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Re: Have Your Ever Dated A Possessive Partner ? by tunapawizzy: 1:16pm On Dec 17, 2012
arrrrrrgh presently dating a possessive witch, if dat gal no kill me before i break up with her on December 26, then nothing else can kill me in dis life again

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Re: Have Your Ever Dated A Possessive Partner ? by MissyB3(f): 1:17pm On Dec 17, 2012
This thread brings to mind memories that were never forgotten.
If I were to narrate my ordeal on this thread, 30 pages wouldn't be enough. cool I'll just take the back seat and enjoy reading.
Re: Have Your Ever Dated A Possessive Partner ? by Teejayphillip(m): 1:17pm On Dec 17, 2012
Bein possessive as 2 du wit d way u act.... Ow on earth as a man wil I date sumone whu's zo possessive rite 4rm d start... In as much as am loyal,carin n romantic,I dnt tolerate rubbish...

If I notice ur act of bein possessive,I'll rada take it out of u,or we both go seperate wayz... We all ave d traits of jealous,bur ow we tend 2 act mata's a lot...

2me my wife waz d greatest gift my God gave 2 me... I jus zo much luf her character,even dough sumtimes we ave misunderstanding...
Re: Have Your Ever Dated A Possessive Partner ? by xynerise(m): 1:22pm On Dec 17, 2012
tunapawizzy: before i break up with her on December 26th,
So u are among those broke azz guys that quit relationship during festive period? undecided
Re: Have Your Ever Dated A Possessive Partner ? by back2sender: 1:26pm On Dec 17, 2012
she wanted to dominate even up to accomodation level that i should move in with her in lekki phase 1 ,that she cannot stay in Ajah/Igbo-Efon/Agungi/Osapa etc. I run with my life and that was the end of the relationship.me wen dey manage myself for Ajah jejely smiley
Re: Have Your Ever Dated A Possessive Partner ? by piero2u(m): 1:27pm On Dec 17, 2012
who hasn't?
Re: Have Your Ever Dated A Possessive Partner ? by tunapawizzy: 1:29pm On Dec 17, 2012
xynerise:
So u are among those broke azz guys that quit relationship during festive period? undecided
loool weytin man go do na, economy is bad ma broda, papa n mama dey village, plenty younger ones dey wait 4 school fees
Re: Have Your Ever Dated A Possessive Partner ? by cyril83(m): 1:29pm On Dec 17, 2012
A possessive person can never date a possessive person so therefore i am one myself and am okay with it, if you can't abide by my rules then get d f*ck out

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Re: Have Your Ever Dated A Possessive Partner ? by ubong560(m): 1:32pm On Dec 17, 2012
@carefreewannabe, in totality, how many boyfriends av u dated and got d deed (intimacy) done witi on thier bed?
Re: Have Your Ever Dated A Possessive Partner ? by nonesense: 1:34pm On Dec 17, 2012
tunapawizzy: arrrrrrgh presently dating a possessive witch, if dat gal no kill me before i break up with her on December 26, then nothing else can kill me in dis life again
So, you are expecting your death before December 26? abeg giv me your address make i buy bread come chop your Akara grin grin Nonesense!

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Re: Have Your Ever Dated A Possessive Partner ? by nonesense: 1:37pm On Dec 17, 2012
Missy_B: This thread brings to mind memories that were never forgotten.
If I were to narrate my ordeal on this thread, 30 pages wouldn't be enough. cool I'll just take the back seat and enjoy reading.
Abeg summarize the story jhor and tel us wetin happen
Re: Have Your Ever Dated A Possessive Partner ? by Yomieluv(m): 1:42pm On Dec 17, 2012
My flatmate is dating one now,so irritating kind of love,the girl won't let him be at all,she follows him everywhere,except my room,cos I made my stand on her not entering my room.
This girl picks his call,and quickly put it on speaker to hear his conversation.
Funniest thing is that,the guy seems to enjoy it.the guy can't subscribe for his BIS cos the girl reads his conversation always.
Re: Have Your Ever Dated A Possessive Partner ? by megareal: 1:46pm On Dec 17, 2012
God! that was the most terrible time in my life. The guy I never dated was over possessive. I said no to his advances over a hundred times but he claimed I was his wife and still pestered me. He'll come to the hostel at odd hours just to find me. He never allowed me a minute rest. Will abandon his job and come to the lecture hall to sit in during lectures and harass my lecturers if they so much as looked at me. He flooded my corner with gifts I never wanted. He came to my house during the holidays to peep into my room over the fence in the middle of every night! My mum once poured hot water on him thinking he was a thief. He called my guy up in Lagos and told him to leave me that I was preggers for him and this is a guy I never slept with for even a day o. He threatened any man he saw with me, from colleagues to friends. He labeled me his woman on campus and no amount of explanation made people to believe I had nothing to do with him. The whole thing was a big nightmare. Detaching him from my life was like trying to detach a leech from your flesh without using salt. Finally I gave him the greatest showdown of all times, I called some bad boys on him but not before he ruined the relationship I had (though I don't regret it one bit). When I finally got him out of my life, he went to a babalawo to make juju for me not to marry. His friend reported the thing to me and I almost committed murder that day. Thank God I'm now married and the nonsense is behind me. Now I hear he still visits churches for pastors to pray for me to accept him. The guys was and is still loco.

