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Digging into ur partner's past is a recipe 4 disaster. Trust dem to tell u dat part of their past dat can change the dynamics of ur relationship, if u hear it 4rm any oda source apart 4rm dem.

I ask lots bout a woman's past. But guess wat, it makes me love dem more n try to walk dem out of der pasts, i jus had a break up some days back, but b4 den i had by the grace of God helped her stand firm, bouncin in the Lord, n happy to let her go, i even prayed for her though it hurt me alot, but i said to myself my assignment in her life is completed. Bt i think guys using d past to judge d present n future, are immature

men ALWAYS want to know about the past men...but would become livid should you compare them to your ex/es!!

tulk2mi: Digging into ur partner's past is a recipe 4 disaster. Trust dem to tell u dat part of their past dat can change the dynamics of ur relationship, if u hear it 4rm any oda source apart 4rm dem.

I agree. don't get me wrong, it's good to know what you are getting yourself into.
it's healthy and natural to be curious but some people take it to another level.
as i said in another thread, do the research on the person you are interested in but don't
make their past choices/mistakes outweigh the connection you have.

One thing I do whenever a girl tells me the no of guys she has gone to bed with is to multiply the no by 3,to get the actual figure.

*Kails*:


I agree. don't get me wrong, it's good to know what you are getting yourself into.
it's healthy and natural to be curious but some people take it to another level.
as i said in another thread, do the research on the person you are interested in but don't
make their past choices/mistakes outweigh the connection you have.

I also agree wit u, but it is not everyone dat is matured enuf to deal wit wat they might uncover,thats y i advise to play safe nd trust ur love 4 ur partner. Curiosity kills the cat u knowLet the sleeping dog lie.

I don't mind talking about my past relationships, some I learnt from some were a waste of time. Im really not bothered by the number of women who came before me but I do have the right to know if he has kids, been divorced and his health...

acidosis™:


JESUS JESUS!!!!!! *shocked*shocked*


+ you = 25!


Papa God na beg I dey beg, I nor want jam this girl...

Lol...dnt u think he's exaggerating?

larrymoore: Pleas n please l am nt interested in ur past relationship, l only need ur true self because l ve my ugly and unmentionable past which l may nt be earnestly n honestly detailed. We all had our mistakes while growing up n the most regretable mistakes come from dating or nay relationship.

Co-sign

anthoniaz:

Lol...dnt u think he's exaggerating?

Well,i'm not exaggerating cos dat's wat she told me but I didnt judge her based on dat. I was actually happy she told me d truth n we almost got married(shows u I'd forgotten her past). Personally,I'd feel @ peace knowing everything you've done so I can defend u wen someone tries to blackmail u. However,if u keep secrets from me n someone tries to use it against me/us later,we might break up n neva come back together cos i'll neva trust u. I dnt keep secrets,I like to live wit a clear consciencen heart. And yes,I'm matured to take d dirtiest secrets abt ur past cos I know no one is a saint. We all have our pasts n no one should be judged solely based on d past. I'd rather look for d good things in u n see how to help u become a beta person. I'd only look into ur past if u're nt willing to change,n do not look like u'll change in d nearest future.

larrymoore: Pleas n please l am nt interested in ur past relationship, l only need ur true self because l ve my ugly and unmentionable past which l may nt be earnestly n honestly detailed. We all had our mistakes while growing up n the most regretable mistakes come from dating or nay relationship.

Speak for yourself.
I want to know her everything about her past relationships including sex partners, friends that collected benefits, abortions, std.....
Did i miss anything?

perhaps,she double date and even triple date for three months and d highest bidder wins 4 some time. After 2 month break, the cycle continues!