andyanders:

Men note, not all women. Let us not say all women are players of this negative attitude been displayed by those who do not have morals.

There are descent ladies who still see those ladies who make themselves cheap as doing wrong to womanhood. so let us not say all women.

Why are men no longer pursuing women?

moresignal: Am a lesbian... So, who cares

am a lesbian too so lets tangle

franchizy:

Bros abeg which one is PAY AS YOU GO so I can subscribe cos it will be very economical

Go allen avenue for nite for LAGOS then shout PAY AS YOU GO!!
whatever befalls you nor talk say na 190 send you

joeydozzy: you think we don't try? we've given up on you girls who do all they can now to stray us from them. maybe its this generation I've seen but we've wooed to the point that we've been embarrassed, made vague and lugubrious expenses with nothing to show for it.

what you should be complaining about here is why you girls make it hard for us. After going for about 8 dates, you'll decide you don't see him more than a friend or worse still, the first base now kicks in.

help us by giving us signs but for the meantime I don park bus

vivian chinaza: Who says they are tired? They ain't jare.....

andyanders:

Men note, not all women. Let us not say all women are players of this negative attitude been displayed by those who do not have morals.

There are descent ladies who still see those ladies who make themselves cheap as doing wrong to womanhood. so let us not say all women.

andyanders:

Even at that, you must uphold your integrity and decency to know how you carry yourself. It's a complement for you to be appreciated by the opposite sex but one has to be himself/herself.
In the US, sometimes when you go to a club, you can allow your female friend or male friend to dance with another person in order to see if you are still been admired or appreciated, but just for the fun and you can exchange numbers after you two get together and discuss it.But you dont go looking for the other person as you destroy the contact as soon as you go through it.

Since you look pretty, you must have to get admirers but you should know your limit of commitment.

oyin50: personally I don't think a good, reserved woman needs to sternly advocate her qualities. Men aren't blind, smart men have got discerning capabilities regardless of how well concealed those gory traits are kept.

ovo4u: @ OP chopurmoni

Okay let the chasing start: I just saw ur picture on your profile and am very interested in you, I'm sure you are one of the most beautilful thing I have seen on Nairaland and even todays 21.12.12 where everyone is saying the world will end. Pls I mean this for real, you just made me believe from your picture that the world will never end.

So pls kindly tell me how many days do I need to chase you until you will get to my city here in Freiburg ? I'm honest guy, I hate the waiting part, so don't beat about the bushes.

Revolva: When people dey think how to make mega money -- to solve problem wey no dey finish for dis world - na woman I go dey waste my energy for - look bitches chase me - not me - cos if I must chase a gal know I must be in love - ask ur self where is the love without money?

otokx:

hmmm

geekinthelead: [img]https://www.nairaland.com/avatars/963212[/img]


chaiii ChopUrmoni na you be dis?? chai you fine o... nna we fit link abeg? I no dey too far from pako bus stop, aguda here

ChopUrMoni: Have you ever played hide and seek? If you have, then you know that once the person has been found by the finder its not the end of the game. The person found must run and the finder would have to pursue until they have caught them. Then and only then is the the game over.

I have noticed a trend among a lot of men. They have become so lazy that they do not bother chasing the girl they love. The saying "ah... its just a girl, they are many more out there" and "she's playing hard to get, i cant be bothered and she's not the only beautiful girl out there anyway" have become so popular among men especially black men.

What happened to the value of chasing a woman? Why has it become so worthless and looked down upon. Would men of today have survived many years ago. Men in those days didn't complain when they pursued the girl they loved, in many cases suffered in the hands of the girls family and then paid a massive amount to have her as his wife. Today it's a lot easier yet men are not willing or should I say are too lazy to pursue the woman of their dreams. Oh i forgot... there are too many fishes in sea. Why bother right?

Men, we love to be pursued and conquered by you. Why do you all think the stories of Cinderella, Snow white, Rapunzel and the like are so loved by girls? They all had one thing in common. A prince who not only found them but also fought for them. Trust me we love to be chased and caught by you.

If you are not serious with the girl then don't bother. But, if you do love her don't allow you friends to push you to get over her after she has rejected you twice. Try a little harder than twice. I noticed white guys have always chased me fervently. But when it comes to black men, even though they profess to loving me so deeply they don't bother if i don't respond to them after a specific time. If any race of man on earth should know how to pursue a woman fervently until he captures her it should be a black man because thats what you fathers and grand fathers did. It's in your DNA So now, what are you waiting for? Get started!

KateSpade: If you are worth pursuing a man (or men) will come after you. People know the difference between playing hard to get and actually hard to get.

andyanders:

Unless you are gay hence you call women bitches. Your type don't even have the money. Without a good woman, you cannot even enjoy your wealth no matter what. Men display their ego attitude when you see women.

Even God who created a man saw that it was not good for a man to stay ;r live alone hence He made a woman to complement a man. So you as a man thinking only money goes to show that you are not a real man.

Sagamite:

What will make you be worth pursuing?

Please educate me.

ChopUrMoni: Have you ever played hide and seek? If you have, then you know that once the person has been found by the finder its not the end of the game. The person found must run and the finder would have to pursue until they have caught them. Then and only then is the the game over.

I have noticed a trend among a lot of men. They have become so lazy that they do not bother chasing the girl they love. The saying "ah... its just a girl, they are many more out there" and "she's playing hard to get, i cant be bothered and she's not the only beautiful girl out there anyway" have become so popular among men especially black men.

What happened to the value of chasing a woman? Why has it become so worthless and looked down upon. Would men of today have survived many years ago. Men in those days didn't complain when they pursued the girl they loved, in many cases suffered in the hands of the girls family and then paid a massive amount to have her as his wife. Today it's a lot easier yet men are not willing or should I say are too lazy to pursue the woman of their dreams. Oh i forgot... there are too many fishes in sea. Why bother right?

Men, we love to be pursued and conquered by you. Why do you all think the stories of Cinderella, Snow white, Rapunzel and the like are so loved by girls? They all had one thing in common. A prince who not only found them but also fought for them. Trust me we love to be chased and caught by you.

If you are not serious with the girl then don't bother. But, if you do love her don't allow you friends to push you to get over her after she has rejected you twice. Try a little harder than twice. I noticed white guys have always chased me fervently. But when it comes to black men, even though they profess to loving me so deeply they don't bother if i don't respond to them after a specific time. If any race of man on earth should know how to pursue a woman fervently until he captures her it should be a black man because thats what you fathers and grand fathers did. It's in your DNA So now, what are you waiting for? Get started!

ChopUrMoni:

True and false. Yes they do pursue those worth pursuing but they are not giving in their best. Even at church i hear the guys give up so easily. Regardless of whether she is virgin and a supermodel its seems like after a few attempts they give up. NOT ALL but a lot more than before! For example it is less likely that a man would pursue a woman for more than 1 year when during our parents and their parents time they pursued and waited for many years and didn't even get the chance to be intimate until they got married. Im not saying they don't but im saying it is difficult to find guys nowadays who do.

dick hardener: mr. man there are some girls worth pursuing though in very minuscule fraction

oyin50: personally I don't think a good, reserved woman needs to sternly advocate her qualities. Men aren't blind, smart men have got discerning capabilities regardless of how well concealed those gory traits are kept.

jaymichael: why buy the cow when you can have the milk for free.