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Why You Should Not Marry A Girl Below 25 Years Of Age by DailyNews(m): 11:42am On Dec 18, 2012
For guys out there clamoring to marry young sixteen girls, beware, unless you are fully prepared to entertain drama and child splay. Now, in as much as we have some ladies who got married successfully below the age of 25 years, it is not in any way advisable for any young man to marry a girl below the age of 25.

When you marry a girl below 25 years, she will end up being a drama queen until she overgrows this peak age in her life. A girl below 25 years in the Nigerian scenario, is still an undergraduate (only very few have graduated and served in the national youth service programme at this age), she still believes she is the queen of the world because so many men are obviously approaching her for friendship, dates, marriages, and this makes her to always assume that she is ‘hot’, and can hardly be humble to any man that ends up marrying her at this age.

When a girl is below the age of 25, she believes so much in immaterial things, she clamors for parties, clubbing, latest fashion, gadgets, and in fact fun in general. At this age, 95% of girls spend 99.9% of their time thinking about which latest clothe, shoe, jewelry, handset, etc to acquire, and which party to attend, so how do you expect such a girl to make a good wife? Majority of men who ended up marrying girls below the age of 25 years are regretting it, because the first two to three years of their marriage are often filled with drama.

If you marry a girl below 25 years, she can hardly listen to you when you say you don’t have money to meet her numerous immaterial needs. In fact, she may end up fighting you or insulting you both directly and indirectly. In most cases, she will start to recount the wealthy men who would have married her if not for you who came to deceive her.

When you marry a girl below the age of 25 years, be rest assured that her friends, fashion, and socializing will be her top priorities instead of your marriage with her. If you try to stop her from associating with her unreasonable female friends, you may end up becoming her worst enemy who came to tie her down with marriage when her mates are out there catching fun. She will use all sorts of insulting words against you whenever there is a little misunderstanding.

If you have made up your mind to marry a girl below the age of 25 years, be prepared to spend most of your income on latest female wears, fashion, gadgets, unnecessary vacations, frivolous outings, exorbitant birthday and child dedication parties because she will always want to impress her friends and to show them that she is living a bigger life than them even when things are not that glossy.

When a girl is below the age of 25 years, marriage is not on her top priorities, only few have marriage as a priority at this age- she is more concerned with having fun, traveling around cities, going on dates at trendy restaurants and lodging at the best hotels and suits. Only few think about raising a family, only few think about raising kids.

But when you marry a girl above 25 years upwards, who has graduated from higher institution, did NYSC, stayed in her father’s house, turned to a diehard Christian praying day and night for a husband without any coming forth, believe me, the day you take her to the altar will be her happiest day in life, and when she comes into your home, she will respect, love and cherish you so much because you are her answered prayer. If you want peace, happiness, humility and respect, marry a mature lady that is above 25 years of age.

When a girl is above the age of 25, she longs for marriage, she desires to live happily in a man’s house, she is tired of her friends, in fact she is tired of going on dates and parties, she just wants to start her own family and answer a mom. At this age too, she is more career-driven than fun-driven; she is more concerned with how to create wealth for her children, she is concerned with how to save for her family, she is concerned with how to make more money for the future of her kids, and not how to spend more money to impress her friends and to get more wealthy male admirers.

In conclusion, if you want a happy marriage devoid of drama and quarrels, do away with the mentality of ‘I want to marry a young girl’. Remember, this does not in any way dispute the fact that there are no wise and intelligent girls who exhibit maturity and good moral conduct below the age of 25 years, but statistically, it is not in any way advisable for you as a man to marry a girl below the age of 25. This excludes cases of betrothing of wife practiced by some tribes and religion, such cases are never ideal.

Finally, whenever you want to marry, obey this rule: +10year or -10years. What do I mean by this? Do not marry someone who is more than 10 years older or younger than you are if you want a happy lasting marriage. Wishing you all a happy xmas celebrations and a prosperous new year in advance.


Courtesy: ngn blog

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Re: Why You Should Not Marry A Girl Below 25 Years Of Age by chikeorji123(m): 12:33pm On Dec 18, 2012
Honestly you hits an elderly points infact 1000likes.
u know the funny facts about this below 24 age kids sorry l mean girls they always assume that time is on their side b/f they discover their home movie expectations is not appearing into reality then you will see them mentioning GOD' name on facebook and forwarding prayer request to their difference pastor branches nationwide.
NOTE:Every ladies have her own husband but the reason why we have percentage of single rise on monthly basis is most of them access their suitors base on materials things courtesy of his pocket.

