LastApostle:
No need of writing epistles to buttress your standpoint. I can make poverty disappear from your lineage permanently.

Lol.... You are so funny! Thank you, but I'm a big girl now. My kid brother and I are doing just great.

lillyveezy:


I dear to differ on materialistic mums raising materialistic daughter.
I have lived a situation where the daughters of a materialstic mum withstood their own mum for their younger sister's marriage.
Their mum was like the guy coming for her younger daughter does not measure up,but these older daughters of hers confronted & resisted all her demands.Today that guy is her in-law,thanks to her daughters.

Yea, you are right too.

vivian chinaza:

Lol.... You are so funny! Thank you, but I'm a big girl now. My kid brother and I are doing just great.

No need for the excuses since you knew I was kidding.
How are you and merry Christmas

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LastApostle:
No need for the excuses since you knew I was kidding.
How are you and merry Christmas

I'm good. Stressful day! Menh..... I don cook so tey my waist hurts. Merry xmas too.

vivian chinaza:

I'm good. Stressful day! Menh..... I don cook so tey my waist hurts. Merry xmas too.

Are you cooking for a whole community or there is an imaginary recipe you are experimenting on?

LastApostle:
Are you cooking for a whole community or there is an imaginary recipe you are experimenting on?

My dear, guests just dey flow come o. Wetin person go do na? I don free small sha.

vivian chinaza:

My dear, guests just dey flow come o. Wetin person go do na? I don free small sha.

Can I in anyway perceive the aroma?

OP, interesting topic raised here...Vivian, u always amaze me with your maturity and good sense of reasoning, keep it up, who knows, your better half may emanate from nairaland someday


Lastapostle, what do you think



All the speakers on this thread spoke well except one person...and that person needs to learn from others fast before things go worst for...them, let go of all your ill character and manner, we are marching into 2013 soon, year of boundless upliftment

Hmmm, I won't be surprised to get an invitation for a wedding between Vivian and Lastapostle come 2013....Pre-courtship has started here,I can feel it.

doctormalik: Hmmm, I won't be surprised to get an invitation for a wedding between Vivian and Lastapostle come 2013....Pre-courtship has started here,I can feel it.

........ Hmmmmmm.

LastApostle:
Can I in anyway perceive the aroma?

are u a cocktail kinda guy? I made plenty cocktail drink. Too tasty. Then snail sauce? I can DHL them to ya. *winks*

@OP
Vivian Chinaza, I like you. Would like to know you better...PM me pls

kunlejazz: @OP
Vivian Chinaza, I like you. Would like to know you better...PM me pls

Hehehehe osetiela!

mentally of ''some'' girls..these days..

@op,what has a long tail and two branches?answer n i will give u ur answer

This boring topic again !

[color=soyouquotedme]190 I hope you read vivian chinaza's post.

Those using blackberry shouldn't intimidate us with their font ooooo.

vivian chinaza, I humbly apply for the office of a boo. [/color]

luvable sam: I called up a friend recently to tell him I was getting married, guess what he did.
He SCREAMED n then asked me who I was getting married to as follows;

HE: Who are her Parents, are they rich?
Me: Why are you asking?,
HIM: Just want to know cos if they aren't then you have messed up big time, seriously guy you no try .

I was shocked, though that's the harsh reality these days, no or very few guys want to marry girls from humble backgrounds.

Same goes for ladies too, if theirs even isn't more pronounced. Like a friend once said 'perceived ugly girls get married every weekend while the ones that think themselves beautiful buy "Aso ebi or anko" to attend such occasions hoping to meet Dangote's sons.

My question now is that what is happening to our value system, what's your take on everyone targeting the rich for marriage and who marries the average or seemingly poor?

Happy married life in advance, pardon me dat i wont be there. God bless ur union

Isn't this common sensical? Would you rather marry a poor man in this era of ipads, iphones and blackberries. Nobody wan suffer for this life. So, if you're a broke azz brother, rise up from your laziness whether phisical or mental and get cracking cos no ideal lady wants to settle with a broke azz brother. Not even one with potentials. God punish potentials. They need to see the money before joining your bandwagon.

On the contrary, I prefer to marry smart. It is better to share your life with someone who can provide engaging conversations and is a free-thinker. Money cannot buy wisdom.

