought I was the only one thinking that way. |
Re: What Does 'submission' Of Women In Marriages Mean Exactly? by Tobiegal(f): 3:10pm On Dec 03, 2012 |
fellis: @all4naija, great job man. This is the best contribution ever. Men should realize times have changed... And for any marriage to be successful, there must be Respect and Agreement on all relevant issues as it were. |
Re: What Does 'submission' Of Women In Marriages Mean Exactly? by coogar: 3:26pm On Dec 03, 2012 |
Tobiegal: how can that be the best contribution so far? fellis took too much emphasis on the word "submit" and went straight to the oxford dictionary. the fact is these laws were written in a different language and a lot of meanings get lost in translation. "submission" in that context is not "forced" otherwise it would be a blatant "obedience".........doing something whether you are happy or unhappy is just obedience. submission in the biblical sense is what you are happy at doing...if you are not happy, then it's not submission. |
Re: What Does 'submission' Of Women In Marriages Mean Exactly? by Nobody: 4:10pm On Dec 03, 2012 |
coogar: This is rich. So the words in the Bible have their own special definitions? So we are not supposed to apply the English meanings of the words in the Bible when reading it even if the Bible was written in English ? Wonderful. |
Re: What Does 'submission' Of Women In Marriages Mean Exactly? by coogar: 4:13pm On Dec 03, 2012 |
fellis: the bible was originally written in aramaic before getting translated to english language. most of these words are not the direct translations - just the closest available in english language. |
Re: What Does 'submission' Of Women In Marriages Mean Exactly? by Nobody: 5:11pm On Dec 03, 2012 |
Ephesians 5:22 Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord. 5:23For the husband is the head of the wife, even as Christ is the head of the church: and he is the saviour of the body. 5:24Therefore as the church is subject unto Christ, so let the wives be to their own husbands in every thing Women are told to regard their husbands as Christians(the church) regard Christ. Infact two word are used in those verses; Submit and Subject. Those verses don't sound like they are telling the woman to do the husband the favour of submitting to him But whatevs, you can give it your own interpretation; a lot of Christians do that anyway. |
Re: What Does 'submission' Of Women In Marriages Mean Exactly? by coogar: 5:21pm On Dec 03, 2012 |
fellis: so are christians "forced" to worship God or they do it willingly? can you now see the word "submit" as explained in the dictionary is not the direct translation but the closest english word to the aramaic version of the word? 1 Like |
Re: What Does 'submission' Of Women In Marriages Mean Exactly? by Luxythere: 5:25pm On Dec 03, 2012 |
coogar: Did someone steal your log in details....I find myself nodding to all you wrote on this topic. |
Re: What Does 'submission' Of Women In Marriages Mean Exactly? by coogar: 5:27pm On Dec 03, 2012 |
Luxythere: you stole it....... |
Re: What Does 'submission' Of Women In Marriages Mean Exactly? by Nobody: 5:36pm On Dec 03, 2012 |
coogar: lol, Christians are forced to worship God now. It's either you worship God or face eternity in hell. How is that not forced? |
Re: What Does 'submission' Of Women In Marriages Mean Exactly? by Luxythere: 5:39pm On Dec 03, 2012 |
I read a book on submitting "Fascinating womanhood" Helen Andelin. Its a step by step on how to be a female in a marriage |
Re: What Does 'submission' Of Women In Marriages Mean Exactly? by coogar: 5:46pm On Dec 03, 2012 |
fellis: you are not forced to worship God - it's a choice! you either take it or leave it. "submission" is also a choice, a woman either buys it or not. it's a free will otherwise it would be called oppression! if the bible says submit to your husband as you submit to God then there's no force......which renders your literal meaning of submission as null and void.... Luxythere: I read a book on submitting "Fascinating womanhood" Helen Andelin. are you male or female? |
Re: What Does 'submission' Of Women In Marriages Mean Exactly? by Nobody: 5:50pm On Dec 03, 2012 |
coogar: Let's not kid ourselves. It is forced. It's either the woman submits according to the dictates of the Bible or face punishment from God for disobeying His commands/committing sins. |
Re: What Does 'submission' Of Women In Marriages Mean Exactly? by coogar: 6:00pm On Dec 03, 2012 |
fellis: if submission is "forced" then every christian woman should be practising it in their homes, no? think about it - it's a privilege given to a loving and respectful husband by a wife. she cannot be forced to render it, it should be earned! |
Re: What Does 'submission' Of Women In Marriages Mean Exactly? by Nobody: 6:18pm On Dec 03, 2012 |
coogar: This context has been posted here gazillion times ...I really don't know why people like to chug down people's throat .....una well done o cooger your attention is needed elsewhere , this thread has ran it's course |
Re: What Does 'submission' Of Women In Marriages Mean Exactly? by coogar: 6:20pm On Dec 03, 2012 |
jidegirl12: where? |
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