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Re: Have Your Ever Dated A Possessive Partner ? by Olastep1(m): 1:46pm On Dec 17, 2012
Possessive ko, ogbanje ni
Re: Have Your Ever Dated A Possessive Partner ? by Ikoniko(f): 2:09pm On Dec 17, 2012
my guy is a possesive person, he was not like dat wen we started, alonge d line he jxt change to be sometin else. I keep bearin it cos he has done a lot for me
Re: Have Your Ever Dated A Possessive Partner ? by ubong560(m): 2:11pm On Dec 17, 2012
@megareal, u were actually vry unfair to d guy despite d fact dat u were into a relatnshp den. B4 u c d guy did all he was doing was just because d guy saw u as ONE in MILLION. He saw all d beauty he needed in a woman in u. How could he b telling pple openly dat u r his wife if not dat he truly loved u. D guy was just damn crazy abt u. Bliv me such guy would've made u a loving and faithful husband. Y? because he thinks abt u day and nite even wen on duty or walking in d street. He really loved and appreciated evrytin abt u.
Re: Have Your Ever Dated A Possessive Partner ? by ubong560(m): 2:16pm On Dec 17, 2012
Damn to u all. Una just d comment on d thread without observing d grammatical innuendoism exhibited by d poster. Instead of "YOU", he rather put "YOUR". Correct her pls. This is why some of you write waec 6x without success not to talk of jamb. Lols
Re: Have Your Ever Dated A Possessive Partner ? by ChiSun27(m): 2:22pm On Dec 17, 2012
meeeeehhhnnnn...dont wanna rememba dat xprnce.....dat chic rily made me a pleadn machine cus i was alwys begging ha...she even gets unnecesarily angry infront of my female folks...jst lyk some1 said early...4 me den breakup was inevitable.
Re: Have Your Ever Dated A Possessive Partner ? by ChiSun27(m): 2:28pm On Dec 17, 2012
megareal: God! that was the most terrible time in my life. The guy I never dated was over possessive. I said no to his advances over a hundred times but he claimed I was his wife and still pestered me. He'll come to the hostel at odd hours just to find me. He never allowed me a minute rest. Will abandon his job and come to the lecture hall to sit in during lectures and harass my lecturers if they so much as looked at me. He flooded my corner with gifts I never wanted. He came to my house during the holidays to peep into my room over the fence in the middle of every night! My mum once poured hot water on him thinking he was a thief. He called my guy up in Lagos and told him to leave me that I was preggers for him and this is a guy I never slept with for even a day o. He threatened any man he saw with me, from colleagues to friends. He labeled me his woman on campus and no amount of explanation made people to believe I had nothing to do with him. The whole thing was a big nightmare. Detaching him from my life was like trying to detach a leech from your flesh without using salt. Finally I gave him the greatest showdown of all times, I called some bad boys on him but not before he ruined the relationship I had (though I don't regret it one bit). When I finally got him out of my life, he went to a babalawo to make juju for me not to marry. His friend reported the thing to me and I almost committed murder that day. Thank God I'm now married and the nonsense is behind me. Now I hear he still visits churches for pastors to pray for me to accept him. The guys was and is still loco.

na wa oooo!!! Wetin him c 4 ur body?....na u fyn paz? Na wa 4 dat guy sef.

