I later confirmed that my feelings
for her was indeed LOVE when I received signs and requests from other pretty girls to be their boy-friends But I refused becus no one makes me happy except HER, am currently single but I just can't get her out of my mind!

ik121: Small pikin seekin advice. The las tym i sought 4 ds kinda advice was in my junior secondary. Abeg leav ur friend's babe cos if ur friend hapn 2 be my type u jus wudn't hv a 10% clue of wat i cud do 2 u.
Dia r many chicks errwhere my friend, too numerous 2 even choose frm. Look around.

k2039: I have been in your shoes so I know how you feel.

Isaiah 4:1 gives me hope always, we have more ladies than men.

You will find someone better than her, trust me you will, there are thousands of ladies like her and their are even more who are better than her.

Only of recent did one of my crush let me know she had a boyfriend, all I did was move her phone number to my sim, no calls and sms, after a week I got over her.

Channel your energy to being the best you can in everything you do and you will be surprised at the quality and caliber of girls that will chase you.

Ezechinwa: I never believed the Word LOVE truly existed until now! Three years ago I met this girl in the university, n she's really pretty! I never summoned courage to approach her until a year, we later became close friends and I started falling in-love with her! At first I didn't know what to classify my feelings for her , maybe,because I never believed in that word called LOVE! I asked her out months later and her responds was like "she would love to be my GF but she already has a BF,whom she Loves so much(and that BF eventually turns out to be a friend of mine)! I later confirmed that my feelings for her was indeed LOVE when I received signs and requests from other pretty girls to be their boy-friends But I refused becus no one makes me happy except HER, am currently single but I just can't get her out of my mind! And simultaneously don't want to betray my friend too! What Should I do guys? How can I forget her? If u had such similar experience, how did you tackle it?

Ezechinwa: I never believed the Word LOVE truly existed until now! Three years ago I met this girl in the university, n she's really pretty! I never summoned courage to approach her until a year, we later became close friends and I started falling in-love with her! At first I didn't know what to classify my feelings for her , maybe,because I never believed in that word called LOVE! I asked her out months later and her responds was like "she would love to be my GF but she already has a BF,whom she Loves so much(and that BF eventually turns out to be a friend of mine)! I later confirmed that my feelings for her was indeed LOVE when I received signs and requests from other pretty girls to be their boy-friends But I refused becus no one makes me happy except HER, am currently single but I just can't get her out of my mind! And simultaneously don't want to betray my friend too! What Should I do guys? How can I forget her? If u had such similar experience, how did you tackle it?

Mynd_44: 7 billion people on the planet, there are more females than male which means more that 3.5 billion females and you fell in love with her?

Dude falling in love might not be a choice as most times we find ourselves there but staying in love is up to us. You can decide that you both cannot be together and walk away instead of starting a chain of events that might not be satisfatory to anyone

Theben:
The 2006 census showed that there are more males than females in Nigeria. The reason isn't farfetched. Females are more subjected to ritual killings, some females are lost after r:ape, some die as a result of their subjection to physical abuse and due to poor health facilties in Naija, there is also an escalated rate of maternal maternity. That said, there is still a large number of female to choose from.

@op, you mentioned in your post that you have some female admirers, that alone has made everything easy for you. Go for one of these admirers, use her as a buffer till you recover completely from the crush you described above. Obviously, what you feel for that girl isn't love.

The advice from k2039 is also spot on. Look for things that would discourage you from thinking about her. Develop hobbies like playing chess, reading (not romantic novels o, cos it would just aggravate your wahala) and even writing. Hang-out with friends especially the females. With time, what you feel now would be history. Pele, i've been there before too

Ezechinwa: I never believed the Word LOVE truly existed until now! Three years ago I met this girl in the university, n she's really pretty! I never summoned courage to approach her until a year, we later became close friends and I started falling in-love with her! At first I didn't know what to classify my feelings for her , maybe,because I never believed in that word called LOVE! I asked her out months later and her responds was like "she would love to be my GF but she already has a BF,whom she Loves so much(and that BF eventually turns out to be a friend of mine)! I later confirmed that my feelings for her was indeed LOVE when I received signs and requests from other pretty girls to be their boy-friends But I refused becus no one makes me happy except HER, am currently single but I just can't get her out of my mind! And simultaneously don't want to betray my friend too! What Should I do guys? How can I forget her? If u had such similar experience, how did you tackle it?

k2039:

This is'nt love, you are just strongly infatuated to her. I think you love struck not in love at all.

How will you feel if your friend snatches your girl friend for you?.
The earlier you move on, the better for you, you have to understand that she is taken.

Love is objective and really knows when to let go.
Trust me if you love her, you would want her happiness, since she is happy in her relationship then you just have to remain friends with her.

k2039: I have been in your shoes so I know how you feel.

Isaiah 4:1 gives me hope always, we have more ladies than men.

You will find someone better than her, trust me you will, there are thousands of ladies like her and their are even more who are better than her.

Only of recent did one of my crush let me know she had a boyfriend, all I did was move her phone number to my sim, no calls and sms, after a week I got over her.

Channel your energy to being the best you can in everything you do and you will be surprised at the quality and caliber of girls that will chase you.

Wizee: Why is ur name k2039? U shld hv used love-doc, bcoz u giv good advise on Romance sec

k2039:

ik121: Dia r many chicks errwhere my friend, too numerous 2 even choose frm. Look around.

Ezechinwa: . Hello Love. Doc!!! Happy new year in advance!