Goldieluks:

You must be a professional, can i come for some counselling?

Anytime boo. I'm a marriage psychologist

Ileke-IdI:


Yes, married 4 times, divorced 3

You sound kinda like a divorcee

honeric01:

You sound kinda like a divorcee

Mtcheww and how do non-divorcee sound?

Ileke-IdI:


Mtcheww and how do non-divorcee sound?

Opposite of how you sounded above.

honeric01:

Opposite of how you sounded above.

wha da, expatiate jor. Always ready to annoy me.

How do happily married women and unhappily married women sound?

In addition to the above, SNORING at night during sleep also causes divorce.

Ileke-IdI:


wha da, expatiate jor. Always ready to annoy me.

How do happily married women and unhappily married women sound?

Just imagine the opposites of what you typed, it'll answer your question

Lmao @facebook. When did facebook become a reason for divorce? Its simply a condusive setting for someone who is already irresponsible. Strike it off jor.

4direct: Civilization is the reason for divorce..... those day ppl dont

and gender equality

1. Family influence
2. Lack of fear of God
3. Deceitful or weak spouse
4. Adultery
5. Bad association /bad advice
6. Barrenness
7. Unrealistic expectations of either or both spouse
8. Spiritual attack
9. Poor African definition of the meaning of love/marriage
10. Lack of Finances

Johndoe100: The major reason for divorce is called [size=20pt]WOMEN[/size]

They are the author off all divorces. If the woman is good the home lasts, if they are like the ones on this board what do I say, they have four, five six baby daddies.

Really ? Even when the man is caught sleeping around !

Stupid generalisation.

They should add ignorance of some men to the list as to why people divorce. With a brain like this, who can blame them?

good research.

The top reason for divorce every year is marriage

Nairaland nko? U cld imagine hw weird people wil advice u in romance section and u get confused!

pendusky: Nairaland nko? U cld imagine hw weird people wil advice u in romance section and u get confused!

That's the scenario of a blind man leading a blind man

Ileke-IdI:
Miserable marriage

Irresponsible husband

One or both side stops trying

Winsh inlaws

etc


This is 2012. No woman should stick to a miserable marriage. Fcccccuuukkk Nigerian mentality and its cultures. Fccccccuuukkkkk the degradation and devaluation of women. Most importantly, fuckkkkkkk other women who wag their tongues like rabid dogs to devalue their fellow divorcee.

I can feel your frustration! but don't just get frustrated, accept Jesus.

The men go around sleeping with Women......

SELFWORTH:

Really ? Even when the man is caught sleeping around !

Stupid generalisation.

They should add ignorance of some men to the list as to why people divorce. With a brain like this, who can blame them?

Sirdayor:
I can feel your frustration! but don't just get frustrated, accept Jesus.

Jesus? Is his middle name Santa Claus?

glb2012: The men go around sleeping with Women......

Not necessarily. Google it. Some men sleep with kids, dogs, sheep etc....anything really!

Johndoe100: The major reason for divorce is called [size=20pt]WOMEN[/size]

They are the author off all divorces. If the woman is good the home lasts, if they are like the ones on this board what do I say, they have four, five six baby daddies.

Sir according to you, no married man gives his wife problems? So all men are saints and women are troublesome? Well shey you have sisters? Or daughters let's see how they fare in future with their abusive husbands and you telling them to be "peaceful wives" and remain and accept all the shite.
Many nigerian men have to learn to be real men. To love, respect and treat everyone around them with dignity especially the wives who clearly love and honour them.

ghettodreamz: Death of true love/feelings among couples.

Quenched romance fire in marriages.

Impatiency- Many rushed into it without the full knowledge of what marital life is, or what awaits them in that matrimonial home, and soon got tired of putting up with the challenges that lies within. The rate at which young ladies tend to opt out of their marriages these days is quite alarming & thought-provoking; just few years in the marriage they start complaining and wishing/clamouring for a change.

Patience is never in the dictionaries of most ladies/women,only a handful of them understand the meaning of that popular quote; "When the going gets tough, the tough get going".

Hmmmm Nigeria, a land where a man can do no wrong to a woman. Your husband cheat, its your fault, he beats you its your fault, you loose poatience with his wayward lifestyle it is your fault. No kids? It the womans fault, child goes wrong? Its womans fault, fuel price goes up? Na madam joe's fault, gucci beans? Its the woman,s fault. Man falls sick its the womans fault, man dies nko its the woman that killed him. The woman dies its her fault.

mumumugu: 1 ADULTERY

FACEBOOK

ACCUMULATD GRUDGE

CHILDLESNES

INLAW FACTOR

FINANCE

PERSISTENT BAD BEHAVIOR

LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP

SEX

CULTURE OR RELIGON ISUES

FEAR GOD AND YOU WILL DEFINITELY KEEP DIVORCE VERY VERY FAR AWAY FROM YOU !
God bless us

Ileke-IdI:


Yes, married 4 times, divorced 3

ua record is alarming,but yet to beat that of my director

There are only 2 reasons for divorce - Selfishness and Pride. Worse, they feed on each other.

Coldfeet: Am not planning on killing him o! Am only affirming the Vows we made to each other! TILL DEATH DO US PART.

have lost two,friend n Fmr classmate t d above. dey were both stabbed t death by their wives..

IRRECONCILIABLE DIFFERENCE;That's at the very top in 2012, popular among celebrities.

will get food for 9ja ooooooooooooooo.

Blazay: Top 1 reason for DIE-VORCE in 2013. . . .NAIRALAND!

Happy annivesary baby! One more year in the bag. . . . OPEN MARRIAGES RRRRROCK!


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hn3SE7kzxkE

This awa marriage is sooooooooooooooo old. . .we are more in love with the 'marriage certificate' than the spouse! You can't go wrong I tellya. . . .

Wey my bags jare. . . off to London for some 'RRRRRRRRRRRRRUNS'! ALL XMAS PRESENTS NEATLY PACKED FOR MY OGA! He will not be spending the Xmas with his wife and children either. . . .LEVELS NA LEVELS!!
Time to fly home to pick up my thickest winter jacket. . . The husband's Xmas present/cards neatly packed!
Cheap tickets here I come!
Marrrrrrrrrrrrrrriage sweeeeeeet o!
ONLY FOR DESPERADOS IS IT A BITTER EXPERIENCE!
Not my portion!

Time to freeeeeeeeeeeze some food to carry go with me. . .

Gbam!

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