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Re: Have Your Ever Dated A Possessive Partner ? by xynerise(m): 2:31pm On Dec 17, 2012
tunapawizzy:
loool weytin man go do na, economy is bad ma broda, papa n mama dey village, plenty younger ones dey wait 4 school fees
Its ok biko. Are you Timaya? Stop telling us ur poverty situation grin
Re: Have Your Ever Dated A Possessive Partner ? by ChiSun27(m): 2:33pm On Dec 17, 2012
ubong560: Damn to u all. Una just d comment on d thread without observing d grammatical innuendoism exhibited by d poster. Instead of "YOU", he rather put "YOUR". Correct her pls. This is why some of you write waec 6x without success not to talk of jamb. Lols

keep quiet...Mr. English..na wey u koret ha...bread price don kom down...do u thnk dat it is easy 2 type with fon w/out mekn som slight mzteks...even wen u read it ova n ova again b/4 submitn... Abi u knw knw wetn dem de kal ovasight?
Re: Have Your Ever Dated A Possessive Partner ? by elamydiva(f): 2:37pm On Dec 17, 2012
KateSpade: yup, dated a man for a few months. At first things were good then he started questioning any male friend I had, telling me to change my attire, telling me to drop certain friends, not wanting me to work but just stay and live with him. Or if I was working, he wanted me to be his assistant. I would laugh because I thought he was joking, he was serious. I didn't back down and broke up with him.
[color=#000099][/color]same here, I was with him for 5years. It wasn't funny o!
Re: Have Your Ever Dated A Possessive Partner ? by babyosisi(f): 2:50pm On Dec 17, 2012
All men are possessive
Every single one
Any man that denies it is both possessive and also a liar
It is their nature to mark their territory and stay in charge and guard it jealously some are just worse than others
If your man is not a tad possessive,he is either not into you or he is gay

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Re: Have Your Ever Dated A Possessive Partner ? by babyosisi(f): 2:55pm On Dec 17, 2012
megareal: God! that was the most terrible time in my life. The guy I never dated was over possessive. I said no to his advances over a hundred times but he claimed I was his wife and still pestered me. He'll come to the hostel at odd hours just to find me. He never allowed me a minute rest. Will abandon his job and come to the lecture hall to sit in during lectures and harass my lecturers if they so much as looked at me. He flooded my corner with gifts I never wanted. He came to my house during the holidays to peep into my room over the fence in the middle of every night! My mum once poured hot water on him thinking he was a thief. He called my guy up in Lagos and told him to leave me that I was preggers for him and this is a guy I never slept with for even a day o. He threatened any man he saw with me, from colleagues to friends. He labeled me his woman on campus and no amount of explanation made people to believe I had nothing to do with him. The whole thing was a big nightmare. Detaching him from my life was like trying to detach a leech from your flesh without using salt. Finally I gave him the greatest showdown of all times, I called some bad boys on him but not before he ruined the relationship I had (though I don't regret it one bit). When I finally got him out of my life, he went to a babalawo to make juju for me not to marry. His friend reported the thing to me and I almost committed murder that day. Thank God I'm now married and the nonsense is behind me. Now I hear he still visits churches for pastors to pray for me to accept him. The guys was and is still loco.

That one is a psychotic stalker
You are lucky
Such men usually pour acid,stab,shoot or hurt the women in terrible ways because they would destroy you if they can't have you
You need to move faraway from him,they can snap at anytime and go totally nuts.
Don't think he has forgotten you
You need to take precautions,if na here,you would be advised to report this to the police and get a restraining order to keep him miles from wherever you are because he is a clear danger to you.

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Re: Have Your Ever Dated A Possessive Partner ? by Memphis357(m): 3:00pm On Dec 17, 2012
lola.luv:
@dondav
'Lemme See' is my jam!gringrin

#Singing
What you gon do to me,
Don't talk about it, be about it, lemme see 2x....

@op
Yes, I have. You captured the description so aptly. Those types start off nicely then KABOOM! It goes off in your face...
You will never reach your full potentials with an overpossessive guy. Everybody around you is a threat that they want to get rid of. Including your family.

