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Re: Nigerian Men Regret Marrying Nigerian Women In The USA by RealMccoy2(m): 6:53am On Dec 20, 2012 |
shymexx:True that. The more you dig in the more you will find out that a honest one is a rare gem. Most of my friends are Nigerians but I tend to be selective when it comes to real friends. Keep a distance if you don't want your life story to be on from page of NL....lol |
Re: Nigerian Men Regret Marrying Nigerian Women In The USA by Nobody: 6:59am On Dec 20, 2012 |
Real-Mccoy: I hear that... That's where keeping-a-close-circle/being-picky comes into play not all and sundry... |
Re: Nigerian Men Regret Marrying Nigerian Women In The USA by davidbettina: 7:00am On Dec 20, 2012 |
i agree with the writter.even here in italy, nigerian women are worse |
Re: Nigerian Men Regret Marrying Nigerian Women In The USA by RealMccoy2(m): 7:33am On Dec 20, 2012 |
shymexx:Only a fool will leave Nigeria for Europe or America and then keep same people as circle of friends. Many Nigerians complain to me after college that they don't seems to progress meanwhile all their friends are from Nigeria. Anyways the issue of divorce amongst Nigerians abroad and even at home are always treated with kid gloves. Our people are good in pretending . If this topic was about tribe or something dumb it would have been on page ten and counting 1 Like |
Re: Nigerian Men Regret Marrying Nigerian Women In The USA by tpia5: 1:27pm On Dec 20, 2012 |
Real-Mccoy: Why dont you stop sharing your personal stories, just a thought. |
Re: Nigerian Men Regret Marrying Nigerian Women In The USA by mimifonwon(f): 3:41pm On Dec 20, 2012 |
seedord247: what is "nak aphako ?, " and yes what i say about my fam is true, never said parents havent arguedoo, am sure they do, but they do it in the privacy of their bedroom, not in front of us. I think one thing that helped them was making sure early on they separated their chores in the house, my mother used the money she made to pay our school fees all through uni ..food,sports etc, basically she took care of the house needs and kids needs, while my dad just paid the mortgage of the house and insurance,vacations and nigerian properties, so money matter never was a prob really, and we went to private schools from elementary to uni so it wasnt cheap. My dad attended most of our sport games, and school plays and my mother rarely did. My dad cooked when he could and my mom when she could after my grandma left, but we had our grandma around ( my mom's mom) for over 12 years, so she did most of the cooking till my sisters and i took over the kitchen. So i think if couples dealt with that money issue they can easily avoid most arguments, especially in the nigerian community. |
Re: Nigerian Men Regret Marrying Nigerian Women In The USA by tomakint: 4:54am On Dec 21, 2012 |
Real-Mccoy:you have said it all, he (dayokanu a.k.a Ogbomosho Goat) is a perfect blend of a goat and a monkey always runnin to and fro this forum like a restless demon! Wao, i really enjoyed readin ur post good job! Next time, ignore the bigot |
Re: Nigerian Men Regret Marrying Nigerian Women In The USA by tomakint: 4:59am On Dec 21, 2012 |
Real-Mccoy:The reason we are like that I don't know, i have witnessed many terrible tales in London especially Peckham, it was hellish...we are terrible abroad its dat bad |
Re: Nigerian Men Regret Marrying Nigerian Women In The USA by oligo2011: 3:17am On Aug 28, 2013 |
His all about who u lov nd who lovs u,we need to stop saying let me go and mary 9ja lady,dose days are gone my brother,a wis man learn from others mistake u might not have a 2nd chance, heart atack is standing near by to strik y going close.mary ur sweet heart any amount will be enough for the family. my wife is at home every night y wil i b with some one who lov money than me sleep at work for 4 day b cos of almighty $, na wa'o. is ok what ever but not with me luk for some one alse. 1 Like |
Re: Nigerian Men Regret Marrying Nigerian Women In The USA by Nobody: 9:32am On Aug 28, 2013 |
LocalChamp: Saving The Nigerian Family In The US – Nigerian Men Regretting Getting Married To Nigerian Women In The US? U are very correct. Nigerians in America are getting madder by the day in their approach to marriage. The woman U described in ur write is a typical example of what my ex is and I thank God we separated. I rather do a God fearing akata over a nonsense party hopping naija |
Re: Nigerian Men Regret Marrying Nigerian Women In The USA by 99cent: 6:42am On Aug 29, 2013 |
that's just a symptom of being black. can someone spell dysfunctional |
Re: Nigerian Men Regret Marrying Nigerian Women In The USA by Ugosample(m): 10:39am On Aug 29, 2013 |
Most Naija men for US dey dull! See fine and successful black and white chicks every where dey find husband... Na to go marry one mgbeke for village bring am come US dem sabi... |
Re: Nigerian Men Regret Marrying Nigerian Women In The USA by Nobody: 6:58pm On Aug 30, 2013 |
