charlsecy4: How about her always threatening to break up?

charlsecy4: How about her always threatening to break up?

Idowuogbo: Hmmm...wot are u doing wrong?

joeydozzy: she's taking you for granted. this one no be love, na management. manage her out of your house

olumaxi: gbam..besides,u r sitin on a tym bomb..breakup wit ha b4 she finaly does

SAFO:

Yes, there are always 2 sides to the story.

Which kind nag be it? Is she nagging you to stop cheating/beating/abusing her? Or is she nagging about trivial matters?

If it's the latter, move on joor. Life is too short for all that wahala. Betta yet, call her bluff and see what she does. My guess is that she'll change her ways

charlsecy4: How do you deal with a girl that nags a lot, and always threatens to break up with you at the slightest, or even no provocation? How could she be managed?

olumaxi: no matter wat..to threaten to quit a relatnshp is a sin against d relatnshp

olumaxi: and it only shows dat d one been threatend wit quit threat means litle or nofin anymore

omega25red:

sometimes it works sometimes it doesn't but you can have a preemptive "biotch get the hell on cause i'm tired of your azz move" in other words call her bluff and tell her to go on then.
If she wasn't already cheating on you, she would try to figure out a way to work it out but if she was cheating on you already then she would leave because she already had options.

joeydozzy:

in this kind of relationship, there's nothing like bluff. she's started nagging and will continue. Even if you curb it for the mean time, she's stopped loving you cos she's always constantly ringing breakup in your ear every now and then cos she wants you to be the person to break the relationship. sooner than he thinks, she'll start cheating that is if she hasn't yet.

she doesn't love him again and pls do away with her before you regret it

omega25red:

sometimes it works sometimes it doesn't but you can have a preemptive "biotch get the hell on cause i'm tired of your azz move" in other words call her bluff and tell her to go on then.
If she wasn't already cheating on you, she would try to figure out a way to work it out but if she was cheating on you already then she would leave because she already had options.

lola.luv:

Your last sentence is not always true. A woman can leave without having any option anywhere. I've done that before.

The Op should say the full story; to get good advice.

olumaxi: no matter wat..to threaten to quit a relatnshp is a sin against d relatnshp itself..and it only shows dat d one been threatend wit quit threat means litle or nofin anymore

Idowuogbo:
Sin? In which holy book?


Wtf? Wot are u saying?

Mynd_44:
What? Are you serious at all?

What if the OP has a really nasty behavious and she is trying to make him change hence the threats?

190-the-clown:
if shes Nigerian then show her the DOOR

if shes white then manage her cos shes more useful

Love nor be by force with these black - ladies

Goldieluks:


*Slaps his mouth*

Idowuogbo: Hmmm...wot are u doing wrong?