Nairaland Forum

Princess1982: I have never been vain about my looks but come on now you called me ugly. please you don't even believe that. In all my 30 years your the first man who has ever called me ugly.

dayokanu: Na wa oo

He is possesed by snake spirit. Dont be surprised if he starts biting you

dayokanu: Na wa oo

He is possesed by snake spirit. Dont be surprised if he starts biting you

Princess1982: Sure women should respect their husband but nobody should have to walk on egg shells in a marriage out of fear of being abused.

Princess1982: No it doesn't cause for a divorce but they need some serious counseling. Ik121 I agree.

ik121: even tho we'v nva agreed i tink i agree on u on ds 1 princess.
I know many nairaland olofofos wer busy enjoyin d tantrums we wer throwing at each oda tho u wer d 1 who started it initially.
Nobdy dzavs 2 be spat on.
Incase u misconstrued my position,
My point exactly was dat d 'Spitting Habit' of d husband doesn't call 4 a divorce atall cos dats wat d Op was xpectin 2 hear nd many wer teln her exactly dat, ignoring d wonderful attributes of d husband. Couples hv a way of setlin dia issues.
The husband ain't no monster.
This is christmas, away wit d hate. Show sum luv sister.
#Big hug.
1 Luv.

ik121: Mama k'uku dat was lyk 3months ago bt it seems 2 me lyk 3years cos e don tay 2 me. She's ystdyz news so irrelevant.
At ur request i'd be glad 2 post pics of me nd my current working class babe 2 shame dat ugly pic of urs on ur profile.
See ur giraffe neck nd ur ugly black lips, psffff. Agadi nwayi wit ur ala dala ada. Amam n'ikpu gi n'otelegi n'eshi ushi. Otula rere ere.

dayokanu: Na wa oo

He is possesed by snake spirit. Dont be surprised if he starts biting you

tarababy:

I have spoken to the pastor,friends and family.He promised all of them he would stop but obviously he can't control his temper.
i have suggested anger management course but he has refused to ever attend such course.
He would destroy door,throw pot of stew in the sink and any disgusting thing when he is angry.

Kobojunkie:

This is exactly why I asked if you are human. The woman is here complaining to you that she is being spat on by the supposed love of her life and instead of worrying about the spitting you automagically assume she does SILLY THINGS to warrant being spat on. Do you realize how morose that is in itself -- that assumption that a human being can do something to warrant that sort of response ? If your own wife/husband spat on you whenever he/she got peeved, is this the same advice you would implement in your case? Would you be willing to change yourself so the offender continues in his ways only you the victim refuse yourself even more to ACCOMMODATE the offense?

Even worse, you are here suggesting there is a side for the man. The man is the one who spits on a fellow human being and you are here suggesting there could be an explaination for why he spits on his wife? Are you for real?

Kobojunkie:

This is exactly why I asked if you are human. The woman is here complaining to you that she is being spat on by the supposed love of her life and instead of worrying about the spitting you automagically assume she does SILLY THINGS to warrant being spat on. Do you realize how morose that is in itself -- that assumption that a human being can do something to warrant that sort of response ? If your own wife/husband spat on you whenever he/she got peeved, is this the same advice you would implement in your case? Would you be willing to change yourself so the offender continues in his ways only you the victim refuse yourself even more to ACCOMMODATE the offense?

Even worse, you are here suggesting there is a side for the man. The man is the one who spits on a fellow human being and you are here suggesting there could be an explaination for why he spits on his wife? Are you for real?

SAFO: My wife tried that once and once only early on in our relationship during a heated argument. See me see stars, Kai. My mind went blank and I d@mn near hit her with a closed fist, although I did pepper her face with the hottest slap you can ever imagine.

Needless to say she never tried that shyte again. Matter of fact anytime we argue now, she knows not to really set my temper off.

breathless: @ OP. Uve got a real BAD situation @ hand. Na play, na play LABA-LABA take dey enter bush o. I pray God 2 give u wisdom and understanding 2 handle dis well. 4 now, simply avoid confrontations, arguements, quarrels etc wt him. Answer him sir wenever he calls u, even wen he provokes u, take 3 long breathe, smile and simply tell him "u`re a fine man wt a good heart" (whether na true or not).
He`ll one day realize he`s so immature and childish and probably apologise. U`ll succeed.

SAFO: My wife tried that once and once only early on in our relationship during a heated argument. See me see stars, Kai. My mind went blank and I d@mn near hit her with a closed fist, although I did pepper her face with the hottest slap you can ever imagine.

Needless to say she never tried that shyte again. Matter of fact anytime we argue now, she knows not to really set my temper off.

dayokanu: Na wa oo

He is possesed by snake spirit. Dont be surprised if he starts biting you

Princess1982: I don't blame you because, if somebody spit on me I would of had the same reaction.

slimchi2k2:

can ur wife beat u if u are the one spit on her face

tarababy: I have been married to my hubby for 5 years now.For the past two years anytime we have disagreement or quarrel,he would spit on my face.I have had a heart to heart discussion with him to stop this disgraceful habit and he promised to stop but still did it four days ago.

Even my mum came all the way from Nigeria to plead with him here in England to stop spitting on me. Anytime I call my mum about this matter,she would start crying saying my husband is laying a curse on me and nothing good will come out of me if he continues.

I am losing interest in this marriage because there is no hope that he would ever change.I do not think any normal man would spit on his dog,let alone his wife.
He says he sees me as a poo at that moment and that his why he does it.HE is the type that loses his temper easily and would do nasty thing,which he later regrets .He is a forty year old man,who has refused to grow up.

married and matured minds in the house, do you think am wasting my time with this man?

tarababy:

I have spoken to the pastor,friends and family.He promised all of them he would stop but obviously he can't control his temper.
i have suggested anger management course but he has refused to ever attend such course.
He would destroy door,throw pot of stew in the sink and any disgusting thing when he is angry.