Ugosample: Most Naija men for US dey dull! See fine and successful black and white chicks every where dey find husband... Na to go marry one mgbeke for village bring am come US dem sabi... The issue is not as clear cut as you seem to think. After all and vice versa, we see many American (both white and black) coming to Africa, especialy Nigeria, to look for Husbands. |
Re: Nigerian Men Regret Marrying Nigerian Women In The USA by Ugosample(m): 3:02pm On Aug 31, 2013 |
Somorin#1:Leave story... To me it's not reasonable, after my uncle{s} experience. find better babe marry for there to avoid heartache. You know Nigerian women {or should i say females}are great pretenders? |
Re: Nigerian Men Regret Marrying Nigerian Women In The USA by MrsChima(f): 4:35pm On Aug 31, 2013 |
Somorin#1: That's not accurate....the American women both online and off who either move to Nigeria or visit Nigeria are because of the Nigerian men they have met online or through mutual settings. All of them said Nigerian men approached them and engaged a relationship. You must be referring to other foreigners. |
Re: Nigerian Men Regret Marrying Nigerian Women In The USA by Venchy: 10:05am On Sep 01, 2013 |
Real-Mccoy: Very true, Nigerians lives in denial. ....Pretends all the way while there's serious ragging fire in their house. |
Re: Nigerian Men Regret Marrying Nigerian Women In The USA by Nobody: 1:29am On Sep 02, 2013 |
Ugosample: Leave story... To me it's not reasonable, after my uncle{s} experience. find better babe marry for there to avoid heartache. You know Nigerian women {or should i say females}are great pretenders? Perhaps it's an age thing. But once you have the benefit of age then you'll realize that Women are mostly the same universally. IMHO, the assumption that a Nigerian Woman is a she devil and an American Woman is an angel can be disproven by spending just one day in any family court in the US. “The truth is, everyone is going to hurt you. You just got to find the ones worth suffering for.” Bob Marley 1 Like |
Re: Nigerian Men Regret Marrying Nigerian Women In The USA by Nobody: 1:35am On Sep 02, 2013 |
Mrs.Chima: What is the difference between what I posted and what you posted? My intent was to show that Nigerian Men in the US should not be faulted for looking for relationships in Nigeria when even American Women are also looking in Nigeria for mates. There are FaceBook pages specifically dedicated to introducing Nigerian Men in Nigeria to American Women in America. YMMV. |
Re: Nigerian Men Regret Marrying Nigerian Women In The USA by blessed4ever: 5:38am On Sep 02, 2013 |
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Re: Nigerian Men Regret Marrying Nigerian Women In The USA by Afrobeau: 6:53am On Oct 11, 2013 |
[quote author=Real-Mccoy]you can breed your American wife to act like a Nigerian quote] If you really don't want Nigerian women, or should I say if Akata or any other Non-Nigerian is better than Nigerian women, why would you try to make her act like a Nigerian women. I would rather have a Nigerian woman than a half baked foreign wife 2 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Men Regret Marrying Nigerian Women In The USA by Afrobeau: 6:58am On Oct 11, 2013 |
tpia@:I wonder, all these people who claim to marry Non Nigerians that can do what Nigerian women do. why then don't they go ahead with the Nigerian ladies? I think most of the men commenting here are the brainwashed ones acting like some Black American men who always bash their women |
Re: Nigerian Men Regret Marrying Nigerian Women In The USA by Afrobeau: 7:03am On Oct 11, 2013 |
Ugosample: Most Naija men for US dey dull! See fine and successful black and white chicks every where dey find husband... Na to go marry one mgbeke for village bring am come US dem sabi...You sound like a typical Id*ot, black and white women in America are the fine ones, but then our women are the Village Mgbekes? I guess you've never lived abroad because I know a lot of fellow men who married those white chicks and akatas and are regretting their actions. One even told me he made a huge mistake which he won't like me to make. 1 Like |
Re: Nigerian Men Regret Marrying Nigerian Women In The USA by Ugosample(m): 7:15am On Oct 12, 2013 |
Afrobeau:Says who? I visited my uncle in L.A. just before his marriage broke up. This woman was a pest, coming home very late, being snobbish, e.t.c. This is a woman who he picked from the village (my uncle(s) and my dad inclusive are strong advocates of marrying from your hometown) and trained in America. At least 80% Igbo residents in Carson did the same and most of them regret it. One even divorced him, took 50& of his assets including the family house and was spending the money on Toy boys. Now she's a wretched b**ch. Maybe i shouldn't have generalised(my bad) but i spoke of what i saw while with him. When i'm ready to marry, i'm gonna be open minded as my wife must not be Igbo or Nigeria. That's my advice, based on my experience. |