'Real men don't come with attractive packages'.

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Re: Why You Should Not Marry A Girl Below 25 Years Of Age by Nobody: 12:45pm On Dec 18, 2012
Seriously op, you are one very annoying character on nairaland.
What hogwash!
angry

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Re: Why You Should Not Marry A Girl Below 25 Years Of Age by DailyNews(m): 12:52pm On Dec 18, 2012
chikeorji123: Honestly you hits an elderly points infact 1000likes.
u know the funny facts about this below 24 age kids sorry l mean girls they always assume that time is on their side b/f they discover their home movie expectations is not appearing into reality then you will see them mentioning GOD' name on facebook and forwarding prayer request to their difference pastor branches nationwide.
NOTE:Every ladies have her own husband but the reason why we have percentage of single rise on monthly basis is most of them access their suitors base on materials things courtesy of his pocket.

'Real men don't come with attractive packages'.

smiley kiss
Re: Why You Should Not Marry A Girl Below 25 Years Of Age by DailyNews(m): 12:52pm On Dec 18, 2012
AmBeautiful: Seriously op, you are one very annoying character on nairaland.
What hogwash!
angry
cry lipsrsealed
Re: Why You Should Not Marry A Girl Below 25 Years Of Age by Kemy11: 1:40pm On Dec 18, 2012
Tell our aboki brothers and yerimas
Re: Why You Should Not Marry A Girl Below 25 Years Of Age by Nobody: 1:46pm On Dec 18, 2012
I totally disagree,i got married b4 25 and am not/never been a drama queen*ask my husband* tongue
Re: Why You Should Not Marry A Girl Below 25 Years Of Age by DailyNews(m): 2:04pm On Dec 18, 2012
Kemy11: Tell our aboki brothers and yerimas

DailyNews: This excludes cases of betrothing of wife practiced by some tribes and religion, such cases are never ideal.

The above quote answered your question I guess
Re: Why You Should Not Marry A Girl Below 25 Years Of Age by DailyNews(m): 2:08pm On Dec 18, 2012
ceewai lebi: I-totally-disagree,i-got-married-b4-25-and-am-not/never-been-a-drama-queen*ask-my-husband* tongue

DailyNews: Now, in as much as we have some ladies who got married successfully below the age of 25 years, it is not in any way advisable for any young man to marry a girl below the age of 25.
the above quote from the original write-up and this one
DailyNews: Remember, this does not in any way dispute the fact that there are no wise and intelligent girls who exhibit maturity and good moral conduct below the age of 25 years, but statistically, it is not in any way advisable for you as a man to marry a girl below the age of 25.
ought to answer your critics
Re: Why You Should Not Marry A Girl Below 25 Years Of Age by Uniquexty(f): 3:32pm On Dec 18, 2012
I just booked my space. Hello boss!
Re: Why You Should Not Marry A Girl Below 25 Years Of Age by ITbomb(m): 3:42pm On Dec 18, 2012
***singing Fela***
Basket mouth don come again e o
Re: Why You Should Not Marry A Girl Below 25 Years Of Age by ITbomb(m): 3:50pm On Dec 18, 2012
Maybe it is because of the kind of girls u hang out with,
she is tired of her friends, in fact she is
tired of going on dates and parties
I surely will not pray for a retired dates and party goer.
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It is written somewhere, 'catch them young and they shall be yours forever' , no someone who will be comparing you with Ex no. 4 and 6.
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Advice: know a girl before u say 'I luv U' and even think of marriage, especially if u found her online
Re: Why You Should Not Marry A Girl Below 25 Years Of Age by Duke_Nija(m): 4:02pm On Dec 18, 2012
I think the OP has some good points there.
But there are so many exceptions.
Maturity isn't really about Age.

