seedord247: So you mean my GF must cheat on me to love me.... Brooo, who pay for ya schoool feez?

Adufaye: Dats d damm truth...kudoz op..2 add 2 it,relationship,cn last 4 many yrs bt wil surely break...same wit courtship n marriageship(pls if u wnt 2 mari or u r maried dnt cal ur mariage,mariageship! Cal it maried lyf ) BCUS ALL SHIP MUST SINK AND BREAK 1DAY

sexkillz: Number 2 and 3 is pure nonsense and you should be flogged for spewing that much crap!

vivian chinaza:

Ok, SK, I totally disagree with you.

First of all, couples shortly fall out of love all the time, even in marriage.... Its normal, its natural. That doesn't mean its not true love or anything.

Then second of all, people cheat in relationships at some point.....I'm not talking about sexua...l cheating o. People lie at some point in relationships, people deny each other that needed attention at some point. And by relationship standard that's cheating. All you need to ask yourself is: When is cheating cheating?

sexkillz: That it happens to a certain group of people doesn't make it a "fact". . . You don't pull facts out of thin air. And yes, there are some people that do not cheat on their partners in anyway at all, but you'll never catch me dead calling that a "fact". . .

I maintain it's craptotatic!

vivian chinaza:


My dear, its a fact! That you haven't experienced doesn't make it otherwise, and trust me you will, cos its like a rite of passage. And you have no idea how many people it has happened to becos most people don't wear their relationship problems on their foreheads.

Do people in a relationship shortly fall out of love? Hell yes! How they manage it at that particular moment is what determines everything. Some when that happen to them, they withdraw emnotionally and stay emotionally withdrawn until a crack brings down the house. But some find away to make it work, some ignite that fire again and they move on.

Telling me that couples don't cheat at some point in a relationship? Lol, Sorry, SK.... You are inexperienced in this field. All your relationship must be made in heaven.

The truth is couples do and I'm gonna give u typical examples:

1. Couples lie at some point, either by commission or omission and sometimes to protect the other person's feelings.
2. Sometimes couples shut each other out..... They are so entangled with their own individual problems and they don't feel like letting each other in, in this case one is usually more patient and understanding than the other.
3. Couples are not each other's priority all the time. For the women, their babies come first most times and for the guys their job or career or whatever. Whenever this happens, their partners are emotionally neglected.

I can go on ...... But if you haven't operated on some certain level in a relationship, you won't find out about this.

Flytefalls: "Love" and "relationships" are not interchangeable.

Flytefalls: "Love" and "relationships" are not interchangeable.

190-the-clown:




True

ledafaze:



Hmm... 190 mr clown... U carry ur love story reach Nairaland? U dey tail dis lady ni? Oga o!

seedord247: So you mean my GF must cheat on me to love me.... Brooo, who pay for ya schoool feez?

toksade:

Sorry pls, I don't mean harm but I suggest you should ask somebody to read the write up and explain it for you for better understanding and stop disgracing yourself with the intension of insulting the writer.

seedord247: So you mean my GF must cheat on me to love me.... Brooo, who pay for ya schoool feez?

vivian chinaza:

Ok, SK, I totally disagree with you.

First of all, couples shortly fall out of love all the time, even in marriage.... Its normal, its natural. That doesn't mean its not true love or anything.

Then second of all, people cheat in relationships at some point.....I'm not talking about sexua...l cheating o. People lie at some point in relationships, people deny each other that needed attention at some point. And by relationship standard that's cheating. All you need to ask yourself is: When is cheating cheating?