Re: Nigerian Men Regret Marrying Nigerian Women In The USA by Ugosample(m): 7:41am On Oct 12, 2013 |
Somorin#1:Women are almost the same, i know. But is it compulsory that your wife must be from your homeland. My dad is on my neck, telling ne and my cousins that we MUST bring home an Igbo girl for marriage. That's causing problem for us. And i think some people on this forum are hypocrites; it is okay to generalise foreign women as demons but it is not okay to generalise Nigerian women as same. You people haven't seen the monsters many of them become when they cross over. |
Re: Nigerian Men Regret Marrying Nigerian Women In The USA by addictiv(m): 2:21pm On Oct 12, 2013 |
mehn you guys are scaring me with all these revelations............and family is like "you must marry an igbo woman who knows our traditions and way of life. "..but what use is that if she becomes a thorn in the flesh... |
Re: Nigerian Men Regret Marrying Nigerian Women In The USA by Ugosample(m): 5:07pm On Oct 12, 2013 |
addictiv: mehn you guys are scaring me with all these revelations............and family is like "you must marry an igbo woman who knows our traditions and way of life. "..but what use is that if she becomes a thorn in the flesh...Is your family also insisting that you must marry an Igbo woman? You see where the problem comes from... Why must they narrow my horizon? That won't happen. |
Re: Nigerian Men Regret Marrying Nigerian Women In The USA by Ugosample(m): 5:10pm On Oct 12, 2013 |
addictiv: mehn you guys are scaring me with all these revelations............and family is like "you must marry an igbo woman who knows our traditions and way of life. "..but what use is that if she becomes a thorn in the flesh...Is your family also insisting that you must marry an Igbo woman? You see where the problem comes from... Why must they narrow my horizon? That won't happen. P.S. This is not to say that Igbo women or Nigerian women are bad, but my submission is... As long as you can tolerate her faults, it's okay. |
Re: Nigerian Men Regret Marrying Nigerian Women In The USA by Ugosample(m): 5:15pm On Oct 12, 2013 |
addictiv: mehn you guys are scaring me with all these revelations............and family is like "you must marry an igbo woman who knows our traditions and way of life. "..but what use is that if she becomes a thorn in the flesh... |
Re: Nigerian Men Regret Marrying Nigerian Women In The USA by addictiv(m): 9:16pm On Oct 12, 2013 |
Ugosample: Is your family also insisting that you must marry an Igbo woman? You see where the problem comes from... Why must they narrow my horizon? That won't happen. P.S. This is not to say that Igbo women or Nigerian women are bad, but my submission is... As long as you can tolerate her faults, it's okay.took it as a joke initially but these people are looking for war... |
Re: Nigerian Men Regret Marrying Nigerian Women In The USA by Happywoman(f): 11:31pm On Oct 12, 2013 |
One of my uncle had the misfortune of marrying one of these demonic desperadoes desperate for husband ones. Resigned his oil coy job here in Naija, and broke the heart of one lovely innocent nurse he was dating and followed this mean hearted man slaying Iye Lekute to Uk thinking it was a case of destiny reuniting him with his former high school love only to find out she was a demon. I don't ever pity him . It's over 20 yrs now no kid from her and she is not even bothered . When any of us even as much as call or dare visit , na so she go dey haunt u dey threaten with olopa. So the entire kindred has abandoned him to his choice. ESP since when she locked our cousin up saying she was trying to snatch her husband. Imagine dat! Simply because the babe made our local dish wen she visited dem in UK and my uncle praised her . My pple open ur eyes welllllllll and loooooook well well b4 u leap .the chick wen go grow bcom Rooster na from infancy person they detect am. If a partner has this traits , dont say love is blind and go ahead amd marry or move the person to somwhere,and start having hbp cos he/she wants to throw u under the bus for a meal ticket. Don't agree to be anyone's maga. I invite u to com join me chop, u com begin hold my hand say make me no chop again. Thunder fire such pple! More money doesn't always equal more joy! 1 Like |
Re: Nigerian Men Regret Marrying Nigerian Women In The USA by MrsChima(f): 2:39am On Oct 13, 2013 |
Somorin#1: The difference is obvious and facebook page has nothing to do with AMERICAN women going to Nigeria looking for husbands. Nairaland promotes romance between Nigerians yet Nairalanders aren't marrying each other in droves. |
Re: Nigerian Men Regret Marrying Nigerian Women In The USA by MrsChima(f): 2:43am On Oct 13, 2013 |
[quote author=Afrobeau][/quote] I agree on one thing you have said...don't force a non-Nigerian to be a Nigerian. I find it brave for women to marry foreign men without papers. 1 Like |
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