Maybe you should write on why Men should get married to Women below 25.
Re: Why You Should Not Marry A Girl Below 25 Years Of Age by kulyie: 7:37pm On Dec 18, 2012
When i was a child,i spoke,acted and thought as a child,but when i grew up,i put away childish things,poster what is your point now? Why are u disturbing d peace of nairaland
Re: Why You Should Not Marry A Girl Below 25 Years Of Age by Vivly(f): 8:12pm On Dec 18, 2012
Op, not even 1 like. Sowi
Re: Why You Should Not Marry A Girl Below 25 Years Of Age by Jaykizz(m): 8:24pm On Dec 18, 2012
10000likes to u. U 2 much. Jst hate material gals. Dy mostly lack d IQ upstairs.
Re: Why You Should Not Marry A Girl Below 25 Years Of Age by DailyNews(m): 11:49am On Dec 19, 2012
Uniquexty: I just booked my space. Hello boss!
kiss kiss
Re: Why You Should Not Marry A Girl Below 25 Years Of Age by DailyNews(m): 11:49am On Dec 19, 2012
Vivly: Op, not even 1 like. Sowi
cry angry cry
Re: Why You Should Not Marry A Girl Below 25 Years Of Age by DailyNews(m): 11:52am On Dec 19, 2012
Jaykizz: 10000likes to u. U 2 much. Jst hate material gals. Dy mostly lack d IQ upstairs.
kiss cool kiss
Re: Why You Should Not Marry A Girl Below 25 Years Of Age by Willy7(m): 10:32pm On Dec 19, 2012
@Op,for one reason or the other,i've always thought along this same line.When it comes to ladies below 25,i really have my reservations,and i dont see myself having anything to do with them.Just my kind of person anyway,but i do know,and like u put it,that age doesnt neccesarilly depicts maturity.My point is,i totally agree with you.Talking from experience too. One love
Re: Why You Should Not Marry A Girl Below 25 Years Of Age by Nobody: 4:54am On Dec 20, 2012
Guys shouldnt marry before 25 either. lipsrsealed
Re: Why You Should Not Marry A Girl Below 25 Years Of Age by jmoore(m): 10:50am On Dec 20, 2012
@op, I don't need to read your entire post before I conclude it is a trash. smh
Re: Why You Should Not Marry A Girl Below 25 Years Of Age by DailyNews(m): 1:56pm On Dec 20, 2012
Willy7: @Op,for one reason or the other,i've always thought along this same line.When it comes to ladies below 25,i really have my reservations,and i dont see myself having anything to do with them.Just my kind of person anyway,but i do know,and like u put it,that age doesnt neccesarilly depicts maturity.My point is,i totally agree with you.Talking from experience too. One love

kiss cool
Re: Why You Should Not Marry A Girl Below 25 Years Of Age by DailyNews(m): 1:56pm On Dec 20, 2012
SniperInADiaper: Guys shouldnt marry before 25 either. lipsrsealed
there's sense in what u said too... wink
Re: Why You Should Not Marry A Girl Below 25 Years Of Age by swtdarling(f): 2:09pm On Dec 20, 2012
since when did age depicts maturity.you and your biased write ups.and to think you actually put such crap in your blog
Re: Why You Should Not Marry A Girl Below 25 Years Of Age by KINGwax(m): 3:16pm On Dec 20, 2012
Am kinda enjoyin my fiance now. But bfor ehn? I was almost going deranged wit rage!!!
now, she's on to 25. Things has been so ''funny_ly'' peaceful
Re: Why You Should Not Marry A Girl Below 25 Years Of Age by Flytefalls(f): 3:29pm On Dec 20, 2012
angry

do-do
Re: Why You Should Not Marry A Girl Below 25 Years Of Age by DailyNews(m): 3:42pm On Dec 20, 2012
swtdarling: since when did age depicts maturity.you and your biased write ups.and to think you actually put such crap in your blog

We always claim that age isn't maturity, but at the long run, age decides our daily actions, so....anyway, my write-ups don't always come to please and make people merry, but to enlighten, open eyes and make people go sober in deep wisdom...thanks for stopping by smiley
Re: Why You Should Not Marry A Girl Below 25 Years Of Age by DailyNews(m): 3:44pm On Dec 20, 2012
KINGwax: Am kinda enjoyin my fiance now. But bfor ehn? I was almost going deranged wit rage!!!
now, she's on to 25. Things has been so ''funny_ly'' peaceful

Thanks for being objective and honest...I am glad that in as much as some people chose to criticize and condemn the write-up, others find wisdom and sense in it...thanks once again smiley
Re: Why You Should Not Marry A Girl Below 25 Years Of Age by DailyNews(m): 3:44pm On Dec 20, 2012
Flytefalls: angry

do-do

cry
Re: Why You Should Not Marry A Girl Below 25 Years Of Age by Dolly-Parton(f): 10:41pm On Dec 20, 2012
I dont have these traits and never had it
Re: Why You Should Not Marry A Girl Below 25 Years Of Age by beylinko(m): 11:22pm On Dec 20, 2012
D Op is really rite abt dis 1. Funny enough,i ws talkin to a friend abt dis just few weeks ago.
Let me add dis: abt dis age girls are lyk peacock fully blown n always want attention,want 2 be courted by numerinous males.

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