Economic reasons in Nigeria is a factor. Also Nigerians love living beyond their means n marrying a rich dude is a sure way of maintaining that lifestyle.

vivian chinaza: I'm from a very humble background or should I say poor? Yea poor sounds like it, "humble" just makes it bearable, Lol, ok. But rich guys keep coming for me, and no one has ever cared about my family's financial/social status. In fact, that's the first thing I tell them, I'm always like "dear, don't let my looks deceive you, I'm from a very humble background o." I'm Vivian, and that should be enough!
So contrary to your opinion, majority of guys don't actually care.

A lot of ladies who have misplaced their priorities actually care about how rich a guy is before they consider him and I just pity them. I just hope they realize that the life of a man is a mystery. A man's life can change in a twinkle of an eye.

I'm friends with a lot of people who at one time couldn't even afford a decent meal, but just one phone call changed their lives for best, and vice versa.

Last year, I did a job for this couple that had no house. The groom is my friend and as at then the most valuable property he had was his laptop. In fact, when he told me he was getting married I was like "are u crazy?" Cos he didn't even have a house. Few weeks to the wedding someone gave them a room in his flat and they were squatting there. Whenever I went to the house to discuss their wedding I was always like "how could this girl get married to a man that doesn't have a house?" Honestly, I couldn't understand, I couldn't even think of myself doing it. Well, there marriage is a year old and they are now living in one of the beautifully furnished house I have ever seen.

Stories like this humble me, and I of all the things I have seen in my few years on earth, I have known that riches cannot be guaranteed. I have also known that life is a mystery.

So if you fall in love with someone from a rich background good, if you fall in love with someone from a humble background good too. Marrying a rich person is not a crime, marrying a poor person is not a crime either, provided that LOVE is the driving force.

u have said it all,I love u gan,sorry I mean ur post.

vivian chinaza: I'm from a very humble background or should I say poor? Yea poor sounds like it, "humble" just makes it bearable, Lol, ok. But rich guys keep coming for me, and no one has ever cared about my family's financial/social status. In fact, that's the first thing I tell them, I'm always like "dear, don't let my looks deceive you, I'm from a very humble background o." I'm Vivian, and that should be enough!
So contrary to your opinion, majority of guys don't actually care.

A lot of ladies who have misplaced their priorities actually care about how rich a guy is before they consider him and I just pity them. I just hope they realize that the life of a man is a mystery. A man's life can change in a twinkle of an eye.

I'm friends with a lot of people who at one time couldn't even afford a decent meal, but just one phone call changed their lives for best, and vice versa.

Last year, I did a job for this couple that had no house. The groom is my friend and as at then the most valuable property he had was his laptop. In fact, when he told me he was getting married I was like "are u crazy?" Cos he didn't even have a house. Few weeks to the wedding someone gave them a room in his flat and they were squatting there. Whenever I went to the house to discuss their wedding I was always like "how could this girl get married to a man that doesn't have a house?" Honestly, I couldn't understand, I couldn't even think of myself doing it. Well, there marriage is a year old and they are now living in one of the beautifully furnished house I have ever seen.

Stories like this humble me, and I of all the things I have seen in my few years on earth, I have known that riches cannot be guaranteed. I have also known that life is a mystery.

So if you fall in love with someone from a rich background good, if you fall in love with someone from a humble background good too. Marrying a rich person is not a crime, marrying a poor person is not a crime either, provided that LOVE is the driving force.

PLEASE ARE YOU A YOUNG LADY OR MATURED WOMAN? CANT IMAGINE A NAIJA GAL COMMENTING SO WONDERFULLY, YOU ARE A REAR PEARL MAY GOD REWARD YOU WITH YOUR HEART DESIRE, MEANWHILE MEET ME @ CITY PACK WUSE 2 FOR ISIEWU AND NKWOBI LOL (WIFE MATERIAL )

No body wan marry person wey d family go cari dia burden add 2 em own. Shikina

Most Nigerians are needy and they worship money and superficial things...

Nigerian mentality = medieval mentality...

afam4eva: Isn't this common sensical? Would you rather marry a poor man in this era of ipads, iphones and blackberries. Nobody wan suffer for this life. So, if you're a broke azz brother, rise up from your laziness whether phisical or mental and get cracking cos no ideal lady wants to settle with a broke azz brother. Not even one with potentials. God punish potentials. They need to see the money before joining your bandwagon.

Its really surprising how u think. Ur tot pattern is near apologetic.

vanstanzy:

Its really surprising how u think. Ur tot pattern is near apologetic.

That's actually not my personal opinion. I'm just echoing popular wisdom.