He still stalks me and it's a month short of 2 years.
Fo' real?? He's a Dam Bottom nigga
Re: Have Your Ever Dated A Possessive Partner ? by BoboYekini(m): 3:11pm On Dec 17, 2012
lol, girls and their drama. why has every girl gotta have a stalker? oh, na status symbol now abi? grin
Re: Have Your Ever Dated A Possessive Partner ? by Nobody: 3:15pm On Dec 17, 2012
Kai make me remember my ex.
She was not just possessive but I can bet that she was also possessed. She wanted to define my life, she destroyed my phone because she didn't like the kind of phone I was using, consciously and constantly asked me for my statement of account.Never wanted anybody around her to be more happier than her. Even her family was possessive, for the three months I was with her I was officially their house boy ( Nah from clap I enter dance) ; Go park this car in so so house, help us fix this and that, don't communicate your family that you are in town because you came for my family function, even her mother was nugging me into computer fruad because she learnt I was and I.T.specialist. It was a terrible experience, when I look back I wonder if in those period I was under a spell or something and she was even the one that did the break-up because to her I was too nice, patient and laid back. For her to call 2moths later that we should get back together. I don't pray that even my enemy should come across such lady or family
But according to this adage 'Even if you want to fall, please fall forward; don't ever fall backwards'.
I scampered for my life lol
Re: Have Your Ever Dated A Possessive Partner ? by Graphy(f): 3:24pm On Dec 17, 2012
babyosisi:

That one is a psychotic stalker
You are lucky
Such men usually pour acid,stab,shoot or hurt the women in terrible ways because they would destroy you if they can't have you
You need to move faraway from him,they can snap at anytime and go totally nuts.
Don't think he has forgotten you
You need to take precautions,if na here,you would be advised to report this to the police and get a restraining order to keep him miles from wherever you are because he is a clear danger to you.
true talk mine was like dat,only we dated n i couldnt take his over possesiveness,i had to break up wit him,d guy no gree,e attacked me on d way wen i was goin out one day,i had to report to d police station b4 tins got messy.
Re: Have Your Ever Dated A Possessive Partner ? by lolaluv1(f): 3:41pm On Dec 17, 2012
Gabriel_sylar: hmmmmmm I will advice u to hold him well cos by the toime u biological clocks 35 u will wish otherwise.....ure running ur mouth now cos u tink u are still young and preety and listening to bad advices from ur gal friends who will take him away as soon as dump him due to flimy excuse of him being possessive...its natiral in a world of BB and 2go and FB ladies are becoming emotionally solvent and hence guys are more paranoid ....but remember we guys are predators and the “beautiful ones re yet to be born“ so enjoy what u have while it lasts and u may JUST be lucky it may last forever

Bull!
The man has a problem and he needs help. Trust is the foundation of every lasting relationship.
He should go deal with his paranoia, not destroy another person's career path.

That is how you people scare women into remaining in bad relationships.

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Re: Have Your Ever Dated A Possessive Partner ? by omiobo: 3:43pm On Dec 17, 2012
Possessive girls are loving and caring but insultive,abusive,hot-tempered,intolerant and they can kill you for love. if you don't want to die young don't date possessive girl.
My experience,hmmmmm.... SHM!where do I start from. The only thing that kept me alive was that, when I met her,I let her know that I have someone I want to marry but still she didn't give a damn. She loved me and couldn't do without me. I did all I could to manage her weakness. At a time I had to let her go because she was beginning to win my heart due to her care and gifts. Thank God my conscience was alive,so I decided not trade my love for gift.
She couldn't stop crying when I told her not to come to my place again. I fasted and prayed that God should delete my pix from her camera. One day she called that she didn't have any of pix again that her friend mistakenly deleted all my pix. First thing that came to my mind was thank God.
Re: Have Your Ever Dated A Possessive Partner ? by lolaluv1(f): 3:53pm On Dec 17, 2012
Memphis357:
Fo' real?? He's a Dam Bottom nigga

Na so o.
T'was a crazy experience.
I wouldn't encourage any girl who knows her worth to go into such a relationship.
Though such guys r really great at hiding that dark side at the beginning....
Re: Have Your Ever Dated A Possessive Partner ? by lolaluv1(f): 3:56pm On Dec 17, 2012
omiobo: Possessive girls are loving and caring but insultive,abusive,hot-tempered,intolerant and they can kill you for love. if you don't want to die young don't date possessive girl.
My experience,hmmmmm.... SHM!
I fasted and prayed that God should delete my pix from her camera. One day she called that she didn't have any of pix again that her friend mistakenly deleted all my pix. First thing that came to mind was thank God.

lol. Na God save you bros!

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